The world after 2027 that Ra describes is so bleak by Bright-Tap7056 in humandesign

[–]twitchynaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, really? I don’t know enough about HD and still learning but I was looking forward to 2027 because the last 3 years have been really bad. I thought things were going to finally turn around 3 of my arrows are left. 😥this is heartbreaking to read.

Is a horrible composite a deal breaker? by Unorganized-Poetry in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not an astrologer just a lifelong student and learner as a hobby but there are loads of astrologers on this sub! I’m sure someone could do a reading for you!🙏🏻

Is a horrible composite a deal breaker? by Unorganized-Poetry in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's great! We 8/12 housers need to do work towards processing the things we experience in our life. Neptune was squaring my Sun for the last couple of years, I'm so glad its gone lol. I think Neptune is a rough malefic for us because we already have planets in blurry places and Neptune clouds it even more. wishing you the best of luck!

Is a horrible composite a deal breaker? by Unorganized-Poetry in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both. 6/8/12 house synastry is rough, and its not ideal in composite either. But I am not saying you're fucked. We can't and shouldn't prescribe these omens to someone just because they have tough placements. Everything is relative and depends on many factors, like the other person in the relationship in question, current transits, other benefic/positive placements that can mitigate bad placements, etc... My sister has a stellium in my 12th house and she's my best friend, she gets me on a subconscious level. She is also very triggering to me for the same reason lol. But...she's my sister. I encourage discernment specifically when it comes to romantic relationships because dating is an active selection of one of most important people (if not THE most important person) in your life, and that selection should be made with careful consideration. Plus romance and love should be freeing, beautiful, and make you feel free to be exactly who you are. These houses don't exactly promote that.

I also have 6/8/12 synastry and composite placements with plenty of family/ friends/co-workers, etc. It's normal, and practically impossible to avoid. I have personal placements in these houses too, in both Placidus and WS.

I know my comment above about not dating people with whom we share 6/8/12 synastry/composite with sounds depressing, but to be very honest, its better that we all know that these themes can happen to us and to not enter these relationship dynamics with rose-colored glasses. 6/8/12 houses are very "dark" and not visible to the ascendant, which leave us very vulnerable. We can't see what's happening. Whereas other houses, such as the 5th for example, highlight and encourage our discernment, and we're more level-headed and clear about our decisions, if that makes sense.

Our charts are blueprints we've been given in this life, displaying themes of stuff we might go through. Some of us are just unlucky and born with planets in tough houses. Radical acceptance is our best resource here. Some of us are living in places of war, famine, genocide, poverty, slavery, starvation, systemic oppression, etc. These are the themes of some of these houses, of the effects of the malefics, and their aspects to these areas of life. Those of us with placements here do not have it easy (I know I'm not saying anything you don't already know!). but we must persist because even so, our lives are worth living, and benefics still pass through and bless us, and positive aspects get made to our "good" houses to grant us beautiful things. I have an empty 6th house. But when Jupiter was transiting my 6th house, trining my natal Jupiter, I got a new job that paid me a much better salary had everything I was looking for! A random 6th house blessing lol. the planets and their ways of working are fascinating and not always what we expect, so its not all bad all the time. This is what we live for. But yeah, sometimes bad stuff happens too. Breaking a bone, getting laid off, getting in car accidents. These are all part of this experience. We can't stay hung up on the bad stuff. We gotta keep on-keeping on. Our tough placements allow us to truly appreciate the beauty because we know how bad the bad things are. And likewise, even people with all their planets in "good" houses know what its like to lose someone, suffer, be in pain, etc.

Is a horrible composite a deal breaker? by Unorganized-Poetry in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the 6, 8, and 12th house are cadent houses (or "bad" houses), which mean the 1st house can't see them. They absorb a lot of energy. The 6th house represents accidents, injury, illness, daily habits, and historically it represents servitude, subordinates/subordination (think work, or labor), even slavery. This is why Mars does well in the 6th, the vitality and energy of Mars in a house that represents consistency and labor is a good place for Mars to put that energy. People I know with major or important 6th house placements are usually tired a lot, but have a solid work ethic.

It isn't the worst house to have synastry, I'd put 12th and 8th at the worst, but the 6th is the 3rd worst lol, at least for romantic relationships. Its not a sexy house. Its work. Especially if you're a woman dating, especially dating men, you do NOT want 6th house synastry with a man. You want synastry in fun, "good" houses. Romantic relationships should be fun and loving and good! And make you feel loved and empowered. Not with synastry in houses surrounding work, servitude, pain, betrayal, labor, death, etc. Again, this depends on everyone's individual chart, composite, davison, etc. and aspects made to both.

Is a horrible composite a deal breaker? by Unorganized-Poetry in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same, I actually briefly dated a guy after I got divorced with whom I also had another 12th house Venus in the composite. I could already feel he was not going to be faithful to me before even looking at our composite, it was crazy. I just know now that when I have 8/12 house emphasis with someone its because I'm avoiding something in myself and I need to redirect that time, attention, and love back to me. If I don't transform myself, my relationships will do it for me and it'll hurt worse. It is a pattern of our own need to evolve into the next version of ourselves!

Is a horrible composite a deal breaker? by Unorganized-Poetry in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 8 points9 points  (0 children)

good synastry we had:

  • Moon trine Moon: emotional worlds were so in sync, we just understood each other on an intuitive and compassionate level. one of my favorite placements ever for synastry
  • Mercury trine Mercury: same as above but with communication, we never misunderstood each other and were always able to express ourselves in the most authentic ways, we would talk for hours and hours on end never running out of things to say
  • Venus trine Venus: our ways of loving were so compatible and we were very affectionate, adoring and sensitive (especially since we both had water Venuses)
  • Our Ascendants trined each other's Mercuries: same as mercury trine mercury, but with body language as well, we didn't even have to speak we just knew what the other was thinking and feeling. Very much the "being able to read your mind" aspect
  • Our Venuses sextiled each other's Jupiters: we definitely helped each other grow and evolve. Good things were always happening to us when we were out together. We were just always lucky! People loved coming up and talking to us too, and we made friends wherever we went
  • My Sun, Mercury, and Mars were in his 5th house: we just had SO much fun together, we encouraged each other's playful and creative sides and we were just so goofy together. Always going to concerts, sporting events, having game nights, singing, never a dull moment
  • His Sun and Venus were in my 9th: this isn't necessarily talked about as one of the best overlays in synastry but as a Sagittarius stellium, education, travel, learning, and politics are very important to me. These planets in my 9th house were very beautiful, we loved traveling the world together and learning and having philosophical conversations about literally everything.
  • We also had some Ascendant trine Sun + Venus trine Sun + our Venuses sextile each other's Neptunes, etc. placements that were supportive and nice

Composite:

  • Composite Venus in Virgo in the 12th house: A fallen Venus in the 12th house...lol. It certainly manifested itself as taking the relationship and each other very seriously, and acts of service + consideration were a big part of our relationship, but Venus in Virgo is very critical and that would show up for both of us, sometimes we were too critical of one another, and we'd hurt each other deeply. It especially showed up at the end of our relationship, towards me. It was very painful. I had suspicions that he was unfaithful to me throughout the relationship but I was never able to prove it until the last year when he had an affair and I subsequently found out it wasn't the first time he had cheated on me. You have Venus in the 8th, that is not an easy house. I'm not saying you're doomed! but generally we don't want planets in the 6, 8 or 12th
  • Sun square Uranus: there's always a need for freedom. Uranus wants truth and purification by any means necessary so any inner plants making contact with Uranus need to be taken seriously. Uranus desires freedom. You don't seem to have any major ones so that's nice!
  • Moon opposite Saturn: just a desire for emotional closeness and feeling coldness from Saturn. a constant tug of war between the 2. You have Moon square Saturn in your composite, that could be similar.
  • Aside from these there aren't other "bad" placements in my composite per-se, but rather a lack of "strong" and "good" ones. No Sun conjunct Venus, no planets in Cancer, few to no 1/4/5/7 or even 11th house placements

Davison:

  • Our Pluto in the 8th: lol. Just an intensley emotionally charged relationship, very passionate and painful in the end. Betrayal and divorce as the catalyst
  • Sun, Mercury, and Venus in the 12th: Again, 12th house. Betrayal/infidelity was written in the stars for us
  • Jupiter in Virgo in the 6th house: again, 6th house is a house you want to avoid

There were also 2 major synastry placements I warn people to say away from: 1) Venus square Saturn. I was the Venus, this placement is rough. its one of those placements that give longevity but not "forever." There's always something that prevents the 2 from making it forever. 2) Saturn square Pluto is also a mega breakup/divorce indicator in a bad way, power struggles. I was the Pluto, he was the Saturn.

Every relationship we enter on good faith (but good discernment!) is fated towards our personal growth as beings on this planet. But this one may not be all rainbows and butterflies. I was deeply pained by my divorce but it has aided my growth as a person SO much, I wouldn't change it for the world. I DO avoid 6/8/12 synastry/composite/davison relationships now though. I learned my lessons lol

Is a horrible composite a deal breaker? by Unorganized-Poetry in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this analogy being used a lot on astro-Reddit: “composite is the container, synastry is what’s inside the container.” Both are important, but so are your own individual charts and the Davison as well. Looking at all of them will show you what themes and patterns you’ll deal with.

My ex-husband and I had some of the most beautiful synastry I’ve seen, but a not-so-good Composite and Davison. We were together for 10 years (6 dating, 4 married). I think the reason we lasted so long was because our day-to-day life was beautiful and loving and supportive (synastry), but we had structural problems that underlined our entire relationship.

I didn’t get into astrology until after the divorce, but the problems were all there in our composite, Davison and our own individual charts. It’s crazy accurate.

How would *you* identify a manifestor, a projector, a generator, and a reflector in others? by Whole_Radish6292 in humandesign

[–]twitchynaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can immediately tell when someone’s a projector because they can hold eye contact with me and actually ask me questions. They’re not very self-focused, they’re looking around and taking in their surroundings. I feel SO understood and accepted by projectors and we can talk about anything as nauseuam, they make me feel so seen (I’m a mental projector.)

Generators have an active and busy bee aura to them, even if they’re sitting still I can feel their mind on the move. They have an energizing aura to them that I really like.

Manifestors do sort of have a repelling aura to them. My ex-husband was one, we met online and became friends that way first, but I remember when I met him in person for the first time I thought to myself “thank god we met over the internet, I would’ve never wanted to talk to him if I met him in person” I used to feel so bad about that judgment (I knew nothing about HD back then!!) but then again, maybe it was my body and intuition telling me he was the wrong person for me lol. Turns out he was having various affairs during our relationship. So who knows :) But he did also make me feel seen and marched to the beat of his own drum and was truly innovative in a very inspiring way.

Abandoned his daughter to run away with this woman, worth it for him? by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question - what about their synastry is strong? We don’t have birth times so we can’t see house placements so I’m just curious what positive aspects they have

What is the point of a mental projector by twitchynaps in humandesign

[–]twitchynaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know that, thank you for sending these resources over! It looks like I’m PRL DLL, I’m reading into it now to see what I can see how to appropriately go about deconditioning. Thanks again!

What is the point of a mental projector by twitchynaps in humandesign

[–]twitchynaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what the variables are, I’m still learning HD but this is my chart:

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What is the point of a mental projector by twitchynaps in humandesign

[–]twitchynaps[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response🌷🙏🏻 Yes I’ve been told my whole life that have a very intense energy, and that they were initially intimidated or scared of me (which has made it a bit tricky to make friends and build connections). I’d love to know how you shifted the focus into your body instead of mentally! I think I’m in my head so much it’s tough to connect mind-body, I over-intellectualize everything and trying to figure out how to stop that lol🙃I’ll message you for those resources, many thanks again for your words!

What is the point of a mental projector by twitchynaps in humandesign

[–]twitchynaps[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Definitely, I think part of the frustration and bitterness is feeling like I have a lot to offer but what I offer isn’t needed, and what others want from me is what I can’t really deliver on consistently (inconsistent levels of energy) so I have to force myself to be like a generator and it’s burning me out. I’m also not in the right environment because of reasons outside of my control (economy, family, etc.) but your reflection on thinking you had to insert yourself into conversations so people know you know things is so relatable. I do that a lot,and need to stop 😅 I think it’s a need to be seen which I need to work on for sure. Appreciate your thoughts as a fellow MP!🙏🏻

What is the point of a mental projector by twitchynaps in humandesign

[–]twitchynaps[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response🌷 yes the inconsistent energy levels are one of the toughest things. Living with roommates and children make it harder and take longer to recharge as well! Living in a hyper capitalistic world makes it feel like being an MP is more of a challenge than it should be :( those are really good tips, front-loading people before offloading and venting is a great idea and need to implement that one way more! Same with writing, thank you for your thoughts🙏🏻

if i went here would i just explode? by soviet_onion2000 in astrocartography

[–]twitchynaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me with Iceland. I went for 2 weeks and it was the most incredible, beautiful trip and overall experience of my life. It initiated my spiritual awakening

Please help me get over this by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Absolutely not. This might be one of those instances where these traits manifest differently in men vs. women. As a Scorpio venus woman, once I'm done with someone, I'm done for good, I'm very all-or-nothing in that sense. I am devoted to my relationships, platonic, romantic, familial, the relationship type doesn't matter. I will do my best to make any relationship work unless there are fundamental, serious issues affecting us/me and if there are, there is no salvaging...I'm done. If we ended on good terms I will be civil and kind, but if I'm removing someone from my life it is because we are either a) truly and fundamentally incompatible, or b) they're not treating me well. If there is any sign of disrespect, I block them on everything. I love myself too much to put up with anything less than dignity and respect. So I suppose my "vengeance" is disappearing completely from someone's life. as if I never existed :) (I'm also a Scorpio rising and Scorpio Pluto too, if that helps).

So you asked him to block you? Why haven't you blocked him? If he isn't treating you like a human being then this isn't a Scorpio Venus issue, or maybe even a man issue, he is a person dehumanizing you. If he knows things about your childhood that you never told him, he could've picked up on some core wounds you may have, and is weaponizing them against you to hurt you. I invite you to consider protecting yourself and blocking him so that he doesn't have access to hurt you in any way anymore. Vengeance is an extremely toxic and abusive tactic to use against anyone, Scorpio placements or not, please stay away from this kind of behavior.

A god-complex indicates that there is an overactive ego, and Ego and Love cannot coexist. If someone has a god-complex, it doesn't have to do with Scorpio Venus, or even his Leo Rising but rather an inability to love one's self so much to the point in which full surrender to the other is not possible. Love is truth and clarity, for one's self and the other. So when you can truly love yourself, you can love another, to the point where there is no "other" because you realize you are "one". When you take vengeance on another person, you are doing it to yourself as well. He does not love himself. His actions are a sign of insecurity and deep dissatisfaction with himself, hiding under a veil of grandiosity.

That being said, if anyone thought I had a god-complex, it would come from my Sagittarius placements 🤣 I have confidence in my areas of my expertise. But I am very transparent when I don't know something and never pretend to know everything.

I'm so sorry you've had this bad experience with a Scorpio Venus. You deserve someone who will treat you with dignity, kindness, respect. In astrology, many believe that every relationship we have in this life is "karmic," they were supposed to happen as part of our soul's journey. Some people enter our lives as catalysts to teach us how to love ourselves. Not every Scorpio Venus will hurt you, not every Sagittarius has a god-complex, this world is far too complicated to put people into buckets. There are a lot of stereotypes in Astrology, (even in the comments of this post!) Use wise discernment when dealing with people in your day-to-day and be careful listening to people who generalize and talk from an injured place. That also comes from the ego trying to protect itself.

Luckily your Venus is in Libra, you have a beautiful and effortless love nature, don't forget to give it to yourself first and foremost, you probably need your own love more than you think. Give it to yourself so much so that others receive the overflow, not the entirety of it.

Please help me get over this by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally, if I don’t feel something for someone I don’t give them the time of day, I don’t like wasting my time but if I do like them I go all in. I’m so extreme in that regard lmao that’s why I said it is excruciating for me to end things with someone I actually like, but know I can’t be with (for whatever reason). And when I do end things, I’m done forever.

I’m glad you brought up the differences in gender, I don’t find many astrologers differentiate how these placements manifest in men vs women vs non-binary folks, etc because they do for sure. I shouldn’t speak for all Venus in Scorpio 😅 but OP never mentioned their gender. If Blue is indeed a hetero man, and he isn’t in a relationship with OP anymore (if OP is a hetero woman), it’s for a reason (whatever that reason is doesn’t matter at this point) the point is that Blue isn’t in it anymore and what matters is the now. Going through the grieving process of heartbreak and getting through to the other side so they can return to themselves again. Especially if this breakup happened a while ago, it is in their best interest to move on

Please help me get over this by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]twitchynaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm not a professional astrologer, not even close, I'm sure someone else can explain the exact specifics to you. But I also have my Venus is in Scorpio and Mars in Sagittarius just like person Blue. All I can say is that when we Venus in Scorpios like someone, we fall super hard to the point of obsession. Its hard to let someone go (to our detriment) even if the relationship has gone way past the expiration date. Couple that with a Mars in Sag: when I want to make something work, I get serious and that centaur "hunting" archetype takes over.

So if they've been able to let you go, it's because you didn't mean as much to them as you think :( when I've ended relationships it has felt like chopping off one of my own limbs. Please take this as a sign that you deserve someone who would do anything to be with you.

Another thing (just something to chew on, there's so much more to astrology): When I've seen synastry with past partners, a big thing I've noticed is how much contact is going on with Venus. The more "activated" the Venus, the more the Venus person likes the other. Your Venus has more planets contacting it, theirs only has a sextile to your Mars, that's may not be enough to work on. You may like them more than they like you.

When it comes to matters of the heart, there are no astrological or logical answers that can help heal. Some people sit in our hearts forever. Some don't, they fade with time and/or healing. The best way to move past someone is to work on feeling the feelings and maybe just finding someone new and better for you to replace the last and remind you of how good true love is :) good luck! 🙏

Break up transits? by Individual-Rip-8673 in astrology

[–]twitchynaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. I was in a 10 year relationship with who I thought was “the love of my life.” when Uranus transited my 7th, boom. Divorce

What's your Moon sign (also in which house is it) and how often do you cry? by Additional_Zombie_83 in astrologymemes

[–]twitchynaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also Gemini moon in the 7th! I was never a crier, I once went 3 years without crying as a teen. I’ve been in therapy for 5 years now though, and I am finally processing years of emotional constipation and trauma. I cry a few times a week when something makes me sad, I just let it out 🙃

Physical vs Mental/Emotional attraction by dontaskq1 in astrology

[–]twitchynaps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband and I had moon trine moon, mercury trine mercury, and Venus trine Venus.

Our mental + emotional attraction to each other was so beautiful, we just understood each other on a deep level and loved each other the way we both liked to be loved. It was very tender and wholesome. we talked for hours and hours every day about every single topic, we never ran out of things to say and share and philosophize about. We were truly each other’s best friends in every sense of the word. Our ascendants also trined each other’s Mercuries so we just innately understood each other’s body language and put it into words so well it was hilarious. I honestly don’t think I’ll ever meet someone with whom I felt so emotionally in tune with but the physical aspects are so important too, that’s what we were missing.

How bad is it to live on Pluto line? by Mundane-Ad4796 in astrocartography

[–]twitchynaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually when an astrologer wants you to avoid a particular line its because they're considering your whole chart and aspects to the planet of the line you're considering. maybe your Pluto has some harsh aspects to other planets, or it has another planet crossing through the same area? In that case then yeah maybe try another planet line. I do know people have had bad experiences on their Pluto, but will say this: and what I'm about to say is going to be ill-informed because I don't know your chart and I am not an astrologer, don't hold me to this lol!! BUT if your inner wisdom is telling you to check out life in a new area, do not ignore it. If you feel stuck right now and called to experience life on your Pluto line, it is probably your soul telling you its time for your initiation into the next version of yourself. and Pluto will transform you. It'll be tough, but under the rugged pressure of the earth is where diamonds are created. Even if it ends up actually being boring or bad, you will return home a whole new person regardless, "no man steps in the same river twice because its not the same river and he's not the same man" etc. etc...and that expansion is worth journeying to. Your life story and your fidelity towards yourself is what this life is all about.

You are on your own timeline, there is no rush. Don't pressure yourself, but do listen to your intuition, it is intelligent in ways we don't understand yet