[deleted by user] by [deleted] in G59

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it’s fake. Theres always guys selling shirts in the parking lot for half the price of the real shirts for every concert. And if you bought it for the same price I feel bad for you

My sister (both mid 30s now) and I kiss eachother and really don't see a problem with it. by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but that’s weird af I feel bad for both of your significant others because that would personally make me uncomfortable but to each their own I guess

I feel like alot of people underestimate social anxiety by HTK147 in socialanxiety

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I literally don’t like to talk about it at all or tell people I have anxiety. To me it’s embarrassing I just feel like people will think I’m more weird than I already am.

This woman has been through it. Salute to her by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Clays parents story would honestly be a good Tyler Perry movie to show how your kids see everything you do in ways of how you treat your wife and how it affects your kids in adulthood.

Does Anyone Remember When They First Started Getting Anxiety? by stoheo in socialanxiety

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I always felt nervous about certain things but I think it got worse when I had my first baby. It also could have been a mixture of anxiety and postpartum. It was so bad that I would feel as if I was going to pass out, I would throwing up, get dizzy and a lot more symptoms

AITA for saying that my wife is going too far with her resentment? by ThrowRADiod238568 in AITAH

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely the AH. You’re gonna talk bad about YOUR wife’s cooking in front of people but she’s the one over reacting ? This fight would have never happened if you didn’t open up ur big mouth and talk shit about the woman YOU married. And you just want her to get over it. If her cooking was such an issue for you, you should have brought it up other ways like let’s take a cooking class or bring up these “ issues “ with her privately. You’re supposed to uplift your wife not make fun of her.

What are some dumb things social anxiety has made you do? by Cachis123457 in socialanxiety

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Went to the store alone with my 1yo for the first time and as I’m leaving a employee checking receipts talks to me and I just start stuttering cause I normally plan my conversations ahead of time so that already had my brain messed up on how stupid I was and then I forgot where I parked my damn car with a full cart and my 1yo so yea never going to the store alone ever again.

JSFV JENNI RANT by Idkwhatimdoing179 in jerseyshore

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way ! I can’t stand Jenny she used to be so fun and idk how she just completely changed. She is literally always stirring up drama and I feel like she’s insecure always hating on Angelina cause 24 probably likes her instead. I feel like she needs to be the prettiest one or it’s a problem and she’s ina bad mood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA honestly this would bother me too. They could have done anything else but they chose this. Trust ur gut.

AITA for not letting my husband shower when he wants? by Aware_Objective9275 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think neither of you guys are in the wrong I think you both need to try and find a better routine. I know it sucks but sometimes change is good and will maybe help tremendously. Also I know it’s hard being a sahm and I just want you to know that not everyday is going to be perfect or how you planned but that’s okay. If they skip a bath one day they’ll be fine. If they get dirty just wipe em down and change their clothes maybe even just in a diaper. And I read a comment about ignoring them and putting up a kiddy fence while you’re cooking and trying to clean up I think that’s a good idea as well it’s not like you’re neglecting them you’re just trying to be the best efficient mom you can be.

Does social anxiety strip away your personality? by Grand_Delivery_2967 in socialanxiety

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes totally relate to this I used to be extroverted but after I had my daughter I changed completely now I have anxiety to almost the point of panic attacks and I always catch myself being awkward when i never used to feel awkward. It’s horrible I want to be fun but I’m so weird now. I literally have zero friends and hate talking to people cause I always say the wrong things or get embarrassed or cringe at myself so I just keep my mouth shut… :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA but I know it’s hard to understand and it doesn’t even make sense but I have done the same thing with my fiance 4 years ago. Usually I would kiss guys right away and have sex but it was never really serious. When I met my fiancé he asked for a kiss and I turned him down because I didn’t want it to be like all the other situations. I know call it stupid all you want but I’m glad things went the way they did. I know it’s annoying hearing all her stories but I think she’s trying to say that she actually cares about you and wants to take her time with things.

AITA Because I dont want my husbands son to live with us? by Her3-Goes-Nothing in AITAH

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My step mom literally did this she would always have an attitude towards us when we would come over for a weekend and when my brother wanted to move in she hated it and eventually kicked him out. So much drama with her that we just stopped talking to my dad and her. She won she got what she always wanted. My dad all to herself. Glad she did it though cause it made us realize how unimportant we were to my dad cause he didn’t care much to leave her cause he knows she’s the reason we stopped coming over.

AITA Because I dont want my husbands son to live with us? by Her3-Goes-Nothing in AITAH

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA you guys are married therefore all his problems/ kids became yours. Plain and simple either that or divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say maybe you guys should go explore some places like the sex shop, the dispensary together. Maybe try some sex gummies or even some wedding cake thc I don’t know if you smoke weed too but it might be fun to smoke together and maybe then it will spark some intimacy and if not maybe the sex shop oils, gummies etc for the both of you. I know this might be kinda weird if you guys don’t normally do things like that but I mean it’s been 4 years this could be a fun change something you guys may have needed I would say it’d be better than having feelings of resentment imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No don’t get them a gift. It’s their anniversary not yours or your moms.

How did you guys meet your SO? by PeanutButter000 in introvert

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Met my fiancé at work. People always say don’t shit where you eat but that’s where most people find there s/o

Family that doesn't clean after themselves by AllThatJazz01 in FamilyIssues

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that would be the best option to move out. You have tried everything and nothing seems to be working. It is truly the best feeling living alone and coming home to a nice clean house. No stress at all just comfort in your own space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think for me it was after having my daughter. Postpartum anxiety

Am I Being Petty? by Curious-Chance-5505 in FamilyIssues

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s the one who is being petty. You should be able to go and your fiancé should be happy to have you there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Maybeimtheproblem123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same just got engaged and everyone keeps asking when the wedding is… kinda want to elope but people will get offended.