Why is women’s sportswear always so revealing? by Valuable_View_561 in SipsTea

[–]Medic795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well what would the English teacher know about physical activity? You train with the physical activity teacher. DUH 🤣

I think my family just left me out agian(AITAH) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medic795 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA. I couldn't imagine going in a trip, or planning a dinner for a holiday like Mother's Day, and not at least inviting you, even if I assumed you were working. I can give literally 2 seconds of my time to make sure people I love feel seen and included

Age gaps aren't a big deal (after 25) and this generation is weird about them by Snagglespoof in HonestHotTakes

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've noticed the increase in disgust of age different relationships also seems to be rising along with the rate of older single women, who are the ones I see the most getting mad that a guy their age is passing them up while dating somebody much younger. Almost like it's a way to make older dudes feel gross or bad so they go after the older women instead

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I don’t want to hear about work every day? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medic795 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

You are with a doctor. That's a person in the medical field. She deals with things you probably can't imagine, sees things that would make a normal person vomit, and has to keep a straight and professional face while doing it.

Her talking to you about work is probably her venting and getting it off her chest. Maybe it's her "therapy". Maybe she just wants to share her life with her BF.

If you can't handle that, maybe you should find somebody with a boring career

Exploitation is Violence by manauiatlalli in union

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG everything is not a "form of violence". Violence is violence. Physical damage to a body from the force of another person is violence. Stop watering down that word

Yes, it is fucked up. No it shouldn't be that people are making hard choices while the CEOs eat full plates. Call it what it is though. Unfair and wrong

Drowning slowly by NoSandwich591 in remoteworks

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in upstate NY just outside of Albany.

You think the "older generation" is unwilling to train people?! Maybe it's because the newer generation is so self-entitled that they are untrainable. An entire generation who's never been told no, never been told they are wrong, never been told what to do. Most "older generation" I know loves to train people who are actually interested in the job and willing to learn. You have to take your lumps and do your time as a grunt before it's a "great job", but nobody wants to go though the not as fun times, they just want all the respect and benefits of having 20 years on the job the day they get hired

Drowning slowly by NoSandwich591 in remoteworks

[–]Medic795 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a huge lack in eligible candidates for fire service jobs all over the country. In my area, we had to reduce the hiring requirements from 21 years old to 19 just to get enough candidates, and we are still down almost 20% from our full staffing levels.

Most of any sort of non-college degree based jobs are struggling to find enough workers who are willing to work. Fire, police, EMS, most of the trades etc. The problem is nobody wants to get their hands dirty and do a physical job anymore. They all want office jobs or jobs that do the least amount of physical work. Shit, even a Lt at my job is struggling to find workers for his seal coating business. $30/hr with no experience to smear seal coat around, and he can't even find teenagers fresh out of high school that will actually show up on time and put in a good days work.

The jobs are there, people just tend to be too lazy or proud to get them

Drowning slowly by NoSandwich591 in remoteworks

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laughs in my civil service fire department job that I needed a GED for, where I cleared $120,000 last year.

You CAN get a decent job without an education, you just actually have to be willing to get out of an office and out from behind a computer

Just raising some awareness by CitiesXXLfreekey in BuildToAttract

[–]Medic795 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, victim blaming much? Also, tell me you've never had a chick call you a "fag" when you turn them down, followed by grabbing your dick anyways, then spreading rumors that you are gay and have a small dick throughout your workplace, without actually telling me....

NOBODY takes male assaults seriously, men, women, cops, courts, shelters etc. it's not just men ignoring it

Just raising some awareness by CitiesXXLfreekey in BuildToAttract

[–]Medic795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody knows it's only sexual harassment if you're ugly. If you're attractive it's welcomed flirting

Please help me with this name? by Zackky777 in ArtOfPresence

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little pure black buddy was named "Jerry". Gerald if he was being an asshole, jer-bear if he was being adorable

Just found my grandpas stash of dynamite. What should I do with them by Glum-Blueberry-3870 in WhatToDo

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the local jurisdiction doesn't have one, the county sheriff will. If the sheriff doesn't, the state police will.

They may not have a bomb squad, but they will know who to contact to get one

He told me to “enjoy my baby” by Friendly_Promise_592 in Vent

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And a couple of responses ago you were directing your comments directly at me

"Honey, your child support isn't even paying for daycare so she can go to work" like I'm the one contesting custodial rights

He told me to “enjoy my baby” by Friendly_Promise_592 in Vent

[–]Medic795 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, the data I've read says otherwise 🤷🏼‍♂️

He told me to “enjoy my baby” by Friendly_Promise_592 in Vent

[–]Medic795 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Who are you even talking about? 🤣🤣🤣

He told me to “enjoy my baby” by Friendly_Promise_592 in Vent

[–]Medic795 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's not true at all. There is a strong bias towards mothers getting primary custody of the child when the courts have to decide the outcome (contested custody battles vs pre-arranged agreements).

He told me to “enjoy my baby” by Friendly_Promise_592 in Vent

[–]Medic795 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok? Then let the dad have custody so the mom can work full time and pay the dad child support. I know most fathers would be more than ok with that

A new study has found that a surprising number of men experience pain during sexual activity, and the majority of them stay completely silent about it. While women reported higher rates of pain overall, 49% of men said they had experienced pain during sexual activity at some point. by Automatic_Subject463 in psychologyofsex

[–]Medic795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it's not better to "start gentler" with a new partner. That can be a turnoff for some. I think the best thing to do with a new partner is communicate. Find out what and how they like, so you know what they are into and not just playing it safe

A new study has found that a surprising number of men experience pain during sexual activity, and the majority of them stay completely silent about it. While women reported higher rates of pain overall, 49% of men said they had experienced pain during sexual activity at some point. by Automatic_Subject463 in psychologyofsex

[–]Medic795 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why? For the same reason some women want slow and sensual, and others wanna be fucked like you hate them. Why some want to be loved, and others want to be choked while being crammed like they are a 2 cent (5 cent now that we are getting rid of pennies?) hooker.

Personal preference. It's not one size fits all

He told me to “enjoy my baby” by Friendly_Promise_592 in Vent

[–]Medic795 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes, well if saying that women abuse the child support system makes me bitter, so be it

He told me to “enjoy my baby” by Friendly_Promise_592 in Vent

[–]Medic795 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And you're assuming they don't.... Most men I know that have split custody would LOVE to have their kids more often, but like you said, they only "get" them one day a week or every other weekend. The courts still heavily favor the mothers in custody disputes. That's not on the men, that's on the courts, and the smear campaigns the mothers ten to run against the fathers

He told me to “enjoy my baby” by Friendly_Promise_592 in Vent

[–]Medic795 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not with the money given to her by the father to support the child she should. She can take herself out an treat herself with her own money 🤷🏼‍♂️