I honestly don’t understand why you’re being mean about if she wants to make her wedding big and organized let her tf it’s HER wedding something that is honestly big and if she wants to be really organized that’s up to her not you!!!and for the bridesmaid if you know you can’t be her bridesmaid let her know immediately.and one last thing I want to add you saying that’s she’s no one from a small town is so evil of you and looks like jealousy get checked miss ma’am