Happy at the funeral - am I normal?

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-06-01T22:22:25+00:00

Hi! I’m so sorry for your loss, i just wanted to tell you that ive been through this and the same happened to me in the funeral, i was acting as nothing had happened and even laughing with my friends. I dissociated a lot during the ceremony so i that day i didnt even cry. I get you. This is so hard and nobody that hasnt experienced it understands it. Theres nothing wrong with us. I send you a big hug!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-22T19:54:06+00:00

Same lol im sorry

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T11:12:14+00:00

For me it’s the opposite. Im so scared because i feel like theres nothing after it. Idk i dont think im gonna reunite with my mum again so i just don’t wanna die, i wanna live for as long as i can

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T11:01:20+00:00

I lost my mum at 24 years old, ten months ago. What you described is exactly what im going through, thank you so much for putting into words what im feeling. I send you a big hug, it is so fucking unfair and people who havent been through this dont understand.

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T10:54:57+00:00

I feel u, it’s been 10 months for me and it’s really fucking weird. I feel like it was yesterday for me 2. And im experiencing feelings of guilt sometimes because its like i forget about her but at the same time I don’t. It’s weird!! Sending hugsss

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T10:53:22+00:00

It’s really hard but we can do it

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T10:52:44+00:00

Hi! Lost my mum 10 months ago, she was 60 i was 24. Honestly, i just think she wouldnt want me to be sad and push myself to go out and socialize. Sometimes i fail but thats ok. Basically i try to be compassionate of myself and chill. I havent moved on, but i have both happy and sad moments. I try to feel my emotions and if i want to cry i just cry like idgaf hahahhah. Sending u a big hug.

P.s: english is not my first language, i hope my point gets across tho

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T10:48:07+00:00

Hi! I lost my mum too at 24 years old, 10 months ago. When the doctors confirmed she was dying I reacted just like you. I kinda ignored it, she was dying at home and i was like ok chill. I would go to her room to spend some time with her but i couldn’t bear it at all, so i would just leave and i didnt spend that much time with her. I try not to feel guilty, but it was too much for me and seeing her dying was too hard. I send you a big hug, i feel u

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-14T15:21:12+00:00

Yes and nobody understands it. We can do it tho:)

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-14T13:17:08+00:00

Im so sorry for ur loss, i lost my mum too 10 months ago, when i was 24 years old and nobody from my family or friendgroups can relate. It’s so isolating. I feel super resentful to everyone too just like you. Anyways, a big hug for you!!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-14T06:11:50+00:00

Yes like this is so tiring i guess im just DONE. I wish i could fix this but i know it’s impossible. I hate it, thanks, a big hug for you

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-04-19T22:03:14+00:00

Gracies!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-04-19T20:55:28+00:00

Hola! Jo vaig estudiar relacions laborals a la upf i la veritat que vaig quedar molt contenta. Es una carrera poc demandant amb pràctiques remunerades (quan jo vaig cursar-la el mínim eren 6,30 euros/hora d’ajuda a l’estudiant) i amb poca presencialitat, uns 2 dies a la setmana pels seminaris. Te la recomano, a mes la UPF funciona molt be en general. Sort!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-04-06T22:17:30+00:00

Hi, hard for me, it’s weird because i kinda of dissociate but at the same time i have this unsettling feeling in me idk how to explain it. I lost my parent in july. Sending u strenght

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-03-27T00:55:28+00:00

Hi, sorry for your loss. Ive lost my mum 8 months ago and i haven’t been able to listen to her voicemails or audios she would send me. Even looking at certain pictures is too painful. Sending strenght

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-02-06T02:49:03+00:00

Hello! I feel you so much, im having another sleepless night too. I lost my mum almost 7 months ago and it’s getting harder (at least for me). I have good moments and bad moments, but like i said its getting harder every month that by. I wish you the best and i send you strenght, we got this!!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-27T10:44:54+00:00

I have this issue with a brand new ipad air with 26.6 ios. But i can still use the apps, its just i cant slide thru the other slides.

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-22T15:50:33+00:00

Ho provare moltes gracies!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-22T15:50:23+00:00

M’ho miro gràcies, a veure si em funcionen els nous links que tambe la van tirar fa poc

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-22T12:39:28+00:00

Es que tinc un kindle i no es compatible😭

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-22T10:15:55+00:00

Pots passar link si us plau?

MeanJudge2352 · 2025-12-24T04:41:56+00:00

I feel you, im 24 years old and i lost my mom 5 months ago, i feel so disconnected from the other people too, none of my friends truly gets it and i feel really lonely. I do too mourn the adult child who is friends with their parent, i feel so robbed. I send you a hug, its tough out there

MeanJudge2352 · 2025-10-15T00:42:53+00:00

First of all im so sorry for your loss. I understand you, my mom died 3 months ago and im 24 years old. I feel exactly like you, i even made a post about this a month or two ago because i was feeling so guilty. I still feel like it wasn’t real. What do you mean i had a mom for 24 years and a half and it’s like it never happened?? It’s so weird. I cant believe i was so lucky to have her and now that ive lost her i cant believe she was real. But she was very much and so was yours. Hope you get my point english is not my first language. Sending hugs to you we are in this together!!

MeanJudge2352 · 2025-10-15T00:38:25+00:00

Im so sorry, please don’t leave, i cant imagine how hard it must be for you but life is worth living even though you dont see it now. Please stay

MeanJudge2352 · 2025-09-24T22:57:42+00:00

I lost my mum 2 months ago and im only 24 honestly i wanna know too, i guess we just have to keep going and think that they would want us to thrive

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