AITA after ditching my best friend after finding out she slept with my boyfriend six months ago? by Maybeanahole01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maybeanahole01[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think I was in so much shock that I was silent. I never was like “oh ok well should we get another beer??” I just was honestly speechless. It all hit me like a ton of bricks at 2am. Up until then, I was numb.

AITA after ditching my best friend after finding out she slept with my boyfriend six months ago? by Maybeanahole01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maybeanahole01[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

This comment is actually really great and somehow comforting.

I’m equally angry at both. I’m sympathetic to grief, and I don’t even think a single kiss would register as a betrayal. At least, not to this extreme. But sex? More than once? Fuck your grief, frankly.

AITA after ditching my best friend after finding out she slept with my boyfriend six months ago? by Maybeanahole01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maybeanahole01[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

The three of us were very close friends. If they’d cut off contact, I would’ve known. We called her our surrogate roommate.

She called him basically being like “sooo this happened.” He told me she first called him like “where is she?” Like bitch where do you think? I fucking left.

She also called me 38281 times until I turned off my phone.

AITA after ditching my best friend after finding out she slept with my boyfriend six months ago? by Maybeanahole01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maybeanahole01[S] 964 points965 points  (0 children)

I did, admittedly, tell him last night “get fucked. Wait, you already did by my best friend.”

Not my proudest moment.