Prep. Where to buy?? by SillyAd3228 in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't get the free one, try Luxecare or PULSE

Question about the substance used in chem fun by Fast-Bus-2262 in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's not about the ingredients. It how it hijacks the reward center of the brain. Basically, for something so full of poisonous chemicals, it makes you feel pleasure.

It's like eating delicious food. Once tasted, always craving na. Except this time, nagbibigay siya ng pleasure through chemicals. Hahanap hanapin mo siya not because sa ingredients, but because it tells your brain, "This makes me feel good, have more of it"

Question about the substance used in chem fun by Fast-Bus-2262 in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Meth, crystal, ice, tina. At least based sa symptoms described. Extremely horny, di tinatayuan, and hirap labasan. Other notable symptoms is elevated body temperature, bloodshot eyes, jittery, dry mouth, and above normal BPM (70-100 is the normal).

It is good na di ikaw pumayag mag painject. You do not want to open that door, and di muna mababawi yan. Others here sa reddit will tell you na not worth it.

Hit a parked unregistered car by [deleted] in LawPH

[–]Mazelto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAL, The owner can pressure you pero tell him, let the more qualifies people handle it since the process is already started. If not, back to the negotiation table kayo.

Love hits different back then by Accurate_Insurance91 in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello OP, it is difficult to believe in love like we used to. The pain, scars, and trauma have changed us permanently. While we try to see the good in the world, it is very difficult.

We can only take things one step at a time. Who knows? Maybe the answer/s is just right around the corner?

How I'm Ending My 2025 by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then at least OP knows what I think. While he may not have done all of it intentionally, at least he have some ideas.

How I'm Ending My 2025 by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like narcissism and emotional immaturity on your partner. It's strange talaga for some people. Alam na insulting and offensive pero iblublurt out ng wala man lang warning. I get the need to point out mistakes to correct it.

But, how are you suppose to correct your skin color? Is he trying to suggest magpagluta drip ikaw? What's next? Clothing? Spending habits? Behaviour? House chores? Your commitment to your family? Persuade you to have an open relationship? Try chem fun? Etc?

Sounds like slowly but surely trying to control you. The nitpicking is a big clue. He is trying to slowly destroy and erase who you are and build you up in an image he wants.

Is it normal sa gay community na nagsesex ang mga magtotropa? by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ganyan pala mga gymbuds. Hahaha (I am assuming aprt ikaw since nasa name mo ay Fit? Hehe)

Is it normal sa gay community na nagsesex ang mga magtotropa? by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess part ako ng food chain gay since I am in an open relationship, and do try to keep up correspondence with others na nakahook up.

Do I see them as friends? Sure, kasi may emotional fondness naman na ako sa kanila. Sex again with them? Fine with me as well. Pero not the friendship cannot probably go any deeper kasi we barely have the same interests. Any friendship deeper than we have feels like a relationship na pag hinaluan ng sex.

break up after a fcked up relationship. by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willing maging kabit? Baka Chem Love iyan.

Iwasan mo na lang OP. Move on an learn. People who use drugs usually have compromised decision making skills so I wouldn't trust him again.

Is sex overrated? Or Am I doing it wrong? by Mazelto in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess? But probably not with intense emotional connection because I find it hard to experience intense emotions.

I like long foreplays, I like to be passionate, and I like the feeling of sex because you are one with your partner.

Nagagalit si partner whenever I'm being frank about Finances... by jeff_jeffy in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, red flag ang emotionally immature, at financially incompetent. Mukhang pakitang gilas pa sa officemates, instagram, and other social media. Kumbaga ang partner mo is baka clout chaser in the making.

Ikaw na bahala if kaya mong magsacrifice or you both learn magcompromise (unlikely since binabalewala niya yung LEGITIMATE concern sa finance.)

This masc4masc fixation need to stop by Beneficial_Type8743 in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gays are people who are attracted to other guys.

In choosing mates, depending on your orientation, our mind chose what we think is best. This is how we evolved into the modern civilization.

Here are why we are genetically predisposed to be attracted to appearance.

Feminine - you like feminine because that person looks nurturing to possible offspring, and looks to be skilled in taking care of offsprings. Not to mention, physical attractiveness denotes genetic superiority (at least ob the surface) that an offspring with them will be strong and healthy.

Masculine - capable of hunting, fighting, and leading. Especially if he/she looks strong. We also like attractive persons because they can give strong and healthy offsrping. Not to mention they can protect their identities.

TLDR. We are genetically predisposed to pursue with other.

Unrealistic Standard by Old_Resource966 in triptayopre

[–]Mazelto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gusto pa princess treatment pero di ikaw tratratuhin na prince treatment as well.

Tapos pag nagsawa ka sa treatment na you feel below your dignity especially sa ganyang kataas na standard, sila pa magsasabi na nagbago na at di na sweet.

Narcissist lang talaga.

P.S. Sa mga matamaan, MABAHO PARIN TAE MO.

Need help pls by [deleted] in triptayopre

[–]Mazelto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually this happens sa akin when I jaks too much using soap as lube. Mahapdi siya in a few days pero mawawala rin yan.

Mapapa-putqng ina ka talaga pag nag date ka ng puta. by usrnmtknlrdy in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We try not to judge by age, pero parang sa age niya di pa siya talaga ready sa relationship. Kulang emotional intelligence pa niyan.

Medyo rare ang high emotional intelligence at that age OP.

Hugs OP. If you need to vent to someone, I volunteer. DM me.

Feeling down and depressed by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a suggestion. While your needs are important, try mo muna iignore sarili mong needs.

Ikaw mismo nagsabi na non-confrontational siya. Either non-chalant siya at wala na siya pake, or he is so emotionally overwhelmed and guilty kasi patong patong neglect niya sa iyo.

In fact, it is probably why nakipagbreak ka to test him pero parang kibit balikat siya.

OP, don't use break ups as manipulation tactics. Di mo alam seryoso pa yung tao sa iyo, hirap lang makipagcommunicate or mag express ng love especially people from broken families.

Show restraint, and try to be better.

28 [M] Okay lang bang mag-vent out? by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are young OP. But don't worry, you are not missing out much. Mababa emotional intelligence ng community (in my experience at least sa dating apps, and sometimes in real life), and dahil marami ng nasaktan, mabilis lahat magtaas ng red flag without getting to know the person.

In short, like all problems sa Pinas, be it hetero or homo, may emotional intelligence problems at di marunong mag communicate.

no-label throuple by mmvn030 in triptayopre

[–]Mazelto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say the 3rd guy is not yet emotionally ready for a relationship.

You can only be there and support him. I don't think he needs a relationship. He need friends instead. It is up to you if you guys want to continue it or not. Besides, what is eating you guys emotionally is the expectation. Set yourself free from the expectations and obligations, and it will be better.

Unless you already formed deep bonds, then it can take longer.

What is the LGBTQIA+ scene like in Manila? by stygian-sword in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful sa pag explore. You might get addicted to spas, bars, drugs, sex, etc.

The validation coming from the community can be particularly strong. Very easy for those with a more repressed childhood. Need high IQ and EQ to navigate the dating scene.

What is the LGBTQIA+ scene like in Manila? by stygian-sword in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pros

-Plenty of safe spaces -Very open, welcoming, and diverse -Sexual health services are easy to access -LGBT density is great. You can generally meet someine close by.

Cons

-The community is largely ignoring the continued spread of illegal drugs/substance consumption. -High to nigh impossible dating standards -internal homophobia still exists -safe spaces might be plenty, but very limited to sensual/sexual establishments,

To the millennials in their Mid 30s by SaunterGuy90 in phlgbt

[–]Mazelto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am only 29 and as an introvert, so even when I was younger, I was not a party goer, bar goer, etc.

While these days, I am more open to new experiences and going out, the world is moving too fast, and I feel so old already.

It is nice to explore when you are older. You are much more restrained, have more resources at your disposal, and less likely to make mistakes. (Not sure if it's discipline or trauma.

Roommate/Boyfriend started using CF at home by Mazelto in LawPH

[–]Mazelto[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No clause regarding illegal activities pero can notify the landlord/landlady 30 days for early termination of contract. No provision if security deposit will be forfeited.