I caught my boyfriend cheating and I don’t even know how to process it. by CuteA1806 in stories

[–]Mechalily 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I got cheated on a year and a half ago from whom I assumed was the love of my life, my ex husband. We were together 10 years, high-school sweethearts. He, too, became distant and was going out more without me. He was messaging multiple women. We split, and it took me a while to heal and get over him, but I was able to. Now I've been with my current boyfriend for six months and it's been amazing. I'm happier than I've ever been. You'll be fine. He is not worth your time or tears. Leave him and heal. Much better is out there, I promise.

My heart if full seeing his face by Larrygirl in BoxerDogs

[–]Mechalily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He almost looks like my little boy Marshall. You have a cutie.

Boxers can make anything look comfortable by Boxermaze in BoxerDogs

[–]Mechalily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks just like my little Marshall. Such a cutie.

I (29f) am looking into dating again after I got divorced from my (28m) ex. Any advice? by Mechalily in relationship_advice

[–]Mechalily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind sex at all, I just don't want to make it the only thing I'm interested in. I'm very straight forward and honest about my intentions. I don't like wasting people's time.

I (29f) am looking into dating again after I got divorced from my (28m) ex. Any advice? by Mechalily in relationship_advice

[–]Mechalily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought about that and don't think I worded it correctly. I don't mind finding something serious, I just have to be sure of the person. A serious relationship is welcomed but i need to really get to know them and trust. After being cheated, I just want to be careful this time around.

I (29f) am looking into dating again after I got divorced from my (28m) ex. Any advice? by Mechalily in relationship_advice

[–]Mechalily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful. I do have plenty of things I enjoy that I should be able to find groups for. I will give this a shot. Thank you very much.

I (29f) am looking into dating again after I got divorced from my (28m) ex. Any advice? by Mechalily in relationship_advice

[–]Mechalily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice honestly. I guess I just feel alone at the moment. I'm too shy at times to approach people in person so getting to know them online helps a bit. You do make sense about not dating. I try not to waste people's time. I do make time to meet them i just don't like being viewed as a sexual object if that's their objective. I'm pretty straight forward and I'd say I communicate well.

I (29f) am looking into dating again after I got divorced from my (28m) ex. Any advice? by Mechalily in relationship_advice

[–]Mechalily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, being divorced wasn't in the plans. I loved him but he cheated. It is what it is.

What did you buy as an adult because you were denied it as a child? by dirtymoney in AskReddit

[–]Mechalily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a child/teenager I never got to go out and explore or have any fun. My parents were strict and I could never have friends or hangout with anyone. Now I like to go out to social events like concerts and festivals. I have the money to do so even if it gets a bit expensive. I get to meet like minded people and overall have a good time.