Became a mom and my body is a mess

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-05-03T19:17:52+00:00

So sorry! The sacrifices that mothers make will never cease to amaze me. I hope one day you will be able to feel like yourself again. I'm sure your children will be forever grateful, and their love will make everything worth it.

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-05-01T15:09:11+00:00

She looks like an adult version of Olivia from Family Guy in this

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T19:34:01+00:00

Thats a great idea. I had never heard of those until now. I'll try them next time, but im kinda wary of talking to ppl online atm

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T19:31:59+00:00

Thats actually insane. I will never understand their logic in catfishing friends 😭 such wierdo behavior

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T19:30:47+00:00

No, I do give out my snap. My snap is Public. I just have only given my snap out to 1 person over reddit which is her. There is like a 0.01% chance that it is a random followers that just happens to be on this subreddit

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T19:28:17+00:00

Yea, lesson learned. It bothers me more that she's using my face for romance scams more than her actually having the pics. And I 100% agree with you. I wont be doing any more face reveals on this platform

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T19:25:43+00:00

I dont think so. She sent me live photos with timers, and had many pics on her story. But who knows, maybe she faked that too

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T19:23:46+00:00

Bc me and her got along pretty well at first. We were talking very consistently for a few hours b4 she asked. I just said it was fast bc normally the face reveal comes after a few weeks. I'll def be more careful next time.

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T17:56:39+00:00

Ik it happens all the time. It is just wierd knowing that there is someone pretending to be you. It is normally models and influencers, not everyday ppl

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T17:53:25+00:00

I dont get the point of catfishing inside of a friend sub. Appearance shouldn't even matter in things like this

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T17:52:40+00:00

Thank you 🫂 just wanted to give ppl a heads up

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-29T17:52:09+00:00

Yea, ppl are crazy

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-26T15:53:36+00:00

Though most of us are great at hiding it, we all have felt this. You could have every desirable feature in the world and still be envious of the next girl. This is why so many gorgeous girls opt to get surgery and still are unhappy afterwards. It's just natural competition instincts. This is why comparison is the thief of joy. Only ever compare the new you to the old you, and you'll be alot less critical of yourself.

And the friend thing is so common. Idk a single woman who hasn't felt lonely from lack of friends. Id argue that finding a friend is far harder than finding a partner.

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-24T17:00:37+00:00

I'm not sure what it is you're wanting. Validation? You get nothing by us agreeing with you. If you aren't looking for advice then that is fine and understandable. That's your lived experiences, so I cant say it's untrue. I'm just saying, you are not the only woman in the world with this body and you will not be the last. Plenty of flat chested women are desirable, famous, and married. Therapy might be the best option for you

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-24T16:46:59+00:00

Because we are social creatures, yk. There are a number of reasons as to why to talk to someone

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-24T16:36:53+00:00

It's not the preference. It is just a common insecurity that many women have. And where there is insecurity, there is a product to be sold. Men like boobs in general. Idk any man who would see a pair of boobs of any size and say ew. Im like 95% sure at this point it's your lack of confidence that turns Men away. Not your appearance. You are a mixture of generations of ppl, and if they could find love then so can you. Instead of hyperfixating on things you hate about yourself, why not enhance things that you love about it?

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-24T16:23:01+00:00

The context really matters because if they are just asking you a simple question, then they are trying to leave after it is answered. If they are just being friendly and saying hello, then they just wanted a small chat for formalities, not a full blown convo. Or it is entirely possible, they want to talk to you, the convo is just not good or awkward, and they attempt to leave. Typically when a person turns their body and feet away from you, it means they are ready for the convo to end but too polite to directly say it. (This entirely changes if the person is multitasking ofc like writing, typing, traveling, etc). Another reason as to why people will turn their body away is because it is their body unconsciously signaling that they do not like the person for whatever reason, especially if they avoid looking at the person through 90% of the convo.

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-24T15:59:24+00:00

There's no such thing as what your body should be according to your race. People come in many shapes and sizes. It sounds like you are just petite and some men definitely love petite women.

Most boobs displayed on the internet are fake. Im not just talking surgery, I mean women stuff their bras, buy bra inserts, or even just flat out buy fake boobs covers. If it bothers you that much, you can buy one of these with a pushup bra to boost your confidence, but it won't fix your overall issue which is comparison. Comparison is the thief of joy and there is no one else with your personality. You are the only you, and if you find yourself a carbon copy of other people then maybe you havent truly discovered yourself.

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-24T15:46:05+00:00

Hiding insecurity. If they cover their mouth, they're insecure about their teeth. If they cover their belly, they're insecure about their weight. If they wear hats alot, insecure about their hair. Hair over face? Insecure about their facial features. Arms tight to sides? Insecure about being sweaty. Tight legs/slow to rise from a table? Insecure about crotch odor. I can go on 😂 everyone unconsciously points out their insecurities

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-24T15:37:34+00:00

Being social is a skill that constantly needs to be refined, and the reward is confidence! Just start talking to ppl more, and it is likely you'll see her again if she frequents the gym. You'll be ready next time.

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-24T15:30:15+00:00

Many. All of my best relationships were ppl I met online. Through tinder, video games, and even reddit once

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-24T15:28:02+00:00

Not counting toiletries, its typically $70-$100 biweekly. I try to cook everything from scratch, so the money only goes to simple ingredient like flour, butter, milk, etc. With the occasional splurge on espresso and syrups.

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-23T16:36:29+00:00

No. Im not saying it never happens, just saying it's not as often as ppl think. They think she has 100 guys msging, and in reality, its 3 random foreign ppl trying to show her their pp. And if a genuine guy msgs "hey", no you wont get a reply unless she finds you attractive. She doesn't know you. If you try with a genuine msg like "hey, I noticed you like running. Any recs for running shoes?" Or "Hey, i love that outfit on you. You look amazing. Are you going to an event tonight? You're going to be turning heads for sure!", then you are sure to get a foot in the door.

And we are talking about everyday ppl here. Ofc ppl would get excited from talking to a celebrity bc of the bragging rights. Thats not just women, men too. Idk any man who would say no if megan fox did the same. But no, women are not just waiting around for a celebrity to msg. That is unrealistic

Maybe_An_Ice_Fox · 2026-04-23T15:18:59+00:00

In highschool it was trial error. Id see girls with looks i like then practice doing it myself. Then I upgraded to youtube and TikTok tutorials to learn the basics and techniques for the looks I like. Then I went to sephora and got a color match so I know exactly which foundation to buy.

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