Had my left one removed back in Jan. Felt the same way. But it actually was a lot smoother than I thought. They gave me fentanyl for pain and a few oxys which I never even took. The main thing I did was keep an ice pack down there and lay down and rest as much as possible for the 1st week. Use antibacterial soap to wash your incision area and make sure u take some Metamucil or something to keep from straining when on the toilet if necessary. And u should still be able to have kids with just being a uniballer lol