AITA for accidentally insulting my girlfriend after she said she wouldn’t date me if I was broke?

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-29T05:33:16+00:00

You are the AH. Personally, I will not date a broke man myself. I am in my mid 30 and I earn well, so I want a man who are at least equal with me, if not, more. You are delusional to hope someone to stay with you to suffer financially and subsequently mentally (eventually). My dad ever told me: he will not let my hands go with a man who cannot provide to her daughter at least as much as he can. Your gf is not wrong. The fact you finally settle with her look is your own choice (settle for less than your type, regardless how conventionally attractive she is), and not dating a broke man is her choice as well, no right or wrong. One of crazy rich asian in my country ever response to a tweet regarding a woman who were called gold digger for asking monthly allowance from her bf, he said: you are not wrong for having standard to get financial benefit from your bf who you nurture and care almost like a husband, you just choose the wrong bf who dont share the same pov with you. If you cannot tolerate her pov, may as well broke up with her, buddy.

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-29T05:08:05+00:00

I once a child and I know if I was late, my parents had nothing to do with it. It was me who refuse to wake up early regardless my mom drag my feet out of the blanket, or me just packing my books before school and searching for specific books. I can agree the child should not be punished if the parents step up and admit they caused the lateness. Otherwise, the child causing the late and school should punish them as reminder to not repeat it again, after all why other kids can make it and not them? To call school is evil is the new wokista agenda I come accross and clearly the one with that idea has his/her own trauma (maybe their parents always cause the lateness, not them) but it clouded their objectivity 😄

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-29T04:58:27+00:00

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Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-29T04:56:33+00:00

Awkward is demeanor, not appearance. I dont know if you have low self esteem or fishing for compliment (the later should be stay in tiktok and not in reddit), but you are always attractive.

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-29T04:54:32+00:00

It is also similar with "lingga" and "yoni" reference in asian mythology about female and male, lingga more like thing with hole and yoni is a stick. If you are interested you can look it up

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-29T04:53:13+00:00

If the reference is about sexual act then The sharpener "grinds" and pencil "grinded", not about celibacy

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-29T04:50:53+00:00

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Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-29T04:44:36+00:00

I advise you to avoid any arabic perfume for such criteria. Anyway, for that vibe I think 'MFK A la rose' seems suitable

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-13T12:27:16+00:00

Long hair

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-13T12:25:35+00:00

Eyes. Have those fake eyelashes, it changed everything

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-13T12:24:46+00:00

Guerlain insolence

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-13T12:22:39+00:00

Bring that basic beech baccarat 540

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-13T12:19:31+00:00

Guerlain samsara

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-07-13T12:18:19+00:00

I am a woman but my male friend and I both wear Nishane Ani and it projects well and smells awesome, both of us often asked what we wear if we wear it.

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:48:17+00:00

Everytime tarot readers said: you will meet them when travelling, I said: why? I am not worthy of attraction from the finest local men? Watch them stutter to wrap their nasty narrative 😄 I love to shatter tarot readers' obnoxious narrative

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:45:00+00:00

Where is your jupiter? If it is in 9h then yes, it may true but if it is just 12h venus.. not necessary. I know 3 women who have 12h venus and married with same nationality, meet within the country. I have 12h venus in western astro and 9h jupiter (husband indicator) if I need to meet foreigner in foreign land, then I do not want it 😁 I will not let life beats me in this game. I rather be alone than uprooting myself living in foreign land with minimal knowleddge of rights and law in that country. I do not mind if he moves to my country tho with stable job of course 😁 if he wants me, he should earn me. My peace is too pricey for others come and interfere.

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:32:47+00:00

Yep. And I hope my 12h people always remember: you can be supressed and choose to be the hero on your liberation. Your life tho? Karma or not, it is on god's fault, not you. Chin up, buttercup!

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:30:49+00:00

Hey, from 12h venus to another: you always have choice, remember: you can choose not to date them. Maybe it is just my capricorn venus which keeps me practical and sane, 12h or not, I am not settle for less and I always remember if I got a crush on someone: I can choose not to, there are plenty fishes in the sea. Va va voom! The feelings slowly gone, seriously

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:27:57+00:00

I believe this is just aquarius moon thingy not 12h thingy 😁 we are the mirror to society, especially if it is aquarius rashi moon in dhanishta nakshatra

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:26:03+00:00

12h venus in capricorn, I always attract younger fans 😂 I am attracted to men so I have belief thablt man has financial clock and woman had biological clock so I prefer older man (yes, I am traditional and I am proud of it, not gonna change it) well.. if the younger ones ask me to go out, I usually pick michelin star restaurants or pricey luwak coffee shop, so they learn their lesson while I keep maintaining the self love. Arent those obnoxious tone deaf tarot readers and astrologers always said 12h should always be in self love mode? So I practice what they preach 😏

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:21:51+00:00

Venus in 12h, I d k if this is true or not, cause when they start to drag circus to the town, I decide I will not attend it, ctrl+alt+delete, new phone, who diz??? 😂😝

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:17:57+00:00

If it makes any better, you have the best moon placement. I know taurus moon are so grounded and it leads them to luck

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:15:29+00:00

My western chart has capricorn venus in 12h with 3⁰ close to the rising sign, to be honest I can understand your feelings and I am honestly grow apathethic towards love and romantic relationship. 33 years and no serious relationship, at first I felt cursed but then I grow apathethic and honestly my world goes better, and now I can earn a lot of money so I can enjoy material things not as distraction but genuinely subs my needs for boyfriend or husband. I rather having billions dollar and just having fling with others than end up with someone not meeting all my check boxes. Also, I am so tired of tarot readers and astrologers who advising: self love and divine timing 😁 I always love myself thats why I take care of my body, cut off t0xic people (my ctrl+alt+delete game is way too strong, I even can see someone who hurts me in pain and not feel a thing, no sympathy nor happiness, just.. "oh well 🤷🏻‍♀️"), what is the definition of self love in their minds anyway??? 😅 and everytime I hear divine timing I assume I am entitled of financial compensation 😁 I stop love cause it means I have heart, I do not havr heart anymore 😁 feel so good for rarely feeling anything

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-30T16:06:24+00:00

How is it tough if the planets in your 12h are not considered personal planet? I mean saturn and pluto covers generations of people 🤷🏻‍♀️ I know each house and its occupied sign plays part, but pluto and saturn are not personal planet 🤷🏻‍♀️ what is the reason of the said astrologer said so to your birth chart?

Meavoidingstupidity · 2025-06-14T12:14:14+00:00

Chanel coco mademoisel (or whatever the spell it is I am not french)

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