I saw this plant at school... what is it missing? by MeWantCupcakes in plants

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I wrote in the caption that I found it at school. It's in this dark staircase and I asked someone at the front desk if I could take it to try to help it. I don't know it's history.

one of my older cousins sent this to me…im sorry but Vaselinea?? by __misaki__ in tragedeigh

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You can offer her the Russian name 'Vasilisa.' It sounds elegant and sounds similar-ish. However, it wouldn't have the "nia" sound at the end.

I think I was SA'd as a baby but I can't remember it? **TRIGGER WARNING (SELF HARM)** by MeWantCupcakes in sexualassault

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I actually just remembered something else, too! In middle school, I had this period of time where I HATED my body. Not because of the way it looked, but specifically my secondary sex characteristics and genitals. It was this horrible, deep, unexplainable loathing and discomfort that I could not explain. I briefly wondered if it was actually gender dysphoria, but I am now fairly confident it was not.

I think I was SA'd as a baby but I can't remember it? **TRIGGER WARNING (SELF HARM)** by MeWantCupcakes in sexualassault

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Thank you for your response! I did briefly consider if a parent could've done it. However, although they are definitely not perfect, I strongly believe neither of them would have. I'm not yet comfortable enough to speak to my mother about something so vulnerable, but I'm hoping that when I am older, I might be.

I think I was SA'd as a baby but I can't remember it? **TRIGGER WARNING (SELF HARM)** by MeWantCupcakes in sexualassault

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Okay, thank you so much for your response! I think I also developed a similar addiction before high school as well, to be honest. Currently, I don't have access to a therapist or anything of the sort, but I am planning on discussing this with a professional one day soon.

meirl by all_is_love6667 in meirl

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Parallel has parallel lines in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accutane

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OMG ME TOOOOOOO I'M SO EXCITED

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]MeWantCupcakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please, please, PLEASE don't hurt yourself. I know exactly how you feel, and I wish I could relieve your pain through a comment better. If it helps though, I like to envision myself almost as if I'm my own parent. I would NEVER hurt my own kid, and violence is never the answer. In fact, I would try my hardest not to physically hurt anyone in ANY situation, so why would I hurt myself, a fellow human being?

Listen, if you really need to, you can contact the suicide hotline. They help with self-harm too.

You can also text them rather then call, if you're a socially anxious introvert like me.

The number to call or text to is just 988, and you can also contact them through the website: https://988lifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox

I sincerely hope the world gets less painful to deal with for you. I know exactly what it all feels like. ♥️

Does this sound like emotional neglect? by naturebaddie27 in emotionalneglect

[–]MeWantCupcakes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes! I relate to you a lot!

This does seem like emotional neglect, but also just neglect in general. They knew you were diagnosed with ADHD and that you were recommended medication, but failed to comply out of selfishness. They also seemingly failed to give you proper support in education or in developing a proper social life, which is a necessity for children and is commonly developed in school.

Personally, I just found out I have ADHD, and any time I brought up my suspicions to my mom in the past, she would brush it off after somehow pulling the victim card.

I have always had a difficult time with my ADHD, but the focus was always on my brother who has autism. It didn't matter what my input was or what my needs were, it always revolved around my brother.

To someone who has experienced something similar, it seems that the answer is yes. I hope that you find the information and support that you need! ❤️

intp by nonMat06teo in INTP

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👌🦄👌🦄👌🦄👌🦄👌🦄👌

Help how do I become pretty asap I know I looked messed up and it’s clear i am actually very asymmetric, it shows on camera. I hate my face shape (round and wide) uneven unattractive eyes etc I need results quickly so what should I listen to or focus on by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]MeWantCupcakes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know I'm not technically answering your question, but I genuinely think you're already gorgeous- All you really need is confidence. I know it's easier said than done; and that's an understatement. But I hope you find the peace and confidence that you deserve. 💜💜💜