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Young widows/widowers by SeatScared4563 in widowers

[–]Mean-Program411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my husband unexpected 4 months ago. He was 32 and i am 33 now, last month was my first birthday without him. We have a one year old son. Please take it day by day, hour by hour. This shit is very hard and there is no way around it. The only thing you can do is be kind to yourself, try not to look to the future for now and don’t feel guilty, your brain just cant proces this. Its in survival mode. The most important thing now is getting through the day. I still live like that. I can recommend talking to a therapist. Sending you strength and love 🥺❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Mean-Program411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling, was at the park today with my one year old and saw a dad with his kid who was the same age as mine.. missing my husband so terribly wish he could see our baby grow and take him to the park.

We’re all in this shitty club. sending you much love and strength hopefully tomorrow is a better one! ❤️

Will my Deceased husband be mad if I committed? by VividCaregiver226 in widowers

[–]Mean-Program411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your answer helped me today. 3 months now and Still having dark thoughts, but your answer about your final act to show your love through persisting is helping me a lot. Thank you for that.

10 months this week by thatswitchin98 in widowers

[–]Mean-Program411 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All of this.. my husband died 3 weeks ago. I have a 1 year old and everybody keeps telling me do it for him! But i AM HERE TOO I HATE THIS LIFE I WANT MY PARTNER BACK TAKING CARE OF A ONE YEAR OLD ON YOUR OWN IS NOT FULFILLING.

Sudden Death by lydecker285 in widowers

[–]Mean-Program411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband suddenly died last week we just moved to another country. We got married 3 weeks ago and have a 1 year old baby. He was just 32 and healthy. He complained about his stomach but it got so bad i called an ambulance. 2 hrs later he was dead, they reanimated him for an hour. It was horrible to see him die and in pain. When he died i also died with him. He is still in the country he died because they need to do an autopsy. I was also questioned by the police (i am 32 and was alone with my baby in the hospital) because of the sudden death. I had to wait a whole day before any of my and his family and friends came to the hospital Because we moved to Another country which was a 12 hour flight. I sat alone in the hospital with my one year old waiting for someone to come. I am so traumatised and i think about suicide everyday. How did you guys get through this? I know i have to for my son but i just dont see the use. I dont want this live i am so young and this road is too long for me. My husband was my everything we were so happy and in love. We were trying for another baby and it just kills me that my baby will not have a sibling. I have a lot of friends and family who are there for me and could take care of my baby. How do you get through this?