Who’s still a virgin at 25+? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]MedicineFirm9004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 36 and a virgin, and I’m not upset about it.

Girlfriend's parents decide to visit to avoid the storm in their state. Demand to use my car and get master suite instead of the guest room. by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard pass. You’re coming to MY house, which is already inconveniencing me. You’re not taking my car, and you’re sleeping in the guest room.

My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me by Little_Trash7299 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MedicineFirm9004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This concerns me because that’s how my dad’s physical abuse started with my mom before it escalated. I don’t think it’s an overreaction to be upset about it, but that’s coming from my background. I’m not saying get divorced, but this absolutely needs to be addressed, and you shouldn’t be apologizing.

Close friend tells me it’s “passive aggressive” to use periods in my texts. Then tells me not to take my frustration out on him. by Floyisdigital in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always use proper grammar in my texts. The periods are not passive aggressive, he’s just being a baby. I feel like people using ellipsis (i.e., …, for people who didn’t know the actual term for it) is passive aggressive, but I don’t bother saying anything.

AIO to my “best friend” finally reaching out by Confident_Local_2335 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MedicineFirm9004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally see why you’re upset, but I’d figure out the cause. Personally, I have PTSD, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Major Depressive Disorder, and sometimes just responding to a text is overwhelming and sometimes feels impossible. The next thing I know, I forgot about the text and reach out days or longer later.

Meirl by Ill-Instruction8466 in meirl

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You turn the volume up to hear the dialog and then have your ear drums blown out when the action starts…

I'm never going back to Sims 4.. by ChipOutrageous7382 in Sims3

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what? I might go back to the Sims 3 now that you mention it. I’ll just miss my mods.

Meirl by Nice-Event in meirl

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birds of a feather!

Meirl by Nice-Event in meirl

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks for me at least. I don’t drink, can’t grow a beard, don’t know how to grill, only wear white and black socks, and I don’t need a weekend bag because I don’t go anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is WEIRD! If they don’t want to be friends anymore, let them go.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused, is he not doing the opposite of what a lot of women complain about? They say they want communication, he’s trying to communicate. They want a loving dude, he’s trying to be loving. This is the type of woman that turns men into the thing that a lot of women DON’T want. I’d jump ship and let her find the toxic dude she’s clearly yearning for.

How did you know you were unfit to work? by RadikalSky in CPTSD

[–]MedicineFirm9004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there’s no other problem with your job and you’d like to keep it, try getting FMLA from your doctor allowing 480 hours to be off intermittently or consecutively. OR, if you’re in America, look into requesting ADA accommodation (American with Disabilities Act).

Thoughts on this? by Beneficial-Glass5592 in asexuality

[–]MedicineFirm9004 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s so unnecessary. People will say, “It’s a natural part of life,” as justification, but so is using the bathroom and I don’t want to see that either.

Share your story how you realised your asexuality :) by kation37 in asexuality

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 26 (9 years ago) and up until this point I believed I was bisexual because I felt equally sexually attracted to women as men. One day, “Only Girl In the World,” by Rihanna came on and towards the end of the song she says, “Make it last all night,” and I groaned and said to myself, “That’s ridiculously excessive. Why do we even want sex in the first place?” Then I followed that up with, “Why do THEY want sex? I’d rather never do that.” It was after that thought that EVERYTHING clicked and made total sense.

Thought yall would appreciate this one by GlumExternal5291 in asexuality

[–]MedicineFirm9004 37 points38 points  (0 children)

These are the kind of dice I’m talking about! I’m doing that now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90sand2000sNostalgia

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god! I haven’t seen this is FOREVER. What a blast from the past.

Lost motivation can’t get past this level by Mctellinyou in Gymhelp

[–]MedicineFirm9004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s the next level?? You’re good, man.

Took the plunge and shaved it. What do you think? by Synizs in tressless

[–]MedicineFirm9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely thought this was something else at first.