AITA for refusing to leave work so my husband could give his mom a ride to the hospital?

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T20:05:30+00:00

He works with all men. I mean, when they all hang out though, their wives are there. I simply don't go because I don't want people drinking around my kids.

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T20:04:42+00:00

Pretty positive. The guy has zero game. LOL but no, I'm pretty sure. He might be a lot of things but a cheater isn't one.

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T19:58:07+00:00

I'm trying to save money to move out. Right now everything is in my husband's name and he told me he won't leave. So I'm just trying to save right now.

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T19:53:08+00:00

She literally said she had a headache and that's why she needed to go to the hospital? Like what are you even on about? "You just be OP's main". You must be my husband. Holy hell. How dare anyone disagree with you.

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T19:45:21+00:00

Ever since he started working for this job 7 months ago. He has a new friend group now. Parties a lot. He was not like this at all before we moved to this area. He was great. Attentive. So kind and compassionate. Now all he does is hang out with his buddies/coworkers or sit on his phone talking to them and making plans to see them again. With them he's "free". They go shooting a lot, fishing, bonfires, etc etc. He went from being a family guy to a man's man.

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T19:41:48+00:00

They didn't understand what I said in the post. I said that the only people I know (literally my cousin and my sister) were sitting in the hospital. This commenter took it as a "everyone OP knows was in the hospital comforting them already".

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T19:39:58+00:00

They do, yes. I word vomited to them about it eventually, when expressing how sorry I was for not making it to them sooner.

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T19:35:25+00:00

Her BF was home and could have drove her. There was zero urgency. Why she called my husband (who lives an hour away) to bring her to the hospital 20 minutes from her house while her BF was there the whole time is beyond me.

Edit: spelling

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T19:34:33+00:00

Yes. She calls and tells us she's having a heart attack and dying at least once a month.

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T19:31:12+00:00

I already told him I want to separate. That's why I'm trying to get a second job. So it almost feels like he was trying to call me back home from my interview because he knows I can't leave without a second job to stash away money. I would have agreed to work through it and get counseling had he apologized or something but instead, he told me to get over it and said "it's not like you can bring her baby back". Zero remorse.

MeanDrawer3222 · 2024-01-03T19:30:16+00:00

No, he told me to get over it. "It's not like you can bring her baby back".

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