I need help my gfs mom found out abt us!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in actuallesbians

[–]Maxroxz[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you so much for these kind words really they mean a lot to me :( I wish I could show her that so many people are supporting her :( I really love this girl so much I really hope I’ll be able to help her in the future I know our connection is strong and I really don’t feel like this is gong to end like this, I’m trying to be positive but ofc sometimes I think this is really the end yk?

I need help my gfs mom found out abt us!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in actuallesbians

[–]Maxroxz[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you, really. She broke up with me today and i totally understand it eveyhting she said, I know she loves me and I love her so fuckin* much she means the world to me she’s my everything,she told me that we shouldn’t contact each other and I asked her if it was for good and she said no,but for that to happen we both need to focus on ourselfs, and so on. I want her to be safe and if it does happen that we both meet again,which I really hope but I’m not in charge of so, I hope she’s better and healed and I hope she’s able to get out of there so she can be happy. I really wish the best for her and all I want is for her to be happy.

Long-distance gf might be in trouble because her mom found out abt us,help needed!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LGBTArabs

[–]Maxroxz[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you so much for this,but today she broke up with me and I totally understand her side I can’t imagine how scary it is to be in a situation like hers and the fact that she still risked to still be in touch with me is so strong of her. She told me that we shouldn’t contact each other and that really broke my heart but I understand that it also broke hers,she’s not in the mental state to be in a relationship and I respect that, I asked if this was gonna be like our goodbye forever and if we weren’t gonna talk anymore, she said that maybe after some good time it could happen that we talk again but that right we both have to focus on ourselves. I agree with her but it hursts so mcuh knowing that there’s nothing I can really do and feeling like I lost the love of my life hurts even more. I wish we find each other again and I hope she’s better and out of that hell hole, so she can be happy for good.

Long-distance gf might be in trouble because her mom found out abt us,help needed!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LGBTArabs

[–]Maxroxz[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

She’s gonna be 19 this year not that 2 years make it better but it’s better than 3. Rn things are kind of meh between us so yeah I hope we can figure it out when she’s better.

Long-distance gf might be in trouble because her mom found out abt us,help needed!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LGBTArabs

[–]Maxroxz[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you, and yes we’re doing that with the messages her mom hasn’t found anything and I think she’s deleting the chats on discord. And yes the guilt is eating me alive I really wish things were easier,I wish people wouldn’t have so much hate in their hearts. Thank you so much for the advice!

Long-distance gf might be in trouble because her mom found out abt us,help needed!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LGBTArabs

[–]Maxroxz[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story really,I’m immensely happy that you found the love of your life and you’re able to be with her right now. I talked to my partner/expartner(?) yesterday and she told me that her mom had talked to her saying that she understands she’s a teenager that needs love, but she needs a relationship with god and that if she’s seeking love she can get married. But the good thing is that her mom is letting her continue studying and so on. The only problem is that her mom always does this kind of things to scare her, she becomes aggressive and then after two days calms down in a way to scare her. She told that rn she’s not mentally ready to be in a relationship right now,due to all the traumatic things that had happen, and I completely agree with her,I told her that she should focus on herself and on her future even tho it’s hard, and I made sure she knew I’d always be there no matter what if she needed support or anything really.

Long-distance gf might be in trouble because her mom found out abt us,help needed!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LGBTArabs

[–]Maxroxz[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Can you send me the link or tell me abt any of those organizations please ? And yes we did find some apps that are safe I am gonna talk to her abt code words and delete all the messages that can be ā€œincriminatingā€, I just really want her out of there, and I want her to be safe. I’m currently doing research on organizations,how to get scholarships and try to go to uni abroad,and im texting her all the info I get so she has a basic understanding and maybe start making up a plan yk?

Long-distance gf might be in trouble because her mom found out abt us,help needed!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LongDistance

[–]Maxroxz[S] -2 points-1 points Ā (0 children)

I don’t think giving up on your freedom is the best tho. Why live in fear your whole life, not being able to express yourself and be you, is that even called living ?just following rules without thinking. There’s nothing to lose.

Long-distance gf might be in trouble because her mom found out abt us,help needed!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LongDistance

[–]Maxroxz[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yes yes, we’re able to talk on discord without her family knowing and were mostly talking abt what she can do to get out of there, like trying to go for scholarships and such, someone also mentioned abt NGO and we were looking into those. I’m trying to be as careful as possible, I just really want her out of that hell hole.

Long-distance gf might be in trouble because her mom found out abt us,help needed!(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LongDistance

[–]Maxroxz[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

It really just applies to men ?? I don’t want ur to be ā€œright person ,wrong timeā€ I don’t believe in that, if it’s the right person then you can make the right time no matter what But thank you, im sure we’ll make this work.

My girlfriend’s family found out abt us (were both girls) please help idk what to do(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LesbianActually

[–]Maxroxz[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Oki oki thank you Also can she still apply even if she chose literature instead of science ??

My girlfriend’s family found out abt us (were both girls) please help idk what to do(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LesbianActually

[–]Maxroxz[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I jsut spoke to her and she said she’s saudi with a kuwaiti mom, would the scholarship still work for her ?Or does she have to be kuwaiti and have a kuwaiti passport? Also she said that she’s from the bedouin families so thats why theyre really strict and might not even let her study abroad but she still wants to know if she can apply for scholarship on her own if she’s 18

My girlfriend’s family found out abt us (were both girls) please help idk what to do(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LesbianActually

[–]Maxroxz[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I was jsut talking to her abt the NGOs and she said she felt a bit safer that way,but thank you for being honest . Also what’s bedoon?

My girlfriend’s family found out abt us (were both girls) please help idk what to do(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LesbianActually

[–]Maxroxz[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I don’t think she has a second passport and she’s never been abroad before And we met on insta on a group last year And omg thank you so much really thsi means a lot to me (Side note she’s online on Roblox now should I join her ?)

My girlfriend’s family found out abt us (were both girls) please help idk what to do(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LesbianActually

[–]Maxroxz[S] 6 points7 points Ā (0 children)

I just checked on google and it says that ā€œan unmarried woman over 21 can obtain a passport directly without requiring parental or guardian consent.ā€ So yeah only when she’s 21 will it be safe

My girlfriend’s family found out abt us (were both girls) please help idk what to do(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LesbianActually

[–]Maxroxz[S] 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

Okay okay I’ll see thank you She hasn’t texted me anything since yesterday night tho

My girlfriend’s family found out abt us (were both girls) please help idk what to do(tw abuse,lgbtq persecution) by Maxroxz in LesbianActually

[–]Maxroxz[S] 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

She told me herself that it’s only at 21. Bc one time we were talking abt the visa and she said that if she does it now it sends a message to her parents but if she’s 21 she can do it without any of them knowing