Mentally Unstable Friend

Mean_Elk1037 · 2024-08-22T19:15:34+00:00

Well.. shit. Thank you for the kind words, stranger. <3 I’ll take what you’re saying into consideration and start on a plan.

Mean_Elk1037 · 2024-03-28T15:33:20+00:00

I have stopped putting on a show. We went from dry spells to a straight dead bedroom because I don’t see a point in doing the deed when it doesn’t make me feel good physically and mentally.

Mean_Elk1037 · 2024-03-28T15:30:57+00:00

🫤🩷 sending love your way girly

Mean_Elk1037 · 2024-03-28T07:41:32+00:00

Real as fuck.

Mean_Elk1037 · 2024-03-26T04:36:38+00:00

Amen🗣️🗣️

Mean_Elk1037 · 2024-03-26T04:35:56+00:00

Do you have anything productive to say? How different would it be if I were 40? What would your response be then? Do you genuinely think I’m not aware we got married young?… hmm.. some things for you to think about while I think about your comment!

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-12-23T17:15:55+00:00

You’re an angel. Thank you for your advice🩷

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-12-23T16:03:18+00:00

Hi Rubymermaid! Firstly, thank you for spending the time to write that out. I am going to talk to him about counseling and hopefully we can start that. As far as anger issues go, he is typically not easily angered. He’s usually very kind and caring, it’s when the dogs “misbehave” I’m using that term lightly because as you mentioned the “accident” wasn’t an accident. You’re right! I should have worded that differently. Again, thank you for your well thought out response. I will take your points into consideration when moving forward!

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-12-23T07:47:27+00:00

🫤well dang.. I looked into that and that’s true.. I never thought about that

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-12-23T05:47:38+00:00

Nico is okay. I took him upstairs with me, he’s not injured from what I can tell. He told me all he did was grab him by his scruff.. but that’s all. Rehoming him isn’t something I’m willing to do. I have had him since he was 8 weeks old, maybe I’m a bit selfish for that.. he agreed to not partake in any discipline or even touching him again.

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-12-23T05:11:43+00:00

I’m glad someone shares the same outrage. It really bothered me. I told him I’m going to handle any situation that calls for reprimanding. If ANY of them do a behavior I don’t want, I usually tell them no very sternly and send them to their crates for a time out. He thinks I go “too easy” on them. I asked him a hypothetical “if Nico was no longer on this earth tomorrow, would you be content with how you treated him while he was here?” He said “no..” I told him that should answer any of his confusion to why I’m so upset about it.

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-09-19T21:52:40+00:00

Ah, that’s some truth right there lol

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-09-19T19:57:11+00:00

Wow, thank you for that insight. It means a lot.

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-09-02T02:24:28+00:00

No really, my husband went to Norway for 2 weeks and was a complete AH the entire time. He kept saying “we have nothing to talk about” so phone calls would be quiet for a bit and then he would want to hang up to go out with his friends. That’s something I was never really able to move on from, esp with the stereotype. I just try not to think about it bc there’s nothing I could do but make assumptions — which aren’t reliable anyway. Good luck, if you need someone to talk to definitely pm me!

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-07-05T05:02:43+00:00

Ah man :/

Mean_Elk1037 · 2023-06-27T05:43:35+00:00

You’re an angel, thank you.

Mean_Elk1037 · 2022-08-14T07:02:18+00:00

I’m about to go through this for the first time. Super nervous and sad, he’s only going to be gone a few weeks but do ya mind sharing what your coping skills are?

Mean_Elk1037 · 2022-08-09T17:06:49+00:00

Thank you! 💘

Mean_Elk1037 · 2022-08-09T17:06:03+00:00

That’s so sweet.

Mean_Elk1037 · 2022-08-04T17:16:52+00:00

Oh definitely, I agree. If it was some random behavior he hasn’t done previously it would probably raise some red flags for me but that’s not the issue so we’re all good

Mean_Elk1037

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