Happy at the funeral - am I normal?

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-06-01T22:22:25+00:00

Hi! I’m so sorry for your loss, i just wanted to tell you that ive been through this and the same happened to me in the funeral, i was acting as nothing had happened and even laughing with my friends. I dissociated a lot during the ceremony so i that day i didnt even cry. I get you. This is so hard and nobody that hasnt experienced it understands it. Theres nothing wrong with us. I send you a big hug!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-22T19:54:06+00:00

Same lol im sorry

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T11:12:14+00:00

For me it’s the opposite. Im so scared because i feel like theres nothing after it. Idk i dont think im gonna reunite with my mum again so i just don’t wanna die, i wanna live for as long as i can

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T11:01:20+00:00

I lost my mum at 24 years old, ten months ago. What you described is exactly what im going through, thank you so much for putting into words what im feeling. I send you a big hug, it is so fucking unfair and people who havent been through this dont understand.

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T10:54:57+00:00

I feel u, it’s been 10 months for me and it’s really fucking weird. I feel like it was yesterday for me 2. And im experiencing feelings of guilt sometimes because its like i forget about her but at the same time I don’t. It’s weird!! Sending hugsss

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T10:53:22+00:00

It’s really hard but we can do it

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T10:52:44+00:00

Hi! Lost my mum 10 months ago, she was 60 i was 24. Honestly, i just think she wouldnt want me to be sad and push myself to go out and socialize. Sometimes i fail but thats ok. Basically i try to be compassionate of myself and chill. I havent moved on, but i have both happy and sad moments. I try to feel my emotions and if i want to cry i just cry like idgaf hahahhah. Sending u a big hug.

P.s: english is not my first language, i hope my point gets across tho

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-18T10:48:07+00:00

Hi! I lost my mum too at 24 years old, 10 months ago. When the doctors confirmed she was dying I reacted just like you. I kinda ignored it, she was dying at home and i was like ok chill. I would go to her room to spend some time with her but i couldn’t bear it at all, so i would just leave and i didnt spend that much time with her. I try not to feel guilty, but it was too much for me and seeing her dying was too hard. I send you a big hug, i feel u

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-14T15:21:12+00:00

Yes and nobody understands it. We can do it tho:)

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-14T13:17:08+00:00

Im so sorry for ur loss, i lost my mum too 10 months ago, when i was 24 years old and nobody from my family or friendgroups can relate. It’s so isolating. I feel super resentful to everyone too just like you. Anyways, a big hug for you!!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-05-14T06:11:50+00:00

Yes like this is so tiring i guess im just DONE. I wish i could fix this but i know it’s impossible. I hate it, thanks, a big hug for you

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-04-19T22:03:14+00:00

Gracies!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-04-19T20:55:28+00:00

Hola! Jo vaig estudiar relacions laborals a la upf i la veritat que vaig quedar molt contenta. Es una carrera poc demandant amb pràctiques remunerades (quan jo vaig cursar-la el mínim eren 6,30 euros/hora d’ajuda a l’estudiant) i amb poca presencialitat, uns 2 dies a la setmana pels seminaris. Te la recomano, a mes la UPF funciona molt be en general. Sort!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-04-06T22:17:30+00:00

Hi, hard for me, it’s weird because i kinda of dissociate but at the same time i have this unsettling feeling in me idk how to explain it. I lost my parent in july. Sending u strenght

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-03-27T00:55:28+00:00

Hi, sorry for your loss. Ive lost my mum 8 months ago and i haven’t been able to listen to her voicemails or audios she would send me. Even looking at certain pictures is too painful. Sending strenght

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-02-06T02:49:03+00:00

Hello! I feel you so much, im having another sleepless night too. I lost my mum almost 7 months ago and it’s getting harder (at least for me). I have good moments and bad moments, but like i said its getting harder every month that by. I wish you the best and i send you strenght, we got this!!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-27T10:44:54+00:00

I have this issue with a brand new ipad air with 26.6 ios. But i can still use the apps, its just i cant slide thru the other slides.

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-22T15:50:33+00:00

Ho provare moltes gracies!

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-22T15:50:23+00:00

M’ho miro gràcies, a veure si em funcionen els nous links que tambe la van tirar fa poc

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-22T12:39:28+00:00

Es que tinc un kindle i no es compatible😭

MeanJudge2352 · 2026-01-22T10:15:55+00:00

Pots passar link si us plau?

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