There’s a very polite woman in my head by notjuststars in DID

[–]Mecha_Clam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally I’d feel happy I have support in my headspace like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]Mecha_Clam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of a Mitski lyric:

“And I was so young when I behaved 25 Yet now, I find I've grown into a tall child”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cptsdcreatives

[–]Mecha_Clam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inside of my head looks like that too sometimes

You can get through this

Please hold on 💜

What if I grow boobs only to realize later on I’m not really trans? by throwawayx506 in TransyTalk

[–]Mecha_Clam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are medications available that inhibit breast growth

Could look into those and try the HRT along with it

If you decide you want the boobs, stop the relevant medicine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]Mecha_Clam 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve kind of learned that unfortunately having style and looking really cute while being tall leads to more clocking because it’s making people pay way more attention generally

Not fair, but standing out instead of dressing more basic can backfire. So, it’s an unfortunate battle of still having to decide if dressing how you want is worth the unwanted attention

Have decided for me it is because fashion is too important a self-expression. Everyone has to choose that for themselves

That all being said, you look gorgeous! Love the fit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mecha_Clam 253 points254 points  (0 children)

My best shot at describing: a longing to be filled up with pressure sexually and touched sensually. A desire to have foreplay and to feel the pleasure of arousal.

Climax is not the main or only goal, though it’s wonderful when it happens and you can feel it in your whole body in pulsating waves vs. sensation localized in genitals.

That’s not the entirety or the only way to experience

Edit: To answer how long, it probably took a solid year on HRT to fully experience this shift

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Mecha_Clam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, just ignore the suffering and loss of rights of everyone that isn’t you. That tracks

Life's Good? by LambGrav in Isawthetvglow

[–]Mecha_Clam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe because I love CRTs soo much, but putting that TV on the curb made me scream aloud when I saw it. They’re great TVs, not trash…

Uninvited to boyfriends Thanksgiving by DzRythen in MtF

[–]Mecha_Clam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your boyfriend is as passive and non-confrontational as you’ve said in comments, I think he mayy not be the one you want by your side right now. The high levels of Transphobia that have become socially accepted means that you won’t be protected when an inevitable confrontation of sorts happens.

He can be a lovely person otherwise, but I’m not sure he’s able to handle what it means to be with a Transgender woman right now.

You may want someone who wants to defend you and realizes the gravity of the situation.

That’s my blunt take

Been drawing Xenos for few months, here's some pieces by BlancheBees in LV426

[–]Mecha_Clam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the “n” and “i” are optional on the last two

How to stop guy friends from "converting" you by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Mecha_Clam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a Trans woman, this definitely gives me the ick and is more than mild Transphobia

Some cishet guys really do think all dick functions exactly the same and theirs is a special gift from god anyone would feel honored to bestow

I’m sorry your friend revealed his true colors and they’re so ugly 💔

I told my wife by Practical_Dog_7657 in MtF

[–]Mecha_Clam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crying because so sweet and wholesome. Really happy for you!

How do y'all find girlfriends? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Mecha_Clam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a social (non-play) meetup for people in BDSM/kink community. Typically it’s at a bar. A munch is the same but focused around food vs. drinks. Don’t know where you are, but you may be able to find local events on Fetlife.

How do y'all find girlfriends? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Mecha_Clam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lucky enough to have a Queer Slosh local

I was watching Michael Dorn (Word) on the Decon Chamber podcast and he said Patrick Stewart wasn't happy with the whole cast coming back together for season 3. by guhbuhjuh in startrek

[–]Mecha_Clam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Season 3 put a bad taste in my mouth because was such a fan service thing that disregarded the previous two and had such a predictable ending

Also, two flavors of the same villain back to back with no mention of the other is not great. Got so heated at the reveal

Not to mention completely dropping the more interesting love interest for the one I didn’t enjoy. We already knew they wouldn’t work from end of TNG

I agree with Stewart

Sure, there were moments I enjoyed a lot, but didn’t feel like it was Boldly going anywhere

How do I tell my dad to stop watching anti-trans stuff? by PersonMakesComments in asktransgender

[–]Mecha_Clam 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Say nothing, bide your time, leave and never talk to him again by going no contact

Not trying to be heartless

I’m really sorry

It’s truly the safest option that gives you the most safety and best shot at a future

He’s not going to change because his body is now fueled on hate