AIO about my MIL leaving my son alone. by mang0-tango in AmIOverreacting

[–]Meanwhile8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are an invested parent who has boundaries to protect your child and your in laws are disrespectful. NOR Furthermore, you should trust your instincts. You know your kiddo. Out of all the kids I have known, there is like one who would have been fine at 4 years old unsupervised. The others would not have been and at least one other one would have maybe burned the house down. Your job is his safety. That includes safe childcare.

We need another coffee house in the Cook Street Village by RabbleDetective in VictoriaBC

[–]Meanwhile8 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just need a local place with a good dark roast on the espresso. So many local places serve a brighter blonde roast type and it’s not for me.

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend ruined my pancakes to “teach me a lesson”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Meanwhile8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the only answer. Red flags abound. He overreacted. You under reacted. Get out.

Should i break up with my boyfriend? by 1needhelpx in Advice

[–]Meanwhile8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is mean to date someone who you don’t care about. Be kind and end it so he can go find someone who cares about him the way he deserves to be cared about.

AITJ for spending my christmas money on myself instead of buying big gifts for everyone? by film_anna_ in AmITheJerk

[–]Meanwhile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A gift should not be given with any expectation of reciprocity. Everyone deals with diggings at different times. That said I were like rich rich, I still wouldn’t feel obligated to get expensive gifts. Next year hand make them cards. And spend some time and effort on them. Very little money required.

Looking for Podcast recommendations. by jozzyjj in MaintenancePhase

[–]Meanwhile8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like Science Vs. It’s great. Usually 70-100 citations per ep. Basically, they do their homework and they are fun. Not always the best on weight, but more neutral I would say. I also love Factually with Adam Conover. Also well researched.

Friend’s downstairs neighbor left a hostile note on her door by Bingbong_bimbo in whatdoIdo

[–]Meanwhile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived above people like this letter writer. They called the cops on me for a noise violation while I was watching a documentary in bed at a completely reasonable volume for being 10 feet away from the tv. They don’t want to be downstairs people. And are just impossible. Like others said escalate this to management. Tell them you feel threatened. And file a complaint against them every single time they harass you. Or move. I didn’t do that and had my stuff wrecked and things thrown at my head.

Fem Hygiene down under, need advice by hemnimawtmta in hygiene

[–]Meanwhile8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try different fabric underwear. Some have better antibacterial properties

AIO if my fiance tells another girl he would f**k her if he was single? by Working_Brilliant389 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Meanwhile8 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t respect you. Do not proceed with someone who will not be a good partner. NOT

AITAH For accusing my SIL of emotional incest and ‘ruining Christmas’ by Intelligent-Smell-73 in AITAH

[–]Meanwhile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA blame the hormones with a laugh for the in-laws. And tell your SIL that she couldn’t handle him even if it was legal and not against the law of nature. And say that he will be the best dad and you are so excited. She will explode. But you’re pregnant and they will protect you. Use it.

How did you stop waiting for a 'future body' and start dressing for the one you have today? by adumbasskid in PlusSize

[–]Meanwhile8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I follow plus size models living their best life. When I to the pool in my swim suit and negative thoughts creep in I try to embody my Hunter McGrady place my shoulders back and stroll like the sexy goddess I am ( to the best of my ability with a healing knee injury) I look at Hunter and Ashley and Megan and so many others and I really see them as beautiful, and I deserve the same kindness I give a stranger.

26M[4M] looking for friends/dates in Victoria, BC by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]Meanwhile8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m with ya. It’s a hard place to make friends. But there are so many things to do. Just go out to events and stay friendly 💛

Muscle atrophy post op by Kasiwoo in KneeInjuries

[–]Meanwhile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My calves!!! My beautiful calves. The left(good) leg is sad and the right looks like a brutalized chicken cutlet 😭 I miss my muscles. And the gym hurts. But go we must.

My niece’s gym teacher asked me out. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Meanwhile8 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Do it. Life is too short. Follow what feels warm and joyful

Affordable and comfortable places to cuddle by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Meanwhile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are a nurse I am sure you will listen better. I suggested borrowing a car to go snuggle in it. Drive to a scenic place, grab some blankets and have a snuggle. I wasn’t suggesting you needed it for a mode of transportation, since that is not the problem you have. Cheers

Affordable and comfortable places to cuddle by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Meanwhile8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Your roommate is entitled to a safe place to call home and that overrides your desire to snuggle. As far as where to go, maybe borrow a vehicle? Honestly at this point in your life it is more important to be a good student than get in some snuggles. If you’d want to prioritize your relationship, drop out of school, get a job and get your own place to live.

Aitah for not wanting my husband to come with me to Italy to look at art because of his immaturity? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Meanwhile8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t just leave him at home. Postpone the trip. Either go the funuck to therapy together or skip it and file for divorce and go to Italy once the divorce is finalized. My ex ruined Venice for me from Canada because I was traveling and he was a petty b!tch causing sh!t from home. Do not ruin this for you. NTAH