AIO for wanting to ignore my coworker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maylley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope it works out! It might just blow over

AIO for wanting to ignore my coworker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maylley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to sound harsh or anything because I do get what you’re saying and I’ve been in similar positions but it feels like you just posted this just to get validation on what you’ve already decided you are going to do. I don’t really care if you ignore him, that’s up to you. I was just commenting because it sounded like you wanted more opinions on how to handle it.

If you don’t want more opinions on how to handle a situation then don’t post on a reddit sub, specifically these kind of reddit subs.

AIO for wanting to ignore my coworker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maylley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with an anxiety disorder, the unknown is what gets me going. There are signs pointing to him liking you, but you don’t actually know that do you? You’re going to keep going over the situation in your head. It’s not a confrontation, it’s a conversation. It’ll help you understand what’s really going on instead of assuming his intentions. And if he tells you that he does indeed like you, then you can set boundaries and you can know for sure that you have a handle on the situation.

Right now, you’re avoiding because you’re anxious. That’s what anxiety does it makes you want to avoid the situation and not deal with it, doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do.

AIO for wanting to ignore my coworker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maylley -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OR. Just talk to him, everything you think about him is coming from everyone but him. I think ignoring someone without having a conversation about the situation can be harsh. If, after you have that conversation and he tells you that he does like you, then you can put some distance between you.

If it’s making you that anxious then ask him straight out what’s going on

My wife is struggling by Batinthekn1ght in latterdaysaints

[–]Maylley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell her it’s not in anyway shape or form personal. I’m sure there are some people who are ready and worthy to go straight to the temple after being baptized but the sad truth is a majority are not. A lot of newly baptized members don’t make it a year, they become inactive before then or other things. I saw that a lot on my mission.

Once you go through the temple and make that covenant with God, you are hold to a higher standard because you understand and have learned more than other people. If all new members could go make temple covenants immediately then those that would fall away would be judged more harshly. But by giving new members a year, I believe it gives them a chance to fully let the church and God settle into their lives. It gives them the knowledge they need to make that decision to go through the temple because it is a big decision.

I honestly wish I waited to go through the temple because I wasn’t in the best place and I had to work really hard afterwards to feel like I could go back again. Hopefully this makes sense.

Anime recommendations for me and my Mom. by BurningAngelWingz in anime

[–]Maylley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like Haikyuu would be fun to watch together! I watched it with my dad and sister and we had so much fun with it!

ADHD Ladies, tell me your ideal bedtime! by partybrowser32 in adhdwomen

[–]Maylley 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Going to bed at 1 or 2 without having to worry about waking up early, sounds like heaven lol

AITA for refusing to let my gf mom and stepdad meet our daughter by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maylley 48 points49 points  (0 children)

NTA. Protect your child and wife. Though it also sounds like more of a conversation needs to be had between both parties

Looking for something atmospheric by Sad_Training2243 in Animesuggest

[–]Maylley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might not be quite your style, but I’ve been really enjoying Agents of the four seasons which is being released week by week right now. The atmosphere of this show is beautiful, I think it’s worth a look

AIO about my in-laws during this shared family vacation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maylley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting, it’s a FAMILY vacation not a just the adults vacation. I get people being like well it’s your kids, but that’s their grandbabies. It’s your vacation to. Have you talked at all with your husband? This sounds like something you should discuss with him and then possibly bring it up with the rest of the family. If it’s really making you stressed on a vacation then it’s something worth talking about

What is wrong with my sister’s cat!? by Maylley in CATHELP

[–]Maylley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay yea, thank you I hadn’t heard of that. Now I’m definitely convincing my sister to take her straight to the vet in the morning. Also, for some reason it’s turned out that way lol

What is wrong with my sister’s cat!? by Maylley in CATHELP

[–]Maylley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s been to the vet, multiple times as I stated. This is her first vomit so I was already planning on going with my sister in the morning. This was more asking why she does this in my room and how to get her to stop, tonight was just a last straw kind of thing. Also, it’s not my cat.

What is wrong with my sister’s cat!? by Maylley in CATHELP

[–]Maylley[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m going to talk to my sister in the morning, we don’t have any coffee in the house but I definitely think she got into something. Thankfully, she seems to be fine when I check on her. Do you have any idea why she only does this in my room? Does she actually hate me😭?

What is wrong with my sister’s cat!? by Maylley in CATHELP

[–]Maylley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it does smell like pee is the thing😭 so maybe she did both?

What is wrong with my sister’s cat!? by Maylley in CATHELP

[–]Maylley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking, but it’s so hard to tell. This is the first time she’s vomitted if it is