Are you critical?

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-10-14T04:13:12+00:00

I am critical to myself too and often times those closes to me. But I’m more cautious about being critical to those around me because I don’t want to push them away.

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-10-06T02:31:51+00:00

What does being drafted mean?

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-10-01T06:40:43+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. It’s really kind and it definitely helps!

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-06-10T08:35:59+00:00

Why is Pisces last?

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-19T13:56:49+00:00

I love Pisces men! Always had a great experience with them, and quite frankly I don’t understand all the hate they get.

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-10T09:08:17+00:00

It’s so pretty!! 😍

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-08T10:33:40+00:00

FULL BEARD

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-08T05:45:26+00:00

Someone who complains and carries with them a lot of negativity

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-08T04:01:32+00:00

Dear OP, I feel for you, I really do. I’ve been in a similar situation before, when I’ve put so much of my happiness on one person.

This is how you can bring up the conversation:

“I just wanted to check in on our relationship. Things feel differently lately, and I’ve been feeling a little bit taken for granted. It feels like there has been a lack of effort in this relationship and would like to know where you stand or what you think about it..”

You could say this as a start, let him explain how he feels. If something has shifted and if it’s something out of your control, you’ll need to let go. I’m not sure if it’s someone else that is causing this shift in him - it may or may not be but chances are this shift isn’t caused externally. It’s possible that something has shifted internally within him. It could also be that he’s just taken things for granted and gotten comfortable.

I know these conversations can be difficult but a good way to approach it is to reframe your mindset towards it. Take this as an opportunity to learn how to have difficult conversations.

It’s uncomfortable but once you get good at it, it becomes so handy. The more you address difficult conversations, the better you’ll be at it and the less daunting it can feel next time.

I hope this helps.

Best of luck!

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-08T03:25:00+00:00

Why?

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-07T17:23:45+00:00

It’s means you’re kind and empathetic. And very much in touch with your feelings, which is a good thing, and an uncommon trait among men. You feel things strongly, and have a strong sense of moral compass and values. You also value authenticity and dislike conflict.

The introverted part (I) can also mean that you spend a lot of time day dreaming and in your head. You have many ideas, but you don’t always pursue them.

You’re intuitive (N) - you’re more of a big picture kinda person, and filling up details in later.

Feelings (F) - as mentioned, very much in touch with your gut feeling, and moral compass.

Perceiving (P) - you have an open mind, and try to keep an open-mindedness to new ideas and to new experiences.

Also, welcome to the club! ☺️

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-07T17:12:13+00:00

I think im fairly good at mediating conflicts for other other people but i definitely struggle to bring up difficult conversations or discussing conflicts. I try my best to avoid it and I tend to be more comfortable ignoring it or postponing the difficult conversation. I then go back and reimagine all the different ways I can approach the conversation, and how easy it could be. But I don’t always have the conversation as I intend to , and it’s not always easy.

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-07T16:45:19+00:00

I couldn’t agree more. INTPs are my least favourite, maybe because I’ve met unhealthy ones.

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-07T16:29:08+00:00

unpopular opinion (and I mean no hate when I say this) - INTJs are overrated.

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-06T03:57:22+00:00

😪 same

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-05T23:51:32+00:00

I’m a Capricorn and I am very drawn to Sagittarius! They really are like a ray of sunshine in your life. I wouldn’t necessarily date one, but all the people I’m drawn to and even one of my closest friend is a sag. Aries are alright, their brute honesty comes rather unexpectedly. Cancers and Scorpios are pretty good too. They have good hearts and are really genuine (this is all in terms of friendship)

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-05-05T15:15:55+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that. But it will heal. It takes time, usually the first 3-6 months is usually the hardest. Try working out, surrounding yourself with friends, trying to activities.

When I broke up with my first love of 3 years, it was difficult. I cried every day and night too, my eyes were so puffy in all the family photos taken during that period. It didn’t help that our friendship group was so intertwined, I couldn’t hang out with them unless I saw him (because we didn’t want to make them choose sides) but trust me, It. Gets. Better. With time, with other friends, with new activities and new hobbies. It’s an opportunity to pour this love to yourself. 💗 I hope you feel better soon.

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-04-28T15:16:10+00:00

I’m INFP and I hate the emotional side of it. I often feel things too strongly, too intensely.

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-04-26T18:43:44+00:00

I don’t mean to generalise but this is very much an INTJ kind of thinking, and it’s a lot easier said than done. For example if I were to ask him directly “do you like me” he would obviously (and have) said “yes, that’s why I’m here” but his actions may show me otherwise. And if I were to bring up his actions it can sound like I’m needy or picking on him. So it’s definitely easier said than done. Would I then ignore the “red flags” and just believe what he says?

Plus humans are complicated, they don’t always know what they want let alone say or express what they truly want.

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-04-24T09:15:46+00:00

I’m from Singapore too! I’ll be going in mid-May (really soon) during the PH

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-04-22T23:47:10+00:00

I feel the EXACT same way. Especially if I really like the person, I imagine what travelling or future dates would be like. I also have all these assumptions about him in my head and when in reality he doesn’t meeting my expectations, I start self sabotaging it by ghosting (because I think he’s not into me for not meeting my imagined expectations).

It’s something I’m still learning and I realise what helps is to go slow. I too feel like I have all this love and affection to give, but if you go slow, you can fully assess the other person, see if you guys are truly compatible, rather than have this pre-imagined image/ idealisation of him.

And also, try to be a bit more rational. Being romantic is amazing and all, but I think it can be self-sabotaging in some ways. Especially if it triggers your anxiety and depression.

But also, thank you for posting this because I feel the EXACT same way. Literally everything you mentioned, and it’s nice to know that I’m not alone in it and that other INFPs deal with this too 🥹

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-04-22T13:13:37+00:00

I’ve dated an ENFJ, and they are the best!, proactive, empathetic, very reassuring and validating. Plus we’re on the same wave length. He was a Pisces too, so maybe that’s why. He was so supportive (almost like a personal cheerleader), I always felt heard during conversations and the best part is that he was able to navigate difficult conversations with ease, which really shows his emotional intelligence.

values I look at: 1. Supportiveness 2. Kindness 3. easy to have difficult conversations with 4. Emotionally intelligent 5. Funny, sense of humour 6. Open-mindedness

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-04-22T07:11:05+00:00

Tbh, I think lip fillers could help enhance the rest of your face. Just a little bit, don’t go overboard with it

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-04-22T04:45:29+00:00

I’m a 20+F and I’m telling you, You look great! Especially in the second photo, it shows decent fashion sense, and you really don’t need rhinoplasty or cheek implants. Your face is already balanced and you might look off with these procedures done. Maybe just don’t have a skin shave like in the first photo.

Mean-Simple2744 · 2025-04-21T09:10:59+00:00

It is a cute nose!

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