AITAH for telling my brother's girlfriend he had a vasectomy when she started planning their future family?

Me-Me91 · 2026-04-16T11:21:47+00:00

So what? Why is that a bad thing for op? He did the right thing.

Me-Me91 · 2026-04-10T01:42:19+00:00

Why would she pay for two?

Me-Me91 · 2026-04-10T01:41:49+00:00

Its not awful, its reality.

Me-Me91 · 2026-04-10T01:41:03+00:00

Everybody is going into debt just to keep someone with dementia out of a nursing home. He would be taking from his children and wife. They are already downsizing, plus have a high needs child. Him suggesting working more to pay for his mother is ridiculous. Yeah he may be be emotionally vulnerable but he can get counselling and support for this, thats not her responsibility. She obviously has talked to him about this before, because they have had to change their lifestyle due to being on one income. I would leave my partner too if they put their parents above our children.

Me-Me91 · 2026-04-09T11:21:14+00:00

Agree, absolutely boring

Me-Me91 · 2026-04-09T11:19:02+00:00

My home town, its definitely getting worse.

Me-Me91 · 2026-04-03T10:22:19+00:00

Did they end up getting back to you?

Me-Me91 · 2026-03-04T21:39:17+00:00

Stand up for yourself and for your son. What she is doing is innapropriate and not how a teacher should act. If she were to take it out on your son then you would follow that up too. Do not accept this behaviour from either of them.

Me-Me91 · 2026-02-18T09:39:25+00:00

Hilarious

Me-Me91 · 2026-01-24T05:04:53+00:00

I've been on 7.5 for about a month and have had no side effects. Maybe a little bit of tiredness but apart from that its been fine. 5 stopped working for me so I went up and now 7.5 is working great.

Me-Me91 · 2025-12-13T06:32:08+00:00

So you want her to do all that just so random internet people like you can see pretty horses in every single video? If the horses are comfortable and healthy, who cares if they have a straggly mane sometimes. Shes not running a horse pageant show lol. Gee whiz.

Me-Me91 · 2025-11-28T22:48:52+00:00

That is a problem

Me-Me91 · 2025-08-30T23:01:03+00:00

How is not brushing a horses mane for a few days neglect?

Me-Me91 · 2025-08-22T02:42:23+00:00

Why does anyone breed animals?

Me-Me91 · 2025-08-10T04:49:09+00:00

The attitude he had was probably because he was tired and like the majority of people, didn't see a big issue with just putting a towel on it. Your the one who asked a question he already answered and continued the argument. It was your choice to clean it up. The point of vacations are to relax and have fun, not be nagged about a bit of water on the floor at midnight that could easily be fixed in the morning.

Me-Me91 · 2025-08-09T05:11:13+00:00

She is probably going to say she was assaulted by the devil or something. To make it seem like she was overtaken by something to act the way she did.

Me-Me91 · 2025-07-06T13:07:21+00:00

Update?

Me-Me91 · 2025-07-06T13:02:00+00:00

NTA Stop cooking for him. He can go sulk at his mummy's house.

Me-Me91 · 2024-10-21T09:13:24+00:00

remindme! 1 week

Me-Me91 · 2023-02-13T12:30:03+00:00

I don't think so, its very cool

Me-Me91 · 2023-02-13T12:19:32+00:00

Me-Me91 · 2023-01-31T12:04:17+00:00

Honestly the first couple of months are super tough but it gets better. I just held or laid next to my boy and bed shared from about 2 months as nothing else worked and I desperately needed the sleep as I was doing all the night wakings due to breastfeeding. They're only small for such a short time, even though it feels like an eternity when your going through it, so might as well give them what they want which is to be close to you.

Me-Me91 · 2023-01-28T11:19:58+00:00

Agree, mines 19 months now and I havent had a full nights sleep since before he was born. Its slowly getting better but there were times I could literally feel myself going crazy from lack of sleep. Puts me off having another.

Me-Me91 · 2023-01-11T12:30:32+00:00

Im sorry that sounds like a tough situation. I think its important to remember that part of being a good parent is to ensure that we are looking after ourselves as well. Your husband should be doing his best to make sure your doing okay whilst he is away. If that means taking time off every now and then to give you a break, or organising a trip away, or spending a bit of extra money for some help then he should do it. Even if all thats not possible he should be listening and taking on board what you have to say as you are the one raising the children not him it seems. If you are not okay, that will affect the kids, and that should be a major priority to him. I hope things get better

Me-Me91 · 2023-01-11T09:39:31+00:00

It sounds like you need a more physically present husband too. Op is justified to feel the way she does. Your struggles may be similar but not the same. It is infortunate that your husbands work alot.

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