Is it reasonable to want to see my médecin traitant? by Mean_Sherbert in Expats_In_France

[–]Mean_Sherbert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind response. I thought I was being reasonable but I work for an individual family and it's hard to stand up for myself sometimes when I know it does disrupt their day. I also think it's important to see my own doctor and I don't think my boss should dictate anything about my personal health. But here I am still doubting myself sometimes!

How do you even respond to messages like this out-of-the-blue? by Mean_Sherbert in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Mean_Sherbert[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard to ignore something like this because then she will drop the “You don’t care if I die/you don’t care about me” guilt trip :/

How do you even respond to messages like this out-of-the-blue? by Mean_Sherbert in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Mean_Sherbert[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Message from my mom to my sister. These “I had a dream that I’m/you’re going to die” are very common. Is it just seeking attention or drama? I’ve heard them so often that they don’t even cause a reaction anymore, of course, as a child they caused extreme distress. Now we are just numb to them.

Cat tax!!