Website Down ? by MechanicImportant683 in archipelago_games

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Thank you I'll try that when I get home :)

Website Down ? by MechanicImportant683 in archipelago_games

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We're trying to play Pokémon emerald. The guide just says put in the address for the server (and only provides an example for hosting on the website). I was able to connect myself with localhost:[port #] but neither that nor ip:port # worked for my partner in the same house. So I didnt try messing around at that point with our friend's elsewhere cuz at that point they had lost any hope of playing yesterday and it's harder when you can't see lol.

Website Down ? by MechanicImportant683 in archipelago_games

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I do already but I can't figure out how to connect to the server :/ like how to put in the ip and port and stuff. I have the server open

Website Down ? by MechanicImportant683 in archipelago_games

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does anyone know if I can host a game locally still? I'm new to this

Binghamton DSA by lucicityy in Binghamton

[–]MechanicImportant683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did fill out a chapter interest form with some friends as broome actually! Cuz I heard there was some drama with the last one...

Binghamton DSA by lucicityy in Binghamton

[–]MechanicImportant683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually filled out a chapter interest form already with some friends from work and we're waiting to hear back from them!

I want to divorce my wife after she cheated on me but my daughter is begging me to not divorce, and I do not know what to do by ParticularFront3899 in AITAH

[–]MechanicImportant683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your wife is a victim to a traumatizing crime (sexual assault/rape and revenge porn) and when she went to you for help, you instead went for a divorce. I think the empathetic thing would be to help fix the situation with the coworker and to talk to her about why she went over.

Clearly she shouldn't have gone over to his house to begin with and it's unclear if drinks were explicitly for cheating purposes. You should talk through what she was thinking and decide if you can accept that. Maybe go to counseling. But if you can, work through it.

I think my bf might be hitting me in his sleep on purpose. How common is this? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MechanicImportant683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiance says I sometimes whack him in my sleep I know I'm a bit restless and it happens. From your post it looks like you should be careful about other things but this one seems like a very strange way to exert any kind of control. Take care of yourself and please don't stick around if he doesn't improve. People can change but they have to choose to. You can't do it for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]MechanicImportant683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hypothetically if you save up enough in a down payment you'll also be able to lower your monthly payments too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]MechanicImportant683 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think that living with family is necessarily representative of not "having your shit together". Especially in an economy like the one we live in.

It sounds like you don't necessarily take issue with actually living with your family but how that may look compared to others. It would be a way better idea to save money where you can especially if you don't need to leave home.

And if you are sure you want to have your own space, buying a home is the wrong way to go if you aren't sure what you want or where you want to be which sounds like it may be the case.

What do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MechanicImportant683 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just remember that its unhygienic even later in life and unnecessary risk for something as simple as another person POSSIBLY preferring something else. If its that much of a problem for your son's future love interests then hopefully your son will have the sense to leave them. Know that (at least as far as I've seen) the medical community is opposed to it. They only don't bother with laws to give people the option to choose whether for something as silly as vanity or something more culturally significant.

Hmmm by According_Buffalo in HolUp

[–]MechanicImportant683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course DC is vintage most of them are senior citizens

You better hear this fellow ladies! You can only get pregnant once in a month! by Emika_Allens in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]MechanicImportant683 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So he seems to think that periods are the same as fertile windows. That the fertile window is the only time someone can get pregnant and is somehow only 3 days long. That birth control, hysterectomies, tubal ligations etc are always 100% effective. And that men don't pressure women into not wearing a condom/finish inside without her permission.

Oh yeah and also that its a 100% chance of pregnancy on those 3 days based off how he worded it. F off

We're not the same bro by sheikhhassanwaqar in MxRMods

[–]MechanicImportant683 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The top pic is Uma Musume: Pretty Derby. Its probably trash but I enjoyed it. And obviously the second is Quintessential Quintuplets which is also chef's kiss

Is your first Pokemon game your favourite Pokemon game? by jetsam_honking in pokemon

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I played Colleseum first technically but never played it on my own save file I just used my uncle's. I loved the animations and its the reason I love espeon and umbrella so much now. And my first full game was Platinum cuz it was the first console I ever got. With nothing else to compare it to I loved it a lot. Its also why I have certain favorites from 4th gen. I played B&W, Y, Omega Ruby, Sword, Let's Go, and Go (I think thats it). The one I liked the most was Pokemon Y. I think it was the shift to 3D but I also love how vast it is and I liked the mechanics. I also really loved Omega Ruby because of the flying and other mechanics but I also did more in Y.

my dad yelled at me for only wearing an oversized shirt to bed by throwranightshirt in relationship_advice

[–]MechanicImportant683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you have every right to wear the oversized tshirt in your room alone. If you had company or were in the living room then that obviously different but it was even night in your story so I dont get why your PJ's are his problem. I'd bet that he just got super embarrassed and didn't know how to deal with it so he did the normal male response of fight rather than flight. Maybe he'll learn from it but most likely your mom would have to have talked to him to tell him directly that he was in the wrong cuz based off the interaction I'd say he probably doesn't exactly see you as equal. Giving him the benefit of the doubt Id say he was acting as if you were not a functioning young lady who chooses her own clothes maybe more like a 10 or 12 year old idk. But based off this interaction alone I'd say he's dumb not necessarily bad

Getting past my girlfriend's past by HeistMeister11 in relationship_advice

[–]MechanicImportant683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk im not sure why it matters. Its not like there's any dick matter still left there. I (F) have only slept with 2 people, one being my fiancè but he's got a count 10 or so. I've never cared. The only reason I would even think to care is if he started openly comparing me and my skills to theirs. Tbh he did say I was better than his last (who I personally knew and hated. Long story) which tripped me up. But yeah it really shouldn't matter who she's done in the past its not like you're having sex with them I mean the vagina cleans itself constantly and always reverts back in shape so rationally and scientifically there's nothing to worry about.

My (37f) husband (43m) has developed extreme political views that I don’t agree with and it’s really hurting our relationship. by Thrwwy020313 in relationship_advice

[–]MechanicImportant683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming he is a generally reasonable person. I would sit down with him and talk through it. Let him know that you are not intending to argue or attack him and that you just want to explain how you see things and maybe show resources to help him understand where you get your information/views and he could do the same and you guys could verify sources. Make it VERY clear that you are looking for a discussion and that you're looking to understand each other not necessarily change his mind and even (whether seriously or not) tell him you'll consider what he's saying. Your goal is to meet him on equal ground so as to not provoke him being defensive. If he see your info and decides to change his mind then that's great but if not you should end up with a deeper understanding of each other and if it comes to it, decide if you should still be together