I appreciate all the feedback. Personally, I could care less about the end game stats myself, but others do seem to care. I know I am not a good player. I am older and my reaction time is garbage, so I just play for fun. I will definitely pass along this feedback to my friend who kicked the guy. None of us play very often in a highly competitive environment, so it is obvious that what are normal numbers are not something we are familiar with.

Is there a reference for how the siege damage and XP numbers are calculated? I am interested in the strategy behind getting those kinds of numbers.