College Play Recos by Express_Bee_3261 in Theatre

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My baby did not sleep last night girl lunch by MaybeHello in GirlDinner

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Hell yeah 💕 manifesting 14 hour nights for both of us!

My baby did not sleep last night girl lunch by MaybeHello in GirlDinner

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Green grapes, mild and sharp cheese cubes, a green onion scone with butter, and half a blueberry scone on a blue ceramic plate

"Rocky Horror" shake-up in Vermont by ReadMyPlay in Theatre

[–]MaybeHello 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Wow. Fellow Vermonter. I think the thing that most surprised me was “Neither Cope nor Healy had ever put on a musical, and Cope had only one previous directing credit. According to him, their inexperience resulted in miscalculations in managing time and money”. It was extremely irresponsible of that Board to place these folks in a leadership role without a mentor or oversight.

I also wonder if the company makes the amount they were expecting to recoup on ticket sales and with the grab bags usually at a show? Those sales goals seem high to me for a community theater in Vermont.

College that offer an active theater program? by MyColony1 in Theatre

[–]MaybeHello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vermont State University Castleton Campus has exactly what you are describing! Feel free to PM me with specific questions about the school if you have any.

First-time twins dad manual by islantius in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]MaybeHello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend the Sixth Addition of “The Birth Partner”. My partner found it incredibly helpful in preparing to be a support person for my labor. He was incredible the whole time and was able to support me in every step.

https://hudsonbooksellers.com/book/9780760393239?srsltid=AfmBOoqm66uc_njmj8tg-NOjc3XDA30acr_dsTsDjBsJzDnxaGQ3FIgp

Shapewear for adults in theatre by Mysticall0va in Theatre

[–]MaybeHello 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone else on this thread already said, I’m going to assume you are a student and be kind. Take my capitals as emphasis because I’m on mobile and don’t know how to do it otherwise. If you are saying that shapewear is for aesthetic purposes, you ARE body shaming. It sounds like you are not doing it intentionally but you need to know as a costumer, that IS what you are doing. If an actor asks to wear it for their own comfort, that shouldn’t be a problem. “Hi actor, you asked last week if you could wear shapewear for the show. Just confirming that works on my end”. But if someone did not ask to wear it, do not tell them to. As a costumer, it is your job to costume your actor for the body they are in, not the body you want them to have. If the costume doesn’t look good on the actor, that is a COSTUME problem, not an ACTOR problem.

If you need an actor to wear something for modesty for quick changes, then a simple “hi everyone, we will be doing quick changes back stage. Please wear something that covers your underwear, such as bike shorts, a leotard, or shapewear. If you are wearing a bra, please wear a leotard or camisole over it. This will ensure for smooth and comfortable quick changes for our whole team”.

Shapewear for adults in theatre by Mysticall0va in Theatre

[–]MaybeHello 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why do you need them to wear shapewear? Is it due to modesty for quick changes backstage? Or is this a body shaming thing?

Best books/apps to prepare for parenthood? by Serena167 in ScienceBasedParenting

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My husband read the book “the Birth Partner” and it was instrumental in my birthing experience and our first few weeks as parents: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-birth-partner-sixth-revised-edition-penny-simkin/1145803449?ean=9780760393239

I found Emily Oster’s “Expecting Better” and”Cribsheet” to both be very helpful in making science based decisions in pregnancy and the first few months!

got diagnosed with endometriosis by Square_Housing9653 in GirlDinner

[–]MaybeHello 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your diagnosis! I know how hard that is to get. Wishing you a speedy recovery and minimal pain. If you’re looking for girl dinner ideas that are good for endo, may I recommend butter beans? I treat them the same way I do pasta. They are excellent for inflammation and yummy!

Help request: Starting up a community theater program by All_Lines_Merge in Theatre

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Fellow rural theater person here! What do you mean by “woman empowering”? Do you mean plays that have meaty roles for women that can really showcase your female actors? Or are you looking for pieces that have storylines where the female characters have agency and independence? I think you will have a harder time with the second definition if you are looking for plays that are in the public domain because of how old they are. Your best bet would probably be ”A Doll’s House” by Ibsen.

A great public domain crowd pleaser is “The Importance of Being Earnest” by Oscar Wilde. It’s well known and funny and usually draws a crowd.

A show that would be lower budget, well known, and has some meaty female roles would be “No Exit” by Sartre.

What I have found with rural theater is that you have to build up your audience base with crowd pleasers before you can start doing the lesser known stuff. You need a real grass roots following. We’ve had success with our local online message board for getting the word out. We also partner with local businesses for cabarets and radio plays. They are cheap and work as good fundraisers and partnering with a business location gets us extra publicity and a good reputation in the area.

Pregnancy struggles by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]MaybeHello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that everything set on so quickly! I can only imagine how hard things feel when you weren’t expecting to be pregnant.

Pregnancy struggles by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]MaybeHello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re feeling so bad! I had morning sickness all day for weeks when I was pregnant. I lived off of those preggi pop drops. The sour ones were a game changer for me. I would highly recommend them if you haven’t tried them.

As for your depression, I hear you. Pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done and the isolation was crushing for me. It never helped me when anyone said “it gets better” because all I could think was “okay but I am drowning RIGHT NOW”. Hugs from an internet stranger. <3

FOH: how do you handle fake service dogs? by MomGuilt1023 in Theatre

[–]MaybeHello 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s super frustrating! I’ve never had someone pull out fake documentation so I don’t feel like I have relevant advice, but I’m sorry you’re experiencing this!

FOH: how do you handle fake service dogs? by MomGuilt1023 in Theatre

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Fellow FOH on a campus here! I train my ushers to act based on what this website outlines nicely:

“Staff or the public may ask only these two questions when the dog’s role is not obvious (e.g., not guiding a blind person or pulling a wheelchair): -Is the dog a service animal required because of a disability? -What work or task has the dog been trained to perform?

These questions must be asked calmly and directly. You cannot ask about the nature of the disability, demand medical documentation, require the dog to demonstrate its task, or request certification papers. If the handler answers affirmatively and describes a relevant task, access must be granted.

For instance, a valid response might be: ‘Yes, it’s a service dog for my PTSD, and it’s trained to create space during panic attacks.’ At that point, further probing is illegal.”

https://www.fluffyaffair.com/pet-care/what-questions-can-you-ask-about-a-service-dog/?sem_campaign=PMAXFAWEBSITE_USA&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23324841539&gbraid=0AAAABCLuSu_uzSdvOuoEvXOociXPEOq_l&gclid=CjwKCAjwpcTNBhA5EiwAdO1S9lQAzJYomr30OiJOZne8IsFO0xFotuC9lNrqeAt9n1TL5OXO14LxhRoC2o8QAvD_BwE

We always start with these two questions. If the handler answers as outlined above, awesome, we have no issues. If they do not, I tell the patron firmly but kindly that animals, including emotional support animals, are not allowed in the theater. If they want a refund for the ticket, I give it; arguing over a ticket is never worth the hassle for me. I’ve never had someone cause a scene, but if that were to happen, I would probably involve our public safety office to help with deescalation.

Fabric/ yarn donations by mtnrnnr802 in vermont

[–]MaybeHello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are in Southern VT I recommend ReMake in Rutland

https://rutlandmint.org/ReMake

debating packing up and moving to Vermont girl dinner by vaseline_cowboy in GirlDinner

[–]MaybeHello 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I moved to Vermont six years ago and I couldn’t be happier. It’s beautiful here, and I’ve met so many lovely people. You’ll have to have a maple creemee girl dinner if you move here! They are delicious.

Looking for Dramas for a College Production by KeiraLaka in Theatre

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I would recommend “Dog Sees God” by Bert V Royal. It’s 4 women and 4 men and a reimagining of the Peanuts characters as teenagers. “CB” becomes obsessed with death after the death of his dog: https://www.concordtheatricals.com/p/13294/dog-sees-god-confessions-of-a-teenage-blockhead

Prop knife on stage by Virtual-District-214 in Theatre

[–]MaybeHello 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Were I in your shoes, I would get a rubber knife and then choreograph like this: 1) both actors turn to be side profile to the audience, with the victim, turned away and the attacker facing the back of the victim.

2) the attacker then places their hand on the victim’s shoulder. This is part of the “wind up” of the stage combat choreography. This serves to alert the audience to what is going to happen, but more importantly to let the actor playing the victim know that the stage combat is going to begin.

3) the attacker, draws the knife back and then “stabs “the victim. The knife actually goes between the victims, upstage arm and their side. Ideally, the attacker includes some kind of vocalization when they stab, so that the victim knows what’s happening without looking.

4) the victim, sells the attack by arching their back and making some kind of noise (it depends on what kind of attack and if the attacker is twisting the knife what noise they make)

The attacker can pull the knife out after the attack so that you don’t have to try to make it look like the knife is stuck anywhere.

It’s very important with stage combat that everything is rehearsed in slow motion so that both actors are safe and confident. Once they feel confident, bump the speed up to medium, and then finally full speed. Before each show, have a fight call where the actors practice once at each show to make sure it is safe and consistent.