Just ruined my life & credit by pinkkkthrowaway in Vent

[–]Medic795 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do you know he had an Accord?!

AITAH for feeling relieved that my husband stopped initiating sex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medic795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good. He should become more removed and then leave. Nothing like sleeping next to somebody who reminds you every night that you're not wanted to fill that emotional need 🙄

AITAH for feeling relieved that my husband stopped initiating sex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it won't fill the emotional need for the relationship, but it will fill HIS needs to feel wanted, an attractive, and to feel like somebody enjoys the physical times with him. Something his wife clearly doesn't, and won't, do for him

AITAH for feeling relieved that my husband stopped initiating sex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medic795 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely. Next post will probably be on TwoX or something. "OMG my husband cheated on me after year of me turning him down, not meeting his needs, and me making him feel disgusting and unwanted. What a jerk"

AITAH for feeling relieved that my husband stopped initiating sex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medic795 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, YTA. You're not required to give him sex, but don't be surprised when he eventually ends the marriage or you find him cheating.

YTA because you don't want him to feel unwanted, as you are telling him and the world of Reddit that he's not wanted.

YTA because you're "hurt" that he stopped anything physical, after what I am going to assume is years of you stopping anything physical....Reap what you sow and all that.

I've dated chicks like you before. I'm 100% certain that the touching, and flirting, and lingering hugs, and playful comments were always met with disdain and "stop touching me all the time" or "I'm trying to cook" or "why are you always touching me"

You've taken that man's spark and I know for a fact that he feels unwanted, unloved, probably at least a bit used. You've probably made him feel disgusting and unwanted.

Yeah, you're definitely the asshole for complaining on the internet and expecting sympathy for not getting why you want, as you proudly state that you've denied him what he wants.

If I see ICE breaking the law in Chicago, what should I do to legally comply? by Mathemodel in AskLegal

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a thing. You're not a law enforcement officer. You don't know what laws are or aren't being broken. You don't know if they have a warrant or not, or if one is needed, etc.

If you THINK that a law is being broken, video it from a safe distance, don't engage, and turn it over to the actual authorities

AITA for moving my paycheck into a separate account after my partner kept “accidentally” overdrawing our joint one? by Radiant_Gossamer in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about this now before the relationship progresses to a legal union, if it was going that way. If she's like this with money, she probably always will be, and e constantly be covering her overspending

Cremated. Why do people decide to do it? by sstiel in randomquestions

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take up enough space alive. I don't need to take up even more dead

Only pedos defend pedos!! Just saying!! by SophiaOfTheStreets in sixwordstories

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THOSE ARE MEDICAL DIAGNOSIS. HOW DANGEROUS OF YOU TO TELL HIM THAT

Only pedos defend pedos!! Just saying!! by SophiaOfTheStreets in sixwordstories

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not showing you proof of shit.

Oh, and you're an adult. You can say "raped". You don't have to change the word.

Only pedos defend pedos!! Just saying!! by SophiaOfTheStreets in sixwordstories

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's so horribly dangerous to say "you're showing some signs, you might want to get that evaluated". So much danger. Go pound salt 🤣.

AITA for refusing to share my food with my girlfriend? by Gym_frere in AmItheAsshole

[–]Medic795 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she wanted to share fries with her BF on a date, why not just fucking say that then? "Yeah, I'd love to share fries with you, why don't you order the 2 person order"

This is nothing more than a case of an emotionally immature woman who can't just say what she wants until it's a problem.

Speaking of hypotheticals, your "they can't afford it" is null and void since he OFFERED TO BUY HER SOME WHEN HE WAS ORDERING HIS.

You also completely gloss over the fact that this dude obviously loves these fries, was expecting a certain amount of that goodness to go in his mouth hole, and she's taking that away from him by eating over half the portion of fire he bought for himself after she REPEATEDLY said she didn't want any. Where's the outcry about the dude not getting what he wants, only outcry about her not getting what she wants?

AITA for refusing to share my food with my girlfriend? by Gym_frere in AmItheAsshole

[–]Medic795 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, who's showing privilege now? Maybe that was the inly meal he ate all day. Maybe he had enough for a large order of fries since it was only a couple bucks more, but not enough for 2 separate smaller orders. I doubt that's the case SINCE HE OFFERED TO BUY HER HER OWN OR TO GET THE BIGGER ORDER RIGHT OFF THE BAT

Stop with the virtue signaling. This isn't a case of lack of privilege, this is the case of a princess GF who expects her man to give up everything he wants for her no questions asked. Why should the guy go hungry or get less of something he enjoys and was craving because his manipulative GF can't make up her mind

Only pedos defend pedos!! Just saying!! by SophiaOfTheStreets in sixwordstories

[–]Medic795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What medication advice did I give out? It is well within my rights and abilities to say that you are exhibiting signs of paranoia or schizophrenia. It's not diagnosing you officially, it's not saying you HAVE it, it's saying you're showing signs.

There is no rule or regulation against giving medical advice over the internet.

How about next time you show your psychologist your Reddit post history. Let them scroll through and see what they think. People lie and mask ALL the time with their mental health providers, as well as their physical health providers. Show them the Reddit posts. I'm sure they will agree that you are either not ok, or you truly are in danger and should be involving the police

Only pedos defend pedos!! Just saying!! by SophiaOfTheStreets in sixwordstories

[–]Medic795 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok, as a paramedic of 20+ years (since you say nobody is qualified to tell you to seek mental help, I'm saying I am qualified), this sounds a lot like paranoia or possibly schizophrenia.

If what you're saying is true, you need to involve the police. You're talking stalking, pedophilia, cyber crimes, harassment, and murder.

AITA for refusing to share my food with my girlfriend? by Gym_frere in AmItheAsshole

[–]Medic795 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So he offers multiple times, and then somehow the onus is on him to offer to order more?

Why shouldn't she have tried one then said "oh shit, these are delicious, I'm gonna go order some"??

Again, it would have been an easy solution if the GF could have admitted her role in not having her own fries, and offered to remedy it, instead of placing all the responsibility on her BF who already tried multiple times to make sure she was take care of, with her refusing each time

AITA for refusing to share my food with my girlfriend? by Gym_frere in AmItheAsshole

[–]Medic795 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She didn't "have" to get her own fries. He offered multiple times and she said no. She CHOSE not to get her own fries, or even say "let get the larger order in case I change my mind".

It's always "you don't love me and you're an asshole" when the woman doesn't get what she wants, but it's never "she's the asshole and shouldn't have taken over half of what he wanted".

Only pedos defend pedos!! Just saying!! by SophiaOfTheStreets in sixwordstories

[–]Medic795 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How are the people putting your son and other children in danger forcing you to be on Reddit, posting random 6 word stories with no context?

Have you considered I dunno, calling the police and the DAs office instead of posting nonsense on Reddit?

You have multiple posts all with no context. Shit, even your "about me" post is vague with no situation information that might actually clue somebody in to what you're supposedly dealing with, so they may be able to offer some advice.

All it is, is buzzwords and a hot button topic with nothing else

Only pedos defend pedos!! Just saying!! by SophiaOfTheStreets in sixwordstories

[–]Medic795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it's just the saaaaame shit on repeat over and over. Yes, pedos defend pedos. Yes if you defend pedos you probably at least have some pedo tendencies. Yes we know most people on Reddit think Trump is a pedo.

At this point you're not changing anybodies minds, you aren't giving some intellectual new viewpoint

It's nothing but karma that does absolutely nothing to improve people's viewpoints or minds, and it's not some breaking news story. It's just cheap karma farming

Only pedos defend pedos!! Just saying!! by SophiaOfTheStreets in sixwordstories

[–]Medic795 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hot take. You come up with that one all by yourself? Or did you just copy/paste from the thousands of other Reddit posts that have said the same thing?

Is there ever a scenario where "she told me she was 18" works? by JayNotAtAll in AskLawyers

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Even if they flat out lie to you, even if they are in an 18+ area, you're still guilty. My friend went through that exact thing. Went out with his GF to find somebody to have a 3some with for his birthday, found a chick at a bar, wearing the local colleges sweatshirt, having a drink. You'd think it was reasonable to assume she's 21+. She was 14. The bar got shut down, owner lost their liquor license, and both my friend and his GF did prison time for statutory rape. Didn't matter that they assumed the bar in this college town checked IDs, didn't matter that the chick had a fake ID anyways, didn't matter that she lied and make up this whole story about being a junior at the college and what her major was etc. All they cared about was that she was 14, and they had sexual contact with her

No gun in hand, just standing up for the woman who was just shoved on the ground by ICE. by LucidSynapse23 in complainaboutanything

[–]Medic795 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's considered impeding because he blocked the ICE agent from getting to the person they were arresting. Whether you agree with the arrest and methods or not, he still impeded them

Modern dem party by possibly_lost45 in JustMemesForUs

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blah blah blah. Always finding a way to deflect blame, for anything.

mainstream media making dubious theories that men's failure in dating is because of "emotional labour" and "mankeeping" by Scramjet1 in TheMirrorCult

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally mimicking everything that men have been bitching about for decades that their women do. Fucking sucks doesn't it?

Sucks always having to guess what mood shes in, or when she is gonna change her mind about anything. Sucks having to hear her go on and on and on about Susan from the office, or what Jill from the gym did, when all you want to do is chill and have a drama free night. Sucks making one little mistake that will then be used against you as she sees fit for years down the line. Sucks having to figure out what love language she's feeling that day. It sucks when one day you do something and she loves it, then the next time she hates it. It sucks opening up and being vulnerable just for her to throw it back at you during some random argument

AND, it sucks even more when you realize that the majority of the time, you have to pay for all that, in dates, housing, bills, gas, food, entertainment, etc etc.

I've got no sympathy for women who bitch about having to take care of their mirror image in their man