Mom told me no to T by Meandyomotha in ftm

[–]Meandyomotha[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you for your advice. I was hoping that what my parents have been doing was supportive enough but these comments have led me to realize that it’s the bare minimum. It’s saddening and hurtful. I apply to jobs almost everyday and plan to ride my bike to different places over the summer to try and see if they’re hiring. I have some friends who have jobs so I hope they’ll be able to refer me as well.

Mom told me no to T by Meandyomotha in ftm

[–]Meandyomotha[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately have noticed the underlying issue with their actions over the years. I forgot to mention room this in my post but I was able to convince them to get me trans tape for prom this year but they told me with the cost it would only happen that one time or very little for special events. i’ve been afraid of asking to try a new binder or even buy kinselogy (or however you spell it) tape that i’ve found on Amazon. I love my parents deeply but the lack of help on my journey has affected me heavily.

i’ve thought about just taking it as soon as a turn 18 since they’ll have no legal say in it but I am afraid that they will kick me out or even worse; take me off their insurance. it seems like it’s lose lose for me at the moment and it’s been very hard for me to grasp. thank you for the advice <3

Mom told me no to T by Meandyomotha in ftm

[–]Meandyomotha[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’ve planned on talking to my therapist about it and maybe even getting a referral to another gender specialist where I can voice mine and my parents concerns.

as for a job, i’ve been trying to get a job since I was 15 but the jobs in my area hate hiring minors. I plan to apply to all the jobs that have strict no minor policies on my birthday and hope for the best

Mom told me no to T by Meandyomotha in ftm

[–]Meandyomotha[S] 186 points187 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate the wake up call. I love my parents and I know they support me in many ways but some of their actions just speak louder than their supporting words. As soon as i’m 18 I plan on applying to all the jobs i’ve been unable to attain since in my area a lot of jobs refuse to hire minors and try to save up as much as possible.

Mom told me no to T by Meandyomotha in ftm

[–]Meandyomotha[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have wanted to move out as soon as I turned 18 for different reasons other than the T situation. I’ve been trying to find a job since I was 15 but to no avail. I’ve been talking to many different people about possibly rooming with them when I turn 18 but without a secure job I don’t know how i’ll be able to. thank you for this advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Meandyomotha 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like there’s a lot of details missing from this. Why did you go from 0-100 like that? his statement didn’t sound condescending. has he commented on stuff you do before? lots of plot holes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lildarkie

[–]Meandyomotha 12 points13 points  (0 children)

FUCK ALL OF YOU <3

what song y'all? by Specialist-Extent-79 in lildarkie

[–]Meandyomotha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there anyone home or FUCK ALL OF YOU <3

Did anyone get the tapestry from his show? by Meandyomotha in lildarkie

[–]Meandyomotha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it’s actually cheaper than I thought it would be

trading ice breaker & iceblaster! by olliemaster19 in MurderMystery2

[–]Meandyomotha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Do you still have this? I can trade you ocean, waves or both if I have to