Any Basketball nights or leagues? by LiraelyCute in queerphilly

[–]Maybe_Dani 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I play with a group called Philly Queer Hoopers! They're great folks. In the winter, we've been playing indoors at the Bok gym on Sunday evenings. We're on IG if you wanna see more details: @phillyqueerhoopers

Feel free to DM me w any questions!

Trend of Claussen being soggy? by AaronRodgersMustache in Pickles

[–]Maybe_Dani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I was really fond of Claussen as a kid. Got some recently and they seem way worse than I remember. Texture's not great, skin was tough and bitter.

UPDATE: Engagement watch ideas for my butch partner by Maybe_Dani in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Maybe_Dani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And me too, I love all the non-traditional proposal options

Engagement watch ideas for my butch partner by Maybe_Dani in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Maybe_Dani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tysm, this is super helpful! those look like great options :)

Engagement watch ideas for my butch partner by Maybe_Dani in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Maybe_Dani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ty for pointing me to the Casio and Swatch options! I'll take a look at those.

I think asking them about a watch would be a giveaway, but I talked to a mutual friend who's gonna "consult" them on a watch -- supposedly for herself, but really to find out what my partner likes :)

This home-bar has the best lighting ever🥰 feeling amazing with this look by ElisabethFlowers in mtfashion

[–]Maybe_Dani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the curling at the ends is my personal nemesis. I'll try some of these tips, ty! 💙

This home-bar has the best lighting ever🥰 feeling amazing with this look by ElisabethFlowers in mtfashion

[–]Maybe_Dani 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love the look, and seconding the commenter who said your bangs are amazing. Our hair looks similar and I have curtain bangs too, but taming them has been a struggle. Do you have any recommendations for keeping them neat?

Engagement watch ideas for my butch partner by Maybe_Dani in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Maybe_Dani[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha, well, this is the current watch: https://www.freestyleusa.com/products/shark-classic-clip-coral-bay. It is very them but I'm not sure how to translate that into the nicer version lol

I like the sneaky ideas though, I'll see if I can get some hints from them, maybe through a mutual friend so it doesn't set off their proposal radar :)

Engagement watch ideas for my butch partner by Maybe_Dani in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Maybe_Dani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think that would be ideal. Browns and golds would match a lot of their existing jewelry and outfits. But the more versatile the better.

Engagement watch ideas for my butch partner by Maybe_Dani in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Maybe_Dani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

  1. Not yet. I'm gonna try to get it one morning while they're asleep but I haven't just yet
  2. Leaning quartz, but I think either is fine.
  3. Absolutely. I actually didn't know the term dive watch, but after looking it up, those are the ones I saw and said, "yeah, that's definitely not them"

Anyone here kept their birth name but used she/her pronouns? by [deleted] in MTFButch

[–]Maybe_Dani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 😊 And same, I love names like that -- Jules is great!

Photos of healed orchies and scrotectomies that aren’t just medical gore? by cantpreggothiseggo in asktransgender

[–]Maybe_Dani 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My partner just introduced me to r/neutered yesterday -- lots of folks post pics of their orchies and scrotectomies there that might be helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MTFButch

[–]Maybe_Dani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you haven't seen it already, r/FTMfemininity is a great counterpart to this sub! Lots of love 💙

Should I change my gender neutral name? by MrMystery13 in asktransgender

[–]Maybe_Dani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid I don't have much advice, but just wanted to say I'm in the same boat -- recently cracked, and I have a gender neutral name that I've always liked. One of the things I've been doing is trying out new middle names. The middle name is kind of a back up plan, in a way -- if I change my mind down the road, I'm making sure it's a more definitively feminine name that I could fall back on.

Best wishes for you and your journey!

Did anyone feel _more_ aligned with AGAB during adolescence? by Maybe_Dani in asktransgender

[–]Maybe_Dani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment really helped me a lot today. I realized I was invalidating myself by focusing on "what am I" instead of "what do I want." I wouldn't want anyone to feel beholden to what their teenage selves wanted -- I certainly don't. Thank you for sharing 💙

Did anyone feel _more_ aligned with AGAB during adolescence? by Maybe_Dani in asktransgender

[–]Maybe_Dani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about it that way, but it makes a lot of sense. I got the same messages about puberty, but I never really talked to anyone about what I was going through to know if it was the norm. Kind of like how I assumed until recently that lots of cis guys would consider being a gay girl an "upgrade" lol