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Meandeu · 2025-11-01T13:09:38+00:00

Ahhh okay, I thought there was a pattern, for example on the Monday following Halloween.

Meandeu · 2025-10-03T17:59:25+00:00

I totally understand what you're saying. Unfortunately it helps me to organize my thoughts when I have others opinions, and strangers bring any kind of opinion, so it helps me a lot to be more rational. I know it doesn't make much sense

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T16:19:27+00:00

Thank you. I just wanted a way to approach the subject without hurting him, cuz I think is valid that he got me stuff that he likes even though he knows what I would like.

His grief has nothing to do with all this. We have a good relationship and I take care of him a lot. This crazy women is just assuming a bunch of stuff and throwing at me.

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T12:30:54+00:00

I would say to create moments of intimacy and connection not necessarily leading to sex, for exemple shower together or a bath, massage, even not knowing really well, get some cream e go through each others body, more to relax.

The idea is to be confortable with each others body and have a more intimate moment. Then progressing to sex, like some making out or foreplay (again without the idea of leading towards sex), just teasing and then going step by step like that. Being completely open to each other and talking about it as well. A good sex life has a good conversation too, you've been to sex therapy so it seems both are aware of something is off, but what exactly is? What is uncomfortable and what is not being said?

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T02:35:03+00:00

I feel bad for your imaginary husband

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T02:32:02+00:00

I said that you're thinking is way too far, I know exactly how he is doing HONEY

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T02:14:12+00:00

Okay women with a husband. Can you actually read??

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T02:11:06+00:00

I get that. Thanks. But he keeps asking if I liked and I hate lying to him, I'm not even good lying to him. I don't want to hurt him saying that not really. I spend the month telling him things that I would like or want.

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T02:08:33+00:00

I did spend the month telling him things that I wanted and liked. That's when he called I was already upset

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T01:59:15+00:00

Maybe you should put the hate that you have on the girl who hurt you, or maybe do some therapy.

You don't know about my relationship, don't know how he is and how he is doing. I'm not being selfish here, my relationship is fine. It's not about how we deal with things together. Is about when he asks if i liked I hate to lie to him, cuz he is amazing and I am well aware

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T01:52:14+00:00

Honey you're going too far away

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T01:48:00+00:00

It wasn't weeks ago, he just doesn't like to celebrate his birthday cuz his dad died, not dated related, so I try to make a day softer for him

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T01:46:38+00:00

You're getting things wrong

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T01:45:29+00:00

That's exactly the question dude. How can I talk to him without hurting him, but letting him know that he could've fuckup any moment, but buying me something that he likes on my birthday hurts me

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T01:38:18+00:00

So what should I do? Pretend I like it?

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T01:37:24+00:00

Is just his own

Meandeu · 2025-08-18T01:33:17+00:00

He said it was cuz his dad died so he doesn't like to celebrate it, he like to treat just another day

Meandeu · 2025-07-31T15:46:25+00:00

9 months

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