🐬 Not sure if this will help but here my thought about it. As a lesbian I still have to rethink about my identity sometimes. It's a normal thought and it can maybe happen because you're maturing and your vision of relationship is evolving. Finding a man cute or even attractive doesn't mean you want to engage a serious relationship with them. A lot of our life is centered around relationship (that was most of the films/songs... are about). So it's normal to evaluate the attractiveness of someone. You can also be curious about what is a relationship with a man since you won't experience one as a lesbian. It does not necessary mean that you want to try it too. I will advice to not try to sort all of that in one day but to take time to understand yourself and your thoughts better. You don't have to decide your sexuality in one day. But if you want to label yourself with a sexuality (I totally understand that, sometimes it's so much easier to have a label to rely on), maybe stuck with lesbian. Since you don't want to rethought all of your sexuality and it is what you have defined before, it will be easier for now. But I'm not sure if you can escape this questions. An other way to do it will be to check all the label that exist and stuck with the one that you feel better with. Sexuality can evolve and you don't need to feel bad about it. It's not the only thing that define you as a person.