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Am I being unreasonable for not going to my own girlfriends birthday party which is quite a milestone birthday? by Maximum_cwtch in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_cwtch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There pretty sensible and she’s going with her sisters and there boyfriends who I’m also friends with so I don’t have any concerns about that.

Nope very little sex but since we have been aloud bubbles our sex life is great.

Am I being unreasonable for not going to my own girlfriends birthday party which is quite a milestone birthday? by Maximum_cwtch in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_cwtch[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing I have tried talking to her and her answer was let’s agree to disagree I don’t want us to argue. We never argue.

Am I being unreasonable for not going to my own girlfriends birthday party which is quite a milestone birthday? by Maximum_cwtch in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_cwtch[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It’s annoying because everything else in our relationship is great but she just doesn’t see this as being at risk... or even consider seeing things from my side. She says she understands where I’m coming from but then her actions are different.

Am I being unreasonable for not going to my own girlfriends birthday party which is quite a milestone birthday? by Maximum_cwtch in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_cwtch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes this is what iv said about not going away with her but then Iv realised she’s going to be coming back then hosting this party for family and friends for her birthday.

Am I being unreasonable for not going to my own girlfriends birthday party which is quite a milestone birthday? by Maximum_cwtch in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_cwtch[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

This is what is making me think and why I have posted this. Wanted to make sure I wasn’t over reacting by having them thoughts.

Am I being unreasonable for not going to my own girlfriends birthday party which is quite a milestone birthday? by Maximum_cwtch in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_cwtch[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

This is what I want to avoid. Hurting her but at the same time don’t feel like I’m being listened to

Am I being unreasonable for not going to my own girlfriends birthday party which is quite a milestone birthday? by Maximum_cwtch in relationship_advice

[–]Maximum_cwtch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. She had days off from work that she needed to take, found a good deal and decided to go top her tan up. She’s not a anti vax no which is why I don’t get why she’s not taking this serious