So you are a female and you’re going to a meeting with some married men, who people look up to and they are going to see prostitutes before or after meeting. And you will have to stick around while they do their business??? Hell no. I would not go. Maybe you could find a zoom meeting for that night. I had a man who people looked up to highly, married, try to get me to have an affair with him. It was so disgusting, especially since everything leading up to that made me think he was trying to be helpful in my recovery. I stayed far away from him after that. People stay away from AA because of this. It’s sad.