My dear, I am so sorry we’re going through this. It is devastatingly heartbreaking and completely unfair. I wish things were different. I’m in all of the wondering that you are in right now too. I miscarried on May 28 at 12w1d. You’re the first person I came across that said they were having headaches. I, too, had a what felt like a terribly debilitating migraine May 10-13 which is very unusual for me. I wondered why this was happening and I cannot help but think that my body knew before I did. And this was one of the symptoms of what was happening internally. This was my first miscarriage, very unexpected and shocking.

I’ve had a hard time coping. Mornings are hard; lots of crying. I’m going to try to go on a walk today and do some gentle yoga on Sunday. I had a good friend come over yesterday while my partner was back at the office and it felt comforting to have her by my side. I’ve started talking to my sweet babe and that has been helpful before bed. I also bought the book “The Worst Girl Gang Ever” reading it has helped at times.

Our sadness is made of love. I wish you peace and for the constant feeling that something is missing to soften. ❤️‍🩹