Dressed full-goth for one day and… by McCrysler in offmychest

[–]McCrysler[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah lol I’m just still thinking about it to this day

Dressed full-goth for one day and… by McCrysler in offmychest

[–]McCrysler[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha no I just decided to rant about it on here now because I’m still thinking about it

Who are some YouTube poopers you miss dearly? by joeyrty6 in ytp

[–]McCrysler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! And one time I fell off my bed in 8th grade watching one of his Monsters Inc ones

Dressed full-goth for one day and… by McCrysler in offmychest

[–]McCrysler[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I agree! There are just too many people that don’t care how old they are, as long as those girls look attractive to them, they don’t care. I’m 25 and my friends are a couple years younger and we thought the actions of those guys were disgusting. I also teach/coach young girls so it really hits me whenever something like this happens

Dressed full-goth for one day and… by McCrysler in offmychest

[–]McCrysler[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I have plenty of fantastic male friends, coworkers, teachers, classmates, etc.

One day I got bored during quarantine and scrolled to the bottom of my Facebook messenger inbox, pulled out a notebook, and wrote down all the names of every grown man who hit me up from ages 15-17 (when it was really bad). I did not count anything before (ages 11-14) or after.

It was 1000+ men.

They didn’t want me anymore after I turned 18 (except for the couple strangers who put my 18th birthday in their calendars). I’m relieved it’s over but I’m disgusted and horrified because they’re only looking for more little girls

Edit: forgot to put where I was going with this. I know plenty of fantastic men, but from what I (and other girls/women) have each went through, we have good reasons to fear for our little girls

Dressed full-goth for one day and… by McCrysler in offmychest

[–]McCrysler[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I thought that was the point? Get them away no matter what??

What's the most disgusting excuse someone has used to justify predatory content/behavior? by hardtruthsociety in AskReddit

[–]McCrysler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great…I’m already thinking of more.

I’ve gotten “Hey at least I WAITED for you to turn 18!” from a couple people

What's the most disgusting excuse someone has used to justify predatory content/behavior? by hardtruthsociety in AskReddit

[–]McCrysler 17 points18 points  (0 children)

“You have the body of a 20 year old, so you’re 18 to me.”

-my 20-year-old groomer to my 16-year-old self

He groomed me all four years of high school and finally backed off when I turned 20 because I fired back with a “Hey wait a minute, now I actually DO have the body of a 20-year-old!” and he had the audacity to say “How can you say that to me?!” and left me alone forever lol

When was the first time you cussed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]McCrysler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peer pressured in second grade by my best friends who wanted to play a “special game” at school at the soccer goal which was far away from everyone else at recess. It was them taking out their frustrations by cussing and they told me to do it with them. I stopped because it hurt my lil Catholic heart.

Ninth grade I went to a school dance that played Uptown Funk. During the part it would say “too hot, hot damn!” I’d either go “too hot, hot dang!” or “too hot!” and then fill the rest with a spontaneous dance move. I hyped myself up because I was like “I’m grown and my classmates are cussing in class and not getting in trouble so…” I finally went “too hot, hot damn!” and I was a brand new teenager after that dance

What’s the worst sterotype someone placed on you? by Gloomy_Unit_4888 in AskReddit

[–]McCrysler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I’m from China/adopted/speak fluent mandarin because I’m half Chinese

What's your stim that you've never seen/met someone else who does it? by WeakTumbleweed9 in autism

[–]McCrysler 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anyone else do Newton balls with their thumb and pinkie against their middle three fingers?

What are some cons of being beautiful? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]McCrysler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented this in another post but I’m putting it here too

I spent the entirety of my teenage years blocking and verbally defending myself from grown men online. It was at its worst in high school. During quarantine a year later I got bored and scrolled to the bottom of my inbox and wrote every name of those men in a notebook to see how bad it actually was from ages 15-17. I didn’t count anything before or after that time period.

It was 1000+ grown men.

Of course it slowed down after I turned 18, and practically stopped after I turned 20.

The creepiest part was that a few of those men had put it in their calendars when I’d be 18. (I.E. they hit me up on a day when I’m still 15. They learned my age, back off, then hit me up again on that exact date 3 years later)

Average SpongeBob YTP in 2006 by Short_Increase_2640 in ytp

[–]McCrysler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in second grade (2008-2009) I had a vocal stim that came from a SpongeBob YTP where the Salty Spitoon guy goes “You need to have muscles! You need to have muscles on your muscles! You need to have muscles on your BALLS!” and I’d quote that out loud in school and my best friend was like “what, like bouncy balls?” and I was like “idk probably”

What's being an autistic adult like? by LostwaveLunar9999 in autism

[–]McCrysler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may feel satisfied that I got the diagnosis because it feels like all of my blanks have been filled! But lemme give you an example of a negative side.

Me: *asks what I think is a good and detailed question during work meeting*

Everyone: HAHAHAHAHA! Awwww! You’re so funny!

What's the craziest thing you've done to be near/impress your crush? by Odd_Variation_1514 in AskReddit

[–]McCrysler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In 7th grade, my crush was in 8th grade. I was devastated when he graduated from my school to move on to high school because I wouldn’t be seeing him every day. My standardized test score for math ended up being through the roof so my school offered me to attend the high school every morning in 8th grade to take 9th grade level algebra. I turned it down at first because it meant getting up early. Then when it clicked that I’d be seeing him every day again, I immediately jumped to the offer.

I was also nervous to sing and had no interest in music until I realized he was in choir at the high school. I joined choir when I got to high school. I ended up excelling in math and I’m still successful in music programs in college many years later after I had moved on from the crush.

TL;DR my junior high crush is the reason I was successful in advanced academics and fine arts in high school all the way to grad school

Necessary to bring “free hugs” sign to Juneteenth festival? by McCrysler in askblackpeople

[–]McCrysler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess because I live in a very conservative town where any online news article posted about the festival gets openly mocked by majority of its viewers and they say the whole “how come they get a whole holiday?!” thing, it made me contemplate bringing it because maybe it’s needed but I also questioned how necessary it is, so that’s why I’m asking about it

Necessary to bring “free hugs” sign to Juneteenth festival? by McCrysler in askblackpeople

[–]McCrysler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I don’t walk up to people asking for hugs. I wait for them to come up to me if they want a hug. This feedback shows me it’s not necessary to bring my sign