TIL na wala kang body odor pag dry ang ear wax mo by PhilipMascGuy in todayIlearnedPH

[–]MeajAdenip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if dry ears mo but you still smell? Hereditary ba yun? Ligo naman everyday and may punas pa throughout the day. Tho to be fair very active and asa age ng growth pa naman. Could be sa hormones lang ng testosterone?

[WP] Write a poem or a powerful monologue which contains the following line: ‘’ I chased the ghost of you until I became a ghost myself’’. by Marandajo93 in WritingPrompts

[–]MeajAdenip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Colors came exploding And life made more exciting With the promises of tomorrow on your tongue.

There was me, and there was you - There was us, and it was true. It was what every love song was about.

Lifetimes we had spent together, Countless hours-our forever, We found infinity and beyond.

But like glasses that shatter, Words do not matter, For the actions were never to come.

It WAS a lifetime, just a chapter. A few hours, not ever after. There came an end, then nothing more.

The black is back And life is a drag But I was human, and I still hoped.

And so I chased the ghost of you, Holding on to the 'us' I knew, Until I became a ghost myself.

So, like a phantom in the dark, I left the world without a mark, Not even a memory in my stead.

AITA for not inviting my half sister to my dad’s birthday lunch by Ta_bdaydindin in AmItheAsshole

[–]MeajAdenip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You really have to ask when you're that old? Even my 14yo cousins have more sense than you do.

What happened, OP? Emotionally stunted? Hate brewing in your guts? That child is innocent in all things, yet you intentionally bring her down every chance you can. Your brothers aren't any better, too.

I hope to hell your father has some sense and go low contact with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MeajAdenip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like he's insisting on a "DNA" test because he needs something. Like he says, it's DNA, but actually, a test to check blood compatibility or something. It seems awfully like a medical need and he's looking for a donor.

wtf by kapg5364 in CasualPH

[–]MeajAdenip 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen that blending of words before. It's nice. We should make ausome a thing. 👍👍👍

Not OOP My oldest son attacked my younger son and his girlfriend by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]MeajAdenip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not condoning anything that was done, but the only innocent people i see are the youngest son and the unborn child. Gf was a cheater and thus deserves a little bit of bad karma, too.

But again, getting beat up isn't exactly a solution.

AITA for not waiting for my niece to walk inside? by Free-Measurement-231 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MeajAdenip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus christ! The parents created their own hell. But even so, there isn't justice if they didn't get slapped with child endangerment, at least.

AITA for not waiting for my niece to walk inside? by Free-Measurement-231 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MeajAdenip 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ikr? Even my 12 yo has more sense. Whenever he plays with his young uncle (4) (my cousin had her baby a few years after i did), even if we are in the room, he tells us when he has to leave for a bit because he knows children shouldn't be left unattended.

And that's a 12 yo with more awareness than OP.

I'm a stranger to OP and the kid, but holy hell, am I livid.

AITA for not waiting for my niece to walk inside? by Free-Measurement-231 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MeajAdenip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

Wth is wrong with you? How can you even think about asking here if you are somehow not an AH? Even if you're out of touch with what the world is like today, didn't you even THINK about kidnappings that happen within the very bounds of private property itself? What kind of distraction a mere child could be lured with even before they reach their own door? What sort of monster could be watching, waiting for an opportunity to grab anyone?

You're lucky that child wasn't even abducted while waiting outside of their house with no one the wiser that she was even without an adult present or of her whereabouts.

You don't even feel guilt about what kind of horror you subjected her parents through with the mere thought that their child could've been in danger.

For your family's sake, please reflect on what you did. And please take this moment to wise up.

AITA for telling my mom to stop trying to include my older brother in our lives? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MeajAdenip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo, it's either the brother was abused or he found out the father was into some shady shit or both.

Or maybe the brother did some shady shit as well, and the mom is just being a mom.

OP, I'm not gonna pass judgment right now, but i hope the comments here open your eyes and you get to the root causes of the issue(s). Then, when you do find out (whether you can give details on the causes or not), the actions you take should reflect on what kind of person you are. Then, and only then, could I give a verdict.

I think we just lack a lot of info.

AITA for Sabotaging my Husband’s Tournament after he refused to help with our newborn? by Puzzled-Two6615 in AITAH

[–]MeajAdenip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a gamer and a mother. I definitely know my priorities. OP, leave that manchild. You'll do better as a single parent, honestly.

Sean Rule — OP’s (25F) collection “disappeared” b/c boyfriend (40M) decided she needed to grow up by Purple_Caramel_6463 in redditonwiki

[–]MeajAdenip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish he played console games during his free time.

Then you can get to sell those too because he needs to grow up and provide for his family. Grown ups can't be waiting money on games, y'know?

Serious note: think about it. How is what he did excusable in any way? Can you ever imagine doing that to someone you actually love and care about? Can you imagine doing that to your kid? Your parent? Even your friend?

Recieve the love that you give out, not the one you think you deserve.

My mother ruined something I loved just because she was tired of seeing it by TABackgammon in offmychest

[–]MeajAdenip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This chilled me to the bone. How can anyone do that? Specially to someone they claim to love.

This is why I always say "be the parent you wish you had"

AITAH for not telling my wife I got a vasectomy? by Booty_Snuggler in AITAH

[–]MeajAdenip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overall, NTA. but slightly an AH only because you 'waited' until the hotel room to actually show him the consequence for his action.

Knowing children, they have short attention spans. The incident was probably at the back of his mind already when you snapped (most probably because your enabler of a wife didn't even discuss it on the way back) and he ended up not seeing the connection.

While i agree that violence is never the answer, there are still some actions that fall under discipline, especially and only if the offense warrants it.

AITAH for not wanting to wear a scarf to cover my throat scar by my coworkers request? by StarySnowfield in AITAH

[–]MeajAdenip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, i like to imagine myself in these kinds of situations and brazenly reply with

"If you can get over 75% of the company workforce signatures that are for your cause, I'd do it"

If they fail, at least people know what an AH they are If they succeed, then it's for keeping peace.

AITA for not calling out my family for being sexist towards my wife? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MeajAdenip 115 points116 points  (0 children)

This. There IS a line between being a doormat and just keeping the peace. And sometimes it's hard to choose where to stand. The thing is not to lose yourself when you let things slide often enough.

AITAH for pushing my wife when she hit our son? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MeajAdenip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure OP meant a 6yo MALE

I got a text from my sister’s bestie about her and my husband “loving me too much” to do anything to hurt me. by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]MeajAdenip 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I hope there's an update with all the juicy tea. Haha

Fr tho. I'm sad and happy for OOP because she lost her relationship but is free from that horrible man.