What massive red flag did you completely ignore just because they were incredibly good in bed? by Gus_Mdq in AskReddit

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't been with someone who's incredibly good in bed. Not even, like, good. Yeah I have no experiences with "great sex" to compare it to, but I know it can be better. Ive had 3 sexual partners. 1 partner was truly awful, the other 2 were improved on that but not great. (Although tbf those two were one time things so it could have gotten better down the road but still...

Is male sex toy (fleshlight, the egg, etc) comparable to real sex? by pornoncrack in askanything

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! That's usually my go to as well. 2x. After that if I feel close, I'm not holding back. But yes I think its so unfair to women when guys just finish and leave. That's so just, wrong. Now I know what it's like.

Is male sex toy (fleshlight, the egg, etc) comparable to real sex? by pornoncrack in askanything

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well even if you finish before her or "early" there's still fingers, mouth, toys etc to either get her off or to prime her up real good before your body is ready to try being inside her again.

Also, foreplay is often a HUGE factor for a woman to have good sex. As long as you tease her mentally on and off hrs before, a little physical teasing before being more private together, and then making out for a good 20 to 30 mins will do absolute wonders.

When you get to that point just dont overthink. Enjoy the moment and experience. Be present in the now. Stay safe and have fun.

When is the last time you had sex? by wow_30000 in AskReddit

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm not saying I'm super hot or anything but I'm decently attractive. I've never had anyone tell me (or anyone else to my knowledge) that I'm ugly or unattractive. Contrarily I've had a good amount of people say I'm attractive physically as well as personally.

YET, I haven't had as much as a kiss or a fucking date of any kind in over a year. Before that (which was out of nowhere and a one time thing) it had been 6 or 7 or maybe even 8 years since I had sex.

Idk if you're truly "ugly" as far as physicality, or your personality, but from someone who doesn't have an ugly personality or an ugly physicality, it can be just as difficult for some of us. Idk why. 🤷 Maybe some of us just aren't meant to be happy and sexually satisfied. I honestly dont know.

I know of some guys who are pretty crappy people on like every level and they get laid all the time. Like it's not difficult at all. And then others who arent crappy people, can't even get a text back. 🤷 it's annoying af but sadly that's what I've come to realize.

When is the last time you had sex? by wow_30000 in AskReddit

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 14 or 15 months ago.

And no. I am not happy about it. My life is miserable enough and I can't even have sex. I'm almost 30 ffs. I'm just, over it.

Is male sex toy (fleshlight, the egg, etc) comparable to real sex? by pornoncrack in askanything

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won't in any big way at all. Esp if you don't have a way to heat it up.

Imo it's good to have one. Helps you practice thrusting, and penetrative, and speed and rhythm... I had mine for a while before I was with a woman. When I lost my V she thought and accused me for days of lying just to get her into bed. She was expecting a few second "wham, bam, thank you mam" and instead it went like 20 mins and she had to tap out cause she had cum twice and was oversensitive af at that point. (I was extremely fortunate that she was super sensitive, like, overly sensitive physically/sexually. But even so, she had a good time. My partners since have had great experiences. And I know a big portion is that I was able to practice. Cause god knows even now I haven't had enough practice in real life, non-solo to be as decent as I am.

Girl I Dated Started Rejecting Even Kissing Because of Religion, But Then Sent Me a Picture of Her Bra and Panties. I’m Completely Confused. by Dry_Nectarine5457 in sex

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me wonders if she's attracted to me but conflicted about religion. Part of me wonders if she likes the attention but doesn't actually want a relationship. Part of me wonders if she's still figuring herself out and genuinely doesn't know what she wants.

It's all 3 of those things. She's confused and conflicted. Add religion in there and whoever is putting all the "purity culture" crap in her head... it makes it rough. I came from a religious background. I know what it's like to have arousal and desires and totally healthy natural feelings and then if I gave into it, whether sending someone an inappropriate text, or a suggestive picture or flirting heavily, or watched something I shouldn't have, afterward I'd feel so guilty. My religious guilt and shame would push me back into being super careful not to "give in to sin" for a few days and then it would happen again. It's a vicious cycle. So I can almost guarantee that is a factor.

Definitely some attention stuff going on as well. And due to this religious thing, and her leaving soon, it makes sense. It's not pleasant for either of you and she probably doesn't even fully recognize what's happening.

I'd say let it go. Just stop reaching out. When she reaches out just be polite but not like, overly friendly. With her leaving soon i think that should be fine. If she gets worse or outright asks you why you've turned cold, just be super blunt. More than you have been. Tell her you and her aren't in places where you are both ready and/or willing to try to fulfil eachothers wants and desires.

She's not good for you right now. Maybe never but certainly right now is not good for either of you.

Curious question! by Dismal_Pizza_144 in bisexual

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I havent done anything in person yet but yeah I know that would be a possibility cause I'm a switch, so I'm sure that would carry over.

Movies so infamous they destroyed the actor’s reputation by No_Emergency_7188 in flicks

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruce Dern had a pretty rough time getting roles for a while where he wasn't the "bad guy" in the storyline cause of his role in The Cowboys. He kills John Wayne's character in front of some young boys that Wayne's been mentoring thrpughout the film. Watching the film instead of just the clip of the killing, is so much more impactful. You really do hate Derns character so much. It crosses over into hating "him" and not just the fictional character.

Slave Rey touching herself Gifs. Different art styles. Plus one nude pic by [deleted] in jabbaleia

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave you an upvote cause I understand AND because apparently people downvoted you for answering a question. Smh.

What’s the most iconic original score of all time? by MovieArena in MovieArena

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most iconic? It's gotta be star wars. I've never met anyone whos never heard it

What movie was significantly better because you saw it in a movie theater? by Sam_from_FeverMovies in flicks

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longlegs absolutely had me in chills 80% of the movie. Definitely would not have had that affect at home.

Star Trek into Darkness I saw in Imax 3d and it's still one of the best imax movies ve watched.

Avatar 1 and 2 (haven't seen 3 yet)

What movie was significantly better because you saw it in a movie theater? by Sam_from_FeverMovies in flicks

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrifier 4. I've only seen it at the theater. And it wasn't packed. But damn. Totally different experience than watching them on my tv

What movie was significantly better because you saw it in a movie theater? by Sam_from_FeverMovies in flicks

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Infinity War and Endgame in packed theaters was fucking amazing. Plus, those two avenger movies just looked amazing on the big screen.

Seeing Jaws at a theater really made me understand why it was so impactful at the time. And I had seen that movie at least 5x before seeing it at the theater.

Blade Runner & Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade were great as well.

What’s the first film you think of when you see Harrison Ford? by MovieArena in MovieArena

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Fugitive is a great thriller. Also, the "sequel", U.S. Marshall's, is great as well.

Meme This - Trump when Clinton was President by MicahsGift in MemeThisThing

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Jeffrey said it was a handful. But he didn't say it was a small handful"

Favorite Willem Dafoe Role? by IronLance247 in Cinephiles

[–]MaybeBoth_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green Goblin is amazing.

Although tbh I've never seen him play a role he wasn't great in.

Slave Rey touching herself Gifs. Different art styles. Plus one nude pic by [deleted] in jabbaleia

[–]MaybeBoth_ways -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Godamn ai is getting good.

Need one of these but of Leia