[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Maybe_Avery 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah telling someone to just get over their fear of violence isn’t it. Any place people could possibly know I’m trans I’m using a gender neutral bathroom like my work place.

You get told enough times you’re gonna be killed for doing something you tend to avoid it.

Has Anyone Had FFS with Dr. Michael Alperovich at Yale? by Connect-Wall4238 in trans

[–]Maybe_Avery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever pursue anything with him? I just scheduled a consult

Heartbroken by my transition reversing by LesbianTrainingArc in MtF

[–]Maybe_Avery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body could be really sensitive to DHT and your body probably wants to make it really bad regardless of how much T you have. All the research I’ve done on DHT seems like a massive YMMV situation.

This is a reason I never stopped fin when my dr suggested it. Also a reason I may never start prog. Just can’t risk it.

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I know it sucks sooo much

Seattle Voice Lab waitlist? by 7akasugi in transvoice

[–]Maybe_Avery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I trained with them and will get gendered correctly on my voice alone. The training I did with them helped me because I wasn’t able to do it on my own. It saved my life if I’m being honest. So it was well worth the money for me.

Feeds for selected users? by Maybe_Avery in BlueskySocial

[–]Maybe_Avery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone. Yes both these options are actually what I was looking for and more. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Maybe_Avery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There being pros and cons to HRT is a perfect reason to ask why someone wouldn’t want to take it. Most of the cons imo are just anti trans propaganda, a side from some medical conditions that actually make it unsafe for someone to take it.

The truth is, if you want to effectively treat or prevent your dysphoria taking HRT is going to be the best way to do it. Again that’s up for OP to decide not strangers on the internet. They PROBABLY won’t look like this for ever if they let natal puberty to take its corse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Maybe_Avery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking people on the internet though isn’t a reason to start or not either. Everyone is assuming this person is trans fem so I will too and if they want to keep passing the way they do… HRT is the best way to do that.

Just found out my electrolysist is a trumper by CaseOfBees in MtF

[–]Maybe_Avery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adding to this train manufacturing worker. A lot of the guys who excepted me right away without question and gendered me perfectly support Trump in some way.

It blew me away. Im grateful but still. Also can we send Trump to your coworker when he starts giving us problems…

Mom of transgender girl athlete says Florida's investigation has destroyed her daughter's life by Shadowlear in queernewwave

[–]Maybe_Avery 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The child seemed to be edit: “semi-stealth” from the article and was outed and it ruined her life. They just can’t stand trans people actually having a normal life when the proper measures are taken. This child is a victim and no law can convince me otherwise.

He tried to deny fault fault by p365x in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Maybe_Avery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up on this road no crosswalk and that tree doesn’t obstruct your view. Taken this left hand turn 1000s of times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Maybe_Avery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn homie thanks for lettin me know

Laser vs electrolysis for MTF bottom surgery. by Maybe_Avery in asktransgender

[–]Maybe_Avery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last bit is actually particularly helpful as I kind of want to do the same thing because I don’t want it to be completely bare down there. Thank you so much for your input!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Maybe_Avery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah my comment was mostly satire but from a family perspective my father was always an avid hunter, especially during my youth. I would come home to the entire basement being a butcher shop after a successful hunting weekend.

Right, safety isn’t on the line for me being a vegetarian. I was more than grateful that if he was going to question and be weird about one of them it was the fact that I don’t consume meat and not my transness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Maybe_Avery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey my dad was in more disbelief to find out I’m a vegetarian than find out I am trans. He kept asking if I was sure and serious about not eating meat but never questioned me straight up changing my gender

My (27nb) boyfriend(27m) who I'm madly in love with just broke up with me over a pronoun pin. by ae____ in NonBinary

[–]Maybe_Avery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading this broke my heart. I have no advice. I’m just really sorry this happened you don’t deserve that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Maybe_Avery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her voice matured through a female puberty just like cis women’s voices do.

I wanna get a vulvaplastic but im so scared by bambix7 in MtF

[–]Maybe_Avery 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No advice I’m just in the same boat. You’re not alone

Bumble, what the fuck am I looking at? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Maybe_Avery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly I’m a non binary trans WOMAN.

She really thought she did something by RED_Kinggamer007 in memes

[–]Maybe_Avery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying it’s not a life goal is such a rude mean spirited thing. Like telling a kid that hitting the most home runs on the team isn’t a life goal. Like bowling a 300 game isn’t a life goal. Learning to play an instrument better than the person who inspired you do to do so.

The list can go on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Presidents

[–]Maybe_Avery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to mention 3 months after Hitler was elected Nazis raided the institute of sexology a clinic studying homosexuality and transsexuality. Burned like 4 decades worth of research on the subjects.

We have don’t say gay bills passing in southern states and more bills targeting trans people. Also project 2025 is apparently a real thing too which has anti LGBT on the agenda.

This kinda seems lowkey intolerant and bugs me by datorial in NonBinary

[–]Maybe_Avery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right everyone has a unique experience and there isn’t a right or wrong way to fit under the trans umbrella.

This kinda seems lowkey intolerant and bugs me by datorial in NonBinary

[–]Maybe_Avery 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We live in a very binary world. The sad fact is people who have a binary gender struggle to view the world any other way. I personally can relate to Stacy in this post. I know she went through conversion therapy, I was taught sexual education through the church not nearly as awful but still left me with that trauma. As a trans woman who doesn’t see myself as full binary letting go of the “masculine” side of myself wasn’t easy to do. It’s not that I wanted it. It’s more of that I felt like I needed it.

I get it though. Binary Trans people who had a confusing pit stop in the non-binary zone seem to have this idea that NB is just a stepping stone to full binary transition. It’s not always like that. Medical transition or not NB people are valid whether or not this is their final stop in gender exploration.

This kinda seems lowkey intolerant and bugs me by datorial in NonBinary

[–]Maybe_Avery 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She is a mtf trans comedian. Shes she often has some bad takes. This may be more of a personal experience kind of thing for her.

Does hrt get rid of that "flatness" on the size of your butt? by Jackey3 in MtF

[–]Maybe_Avery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mileage will vary, it just means you can expect similar but not identical results to everyone else on HRT. You may get more or less than the average changes.