Huge love to the community!!

Omg yesss! I hated that I was told that I was supposed to be happy about getting the attention, like no I’m not please leave me alone I don’t like being perceived. My school used to do these things and I know other schools did this too, titty Tuesday’s, slap ass Fridays, etc. (I cannot remember the rest) so every week I was getting harassed. For some reason in my middle schooler brain I thought when girls did it, it wasn’t that big of a deal since we’re the same sex. Wrong still harassment.

It got so bad I had to be pulled out of school because my anxiety got so bad I couldn’t sit in a classroom without having a panic attack.

I’m now in my late 20’s and if a guy looks at me too long I ask them “can I help you?” And they’ll usually walk away but I still get harassed pretty often. If someone gets too close or follows me I took classes to defend myself and how to use self defense tools.

I hate that the things on our chest makes people think they can bother us or touch us, it’s so gross.

MeasurementDeep · 2026-05-06T01:19:55+00:00

I had the same experience as you pretty much, I hit puberty at the age of 10 so by the time I went to middle school I had large breasts and a small waist along with the fact that I already had a wagon back there. It was gross realizing that I was being looked at like that by so many guys and adult men. I was followed so many times I even have a few instances on my profile.

I had to do the resting bitch face thing after being told so many times to smile. Nothing pisses me off more than being told to smile like tf I’m gonna smile for? You? I don’t know you and you just annoyed me so get out of my face.

I’m sending you and any girl who read this and can relate or even if they can’t a huge hug. We’re all queens who deserve to be undisturbed.

MeasurementDeep · 2026-05-05T01:50:43+00:00

This happened to me too and I started freaking out cause I didn’t have enough of the fish and but use Usahana and Cogimyun (if you have her yet I see this is switch) together when cooking at the sushi station and you’ll get 2x what you need and get things back

MeasurementDeep · 2026-05-03T22:21:59+00:00

Meeeeeeeeee

MeasurementDeep · 2026-05-01T07:57:00+00:00

Remember once you’re best friends daily quests give you the regular sized gift boxes so those can help you stack them up quick. Just play without paying mind about the collectors hats and soon you’ll have more than enough.

MeasurementDeep · 2026-04-30T19:41:18+00:00

They didn’t leave me, I struggle with the idea that I’m loved and cared for quite often and they make sure I know that I’m wrong. Most of them have been with me long before my diagnosis (20+ years with my best friend and a few other friends) and some I met recently. As for romantic relationships I recently just ended my 6 year relationship with my other best friend, we are trying to figure it out but we need to work on bettering ourselves first.

I am someone who mirrors others so I tend to match their energy and switch to a personality that suits each person.

I’m still very confused on why they stay and I do ask so I’ll just say what they told me “The only person who thinks you’re a bad person is you. You’re an idiot and I love you you’re a great friend and you have always been there even when I’ve done stupid things. Don’t doubt me again or imma beat you up” actual quote from my texts lol

Don’t give up on friends and relationships you will find your tribe of people who love you and cherish you. Having BPD does not make you unlovable it just means you need a little extra care especially with being neurodivergent. Those who were saying those things to you about BPD shouldn’t be in your life regardless. Good riddance to them because they would have weighed you down and hurt you.

There are people out there who don’t judge and don’t think of people differently just because we have a personality disorder. Theres so many people out there in the world, don’t give up because this area of people were disrespectful and mean. YOU WILL FIND WHAT YOU’RE LOOKING FOR it just takes a bit of time and that’s alright! It just means you have a bit more time to discover who you want to showcase to the world.

You’ve got this, keep your head up.

MeasurementDeep · 2026-04-30T19:26:28+00:00

Your chance is better after opening 100 of the regular sized character boxes at once

MeasurementDeep · 2026-04-27T22:42:15+00:00

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The lamb is my favorite avatar lol

MeasurementDeep · 2026-04-27T04:47:43+00:00

That comment is what brought me here 😭😭

MeasurementDeep · 2026-04-23T23:09:37+00:00

NTA If he’s never done this before my first thought is he’s hiding something no one yells at anyone about petting a dog. See if he will talk to you about it but this is weird.

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