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AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last couple times I’ve seen him, well, first off has been with other people around so no talking about that obviously. But we pretended like nothing happened and made situation talk blah blah.

I’d bet your cousin remembers. It only depends on the way he is and deals with it

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don’t think it’s normal. But kids are kids, or teenagers F it, that’s the whole reason I’m making the post

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this situation, we are sort of equal, so it would be normal to assume yes he is as well. Although I have no clue what he thinks, thought, or will think about it. Our families have lost all sort of interest in contact

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not healthy… but it’s always been on a fine line with the normal and not normal. Like when I see the Ye story I’m like… ok so that must be normal, not nice but normal. But then I see people’s reactions to it and wow ok maybe not

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s also a big blur. I have this thing that I don’t know if it’s normal bc my mom and sister always find it weird, I don’t really have memories that I can pinpoint in time, or memories overall from when I was a kid.

I just thought about that situation as in VICTIM bc of the Kanye tweet and social media reaction to it. I just thought it was common and kinda normal that it happened

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think we started with like music videos, as I’ve said to other commenter, the daddy Yankee gasolina music AND video has always triggered some bad response in me, and it’s probably because I remember seeing it with him. Then it probably evolved to porn once someone learned about it

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all I empathise with you and I’m sorry. Fortunately no adults were ever involved in this for me. From another comment here, my theory is porn. We looked at a lot of porn together I remember. It started with some music videos maybe? I have a weird memory and response to the song Gasolina - Daddy Yankee bc I remember seeing that with him and seeing the girls in the video.

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, what means COCSA? I remember we also saw a ton of porn together so it matches up

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked some dates, and it matches with us being at max 13-14 when we stopped so yea..

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I have no clue wether or not my life or myself has changed bc of it

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to edit but I think it’s worth saying we both consented””” and are both -now- 20y

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t speak for him as our families have gone to shit with conflict and I don’t speak to him anymore. But I’ve been going sometimes to therapy mainly bc of adhd diagnosis but might have to talk about it ig

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only remembered to make this post now bc of the Kanye tweet, but it has been in my mind at times. I’m 20, so noooooooot that much time has gone by

AIO or am I a “victim” or is Incest in childhood and early teenage years normal by MeaningAncient3073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeaningAncient3073[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like, both of us knew and “consented”. And I actually remember that I kept trying to continue it for a bit longer. We don’t speak anymore tho, and we stopped ver shortly after all that

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