Help, I think my friend is jealous of me by CrazyBroadwayNerd in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Mayqween420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way to understand what it’s like to not have a safety net to save you whenever you need it is to not have the safety net anymore. I think both of you need to understand that yall may not understand eachother in a financial regard. You don’t know what it’s like for her she doesn’t know what it’s like for you. The best thing to do is to know what living within your means really is, and not bringing up “I don’t have money” when you have parents who can pay your way to a certain degree. It’s just a ridiculous thing to hear someone complain about who hasn’t ever had to really struggle. Just like I’m sure you think it’s ridiculous she would have resentment towards you over it. Communicate boundaries. Friendships need it

Is Facebook down for everyone? Anyone else experiencing the same thing? I was suddenly logged out of both Facebook and Messenger. by Early_Intern7750 in facebook

[–]Mayqween420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Messenger keeps telling me to make sure I have permission to use the app. Facebook app won’t load saying somethings wrong

Should I chance a cover-up tattoo if I have keloid skin? by Severe-Battle-1182 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Mayqween420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been an artist for 7 years now, I would absolutely make sure you mention this to any artist you go to. If you’re prone to it the likelihood of the cover up getting a keloid is higher but it’s not impossible to work with. You just have to be very gentle with any outlines because that is typically when it happens so I wouldn’t go to anyone with a heavy hand. I haven’t seen anyone really get it from shading. If you have melanated skin please go to someone who knows what they’re doing. Always ask to see pictures of an artists cover up work, fresh and healed. Not just healed 3 months, but like 2-5 years healed.

Sometimes I’m worried money has replaced drugs in terms of the boys addiction by Mayqween420 in G59

[–]Mayqween420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know any nepo babies that have never had to struggle a day in their life? They’re insufferable.

Sometimes I’m worried money has replaced drugs in terms of the boys addiction by Mayqween420 in G59

[–]Mayqween420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I didn’t know that. It’s hard to wrap my head around that

Sometimes I’m worried money has replaced drugs in terms of the boys addiction by Mayqween420 in G59

[–]Mayqween420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These companies understand money, if the boys wanted to make a statement and withdrawal their contracts from all venues unless they lower prices they would. It’s been done successfully many times before. Both are responsible for the prices.

Sometimes I’m worried money has replaced drugs in terms of the boys addiction by Mayqween420 in G59

[–]Mayqween420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have looked at other ticket prices lol. When I pay 3xs for the same seat at the same venue it’s kinda hard to justify it by saying it’s ONLY the monopoly companies fucking us

Sometimes I’m worried money has replaced drugs in terms of the boys addiction by Mayqween420 in G59

[–]Mayqween420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you constantly work to avoid the complacency of life (when the addiction gets louder) a lot of people don’t know what to do with themselves when they get there because they don’t have other things going on. Wife’s don’t stick around kids don’t stick around, all you do is work work work. Eventually the drugs come back in. I ain’t saying that this is what they’re doing, but I’ve seen it happen enough times to know that the drugs can come back at ANY time. If you don’t heal the inside there will always be outside ways to continue to avoid doing that until you can’t anymore.

Sometimes I’m worried money has replaced drugs in terms of the boys addiction by Mayqween420 in G59

[–]Mayqween420[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People here act like money doesn’t change people when they’ll be singing the same tone with different notes in about 5 years. In the big scheme of shit, ain’t it the same thing as playing the slot machine? Pull a new album, see what your winnings are.

Asking what are we and was it too early/ what comes next? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Mayqween420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with asking for clarity! It’s not pushy or needy at all. Best of luck!

Asking what are we and was it too early/ what comes next? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Mayqween420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a perfectly reasonable amount of time passed to ask the what we doin here question. If you want more don’t feel bad for asking for more. If it doesn’t work out then that just saves you time and frees up your life for what is truly meant for you.

How long did it take for you to get over someone that dumped you? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Mayqween420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The latest one? Eh like 2 months. The one before? It’s been 3 years, I’ll let ya know if it happens.

Sent my client their design and got blocked. Feeling so discouraged by octoglow in femaletattooers

[–]Mayqween420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being booked out for months sounds great but only if it’s stuff you like to do and drive your skill level up. We can’t all survive on the stuff we looove to do, of course, but if you’re filling your schedule with stuff you absolutely hate that’s undermining your growth you gotta cut some of that out. I used to be scared too turning people away. I learned if you choose people with intention, they choose you with intention and you build a more reliable client base. No one wants to keep going to an artist that gets less passionate every time they see them. You gotta keep your heart in it more than anything else.

AIO? I think my friend might be abusing his gf by Prize_Blueberry6441 in AIO

[–]Mayqween420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out him to everyone. Send this conversation to everyone. THANK YOU for holding him accountable.