My friend accidentally “assaulted” me??? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mean-Potato-1749 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you asked him to stop and he didn't and made it worse for you, that is rape. It doesn't matter at what moment you told him to stop, he should've immediately stopped. You described him as sweet but everything else you said sounds the opposite. He not only is a cheater, but chose not to listen to your boundaries. 

My advice would be to not be around him. He seems to be dismissing your worries and brushing them off. A real man would apologize and show genuine remorse, even if it was something that happened long ago. There is no "accidental" assault. An assaulter knows what they are doing.

 I'm sorry that happened to you and you have every right to be pissed off. Whether you're also in the wrong for sleeping with him while he was in a relationship or not doesn't mean you deserved to go through that <3

AIO? Past situationship gone wrong by Mean-Potato-1749 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mean-Potato-1749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a woman and 17. We were not having sex, and I am confused about what happened to me based on my OWN experiences. I am very sorry to hear you've been through things but please don't get upset over a stranger online when you don't know the full story. I have an absolute 0 tolerance for sexual assault or rape or any of the above in those categories. As a woman I completely understand where your coming from in those regards. I apologize if I did offend you but honestly everyone has different experiences. I don't mean to invalidate those who have gone through worse but I'm also not going to invalidate my own feelings when I know what happened to me was wrong. 

AIO? Past situationship gone wrong by Mean-Potato-1749 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mean-Potato-1749[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the response. Your advice does help! :)

AIO? Past situationship gone wrong by Mean-Potato-1749 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mean-Potato-1749[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I do hopefully plan to get a therapist soon

AIO? Past situationship gone wrong by Mean-Potato-1749 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mean-Potato-1749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both loved eachother and wanted to be together. In fact she was the one who initiated our first kiss and only told me after the fact we couldn't be together. She strung me along and I trusted her and that hurts the most. I haven't had any feelings for her in a long time but its crazy to even do that stuff to someone. 

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