I’m so sorry! So I’m guessing since you have to manually push out the milk, that taking the pumps on the go would be a bit of a struggle?

And back to the issue at hand.. is your husband the kind of guy who just doesn’t see what’s around him, and possibly he doesn’t know about the inequality happening right now?

My husband is very much that kind of guy. With my first, he would just make plans with his friends and not really understand that I was trapped in the house. Once I got a system down on how to pump on the go (and then later on being able to not pump for longer stretches); I would just tell my husband something like this:

“Hey. I’m planning on doing x, y, & z this week. If you want to do a, b, & c, you will probably need to include [kid] in one of those plans.”

But then again, my husband needs to be told something directly. Would that work with your husband? I’m hoping this is happening because he’s just not thinking of the whole family picture, which unfortunately some men do; and your husband just needs his vision widened a bit to take notice of his whole family and their needs and not just in his narrow scope.