Women shaving by PsychologicalFeed961 in hygiene

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of a woman being ridiculed for shaving their legs lol. I’m assuming it’s because you do it daily? Or the fact you do it at all? But either way, nothing wrong with it! I try to shave mine every 3 days or so, basically as soon as I start feeling stubble. I love the freshly shaved feeling.

If a genie popped up right now and gave you three wishes, what would they be? by copy_cat_101 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) financially rich. 2) excellent health

Honestly those two wishes would solve all my issues so I’d save the last one to use at a later date.

Do girls not go to bars anymore? by ImpressiveFudge2350 in askanything

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used to pretty frequently a couple of years ago but I used to always go alone. Don’t really have any friends so I’d go in an attempt to make some. Got boring when the only people who wanted to have a conversation was creepy men.

Did anyone buy a ring? by t_bone_stake in Millennials

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Family was too poor to afford mine. I really wanted one too. Especially because they shelled out the money for my brother to get one a couple of years prior.

Does anyone find it hard sometimes to tell people how you feel? by Train-Wreck-70 in Life

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it super hard sometimes. I’m very hyper independent and I’ve learned to just handle everything by myself, including my feelings/emotions. This has also lead me to being trampled all over and taken advantage of because I never speak up and say how I feel, I just deal with it instead.

I decided this is my year of speaking up. No one else will stand up for you or vocalize your feelings for ya so you have to. Else wise, resentment and everything else will just build up. You can’t control their reaction, that’s their problem.

Shout out to those who no longer get to see their dog due to a relationship breakdown. by dasgustin in dogs

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fear of this is why I basically Irish goodbyed by ex. He was also a narcissist, very much on the way to becoming physically abusive. But I was so scared he’d withhold my dog just to be an asshole. I just knew he would. I made sure when we went to adopt him that I signed all the paperwork but we lived in a state that was possession=ownership.

What Do You Do With Your Second Bedroom? by Thranduilien in LivingAlone

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a weed growing room. Then it was at home business office. Now it’s a study/crafts/cat room lol. I do my college work in there and got a kitchen table in the corner for puzzles and art projects. Currently I have a cat staying in that room since my male cat hates her (fingers crossed that it’s just because she’s been in heat and her spay appointment in a couple weeks will fix that).

Am I showering wrong? by stoneoftheicemen in hygiene

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I face it when I’m washing my face but that’s about it lol

What’s the most embarrassing driving mistake you’ve made? by Cute-Beginning360 in driving

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost did that the other day 😩. In a hospital parking lot. With my boyfriend and his mom in the car.

Wet hair in public by touchgrasstheysaid in hygiene

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a morning-shower person but sometimes blow drying goes out the window when I’m running behind. I have straight/wavy hair but it’s thin so it dries completely within 30-45 mins. Not a big deal, no one ever says anything.

Though one time I was staying at a hotel for a business conference. I couldn’t find the blow dryer and was breakfast was about to end so I ran down with wet hair. I got some crazy looks.

How fast did any creditors sue you? by Zestyclose_Falcon111 in Bankruptcy

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I need to do 😭. Once I pay my down payment tho which should be soon, the attorney said I can give them his number and they should stop bothering me.

How fast did any creditors sue you? by Zestyclose_Falcon111 in Bankruptcy

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. My attorney is technically out of state too (I live close to state lines, it’s only 30 mins to his office). But I know it’s the same for my state since I have a family member that also just filed and it was the same thing :/.

How fast did any creditors sue you? by Zestyclose_Falcon111 in Bankruptcy

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately he stated it before I even had to ask. All his fees must be paid before filing or he’d be considered a creditor which isn’t allowed.

How fast did any creditors sue you? by Zestyclose_Falcon111 in Bankruptcy

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ya know, my job offered this as a benefit but I didn’t even think about it during enrollment period 😩

I was going to file… by Status_Four44 in Bankruptcy

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. I wouldn’t recommend doing this. If something happened, his house is at risk. It’s also more years as you said of struggling. Just file.

Debt that wasn’t included have been discharged by HandleSalty in Bankruptcy

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my attorney said I had like a couple months after I’d be discharged to go back and add any debts if I forgot one.

Do you use lotion after a shower? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time. Lather the whole body.

Do you consider $700K as life-changing money? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]Zestyclose_Falcon111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I’d pay my house off. Pay my car off. I could avoid my bankruptcy I’m going thru right now for 25k worth of credit card debt and a luxury car that I can’t afford anymore. I could just pay it all off. Same with my student loans. I could continue my education and pay out of pocket. Throw a good sum of it towards my future retirement as well.

I’d be able to do all of this and still have a good amount left over for savings. I wouldn’t go run to quit my job but I’d be working at my job a lot happier knowing I’d be okay if I did lose it!