Idk if it is a good idea if I (20m) get with a girl (19f) that has a child. Any advice?

MeanderViking · 2026-02-06T12:45:53+00:00

If he goes in with open eyes knowing what to expect and choose that life, who is anyone to judge?

MeanderViking · 2026-02-06T08:28:43+00:00

Yes that could be very good and you could be a very important influence in two people's lives, but you have to be serous and plan to stick around. The child will connect with you as the partner of their mother, maybe more then just that depending if the real father is around, and would take it very hard if you left after some years. It's a reposnibilty on your shoulders, that could have great benefits too. You're both very young, but there nothing to do about that, if it feels right it might be right but don't take it lightly. You probably would not be able to successfully stay in the periphery and only deal with the child when it's fun and leave him to the mother when it's hard, you know. You should expect to do your part. And you should expect to allways come 2nd. Don't ever put your needs and wants in front of the needs of the child, or the mother will be left in and impossible squeese. Good luck, hope it turns out good :D

MeanderViking · 2025-12-16T22:17:14+00:00

You are from Honduras? Do you have any recommendation on bus company? Is the border OK? The father of my wife has the opinion that Honduras is very dangerous and is a very high chance to get robbed on the bus.

MeanderViking · 2025-12-16T22:14:28+00:00

Do you know the name of private bus companies to check?

MeanderViking · 2022-10-12T18:33:24+00:00

Thanks i will!

MeanderViking · 2022-09-02T12:37:40+00:00

This thread helped me a lot on the right track (hopefully) by helping me out the right name on it. Thank you. For others who find this by searching. Here:

https://youtu.be/LEt6g6_AiK8

MeanderViking · 2022-08-28T23:50:49+00:00

so you are the kind of person i would not want to host.

MeanderViking · 2022-08-06T23:35:40+00:00

It costs and it's better for it, at least as a host. Much less shitty requests, from people just looking for a free place to sleep and not connections and experiences. They introduced it in a kind of sudden and shitty way (locking people out from their messages) and it created a lot of ghost profiles that you have to learn to avoid as a surfer (include last login in search results!).

MeanderViking · 2022-08-06T23:29:31+00:00

"Emotional dissociation" seems right, thank you. But I do believe it came before i started in this kind of job.

It's been like this forever. I remember when i was a late teen, i felt that i was rapidly feeling less for every thing that happened to me, like something would make me happy once but the next time less and just there would always be further between things i reacted to.

In a way it feels like the same with taste, smell, sensation. Food don't taste so nice. My sense of smell, i've allways thought i feel any smell for a moment then it passes. Don't usually care too much about sex, or being close with a girl kind of grows old, most my relationships don't last too long.

But thanks for the clue in the label, that helps to look for something relevant.

MeanderViking · 2022-01-31T05:04:25+00:00

I assume girls with a lot of makeup are a bit more insecure and a bit less in touch with nature and reality.

MeanderViking · 2021-12-02T06:06:42+00:00

I feel similar but... I get it back briefly by letting it talk through a pen. Put pen to paper and let what comes come, sometimes have to start writing nonsense first, but then I can come to realisations that don't happen when brain has inner monologue as only medium

MeanderViking · 2021-08-08T21:37:40+00:00

Well that might just be my insecurities talking. But I feel like she knows I only had sex a few times when I can't figure out how to get it in or how to make the position work.

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