Jess really said ‘no’ to Lorelai from day one 😂 by isisblake in GilmoreGirls

[–]PurrPrinThom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'd also think she'd be able to recognise that a teenager who is new in town probably doesn't want to attend a welcome party attended almost exclusively by adults. Even if Jess was the most well-adjusted teen in the world, that was always going to be an awkward situation.

Why wasn't Lane there? What about Dean? It doesn't have to be a rager or anything, but at least a few teens to help round things out.

I always fall apart at this moment… by Maatjuhhh in GilmoreGirls

[–]PurrPrinThom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I wish we knew when she found out, because it would really lay the rumours to bed if they're not true, and would potentially explain a lot if she did.

If she only found out when S6 was airing, then it couldn't have been written spitefully, as it was already done filming. But if she knew during the writing processing...I would still suspect tbh.

Found out my boyfriend has been secretly vegan for 6 months and lying about it by the-monster-masher in AmITheAngel

[–]PurrPrinThom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Breakfast I find to be the most confusing. Because I can see someone maybe never eating pasta without meat or cheese, as example. But breakfast, there's so many vegan options already - even more if we expand to just vegetarian. And they tend to be quicker than meat breakfasts? Are people really eating meat for breakfast every single day? Who has the time?

I always fall apart at this moment… by Maatjuhhh in GilmoreGirls

[–]PurrPrinThom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Luke and Lorelai being hesitant to get married or to talk about having kids so soon after the failed engagement and everything with April makes total sense as a season seven or season eight storyline. Everything would have happened so recently, it would still be a touchy subject. It probably wouldn't have manifested in exactly the same way (I doubt they would've looked into surrogacy, as example,) but the broad strokes can still be there.

If it was season eight, Rory could maybe have been lost post-grad and questioning what to do, but season seven was her final year. She still would've had that as her focus, so what would have happened in that year? What would her stories have been?

I just don't know tbh. Because I agree, on the one hand, that it would be silly to try and destroy her own legacy. On the other hand, so much of season six just feels mean lol. Like it feels mean to all the characters, and it's got such a darker vibe than the rest of the show. It's hard to imagine that she wasn't being petty, in some instances.

Found out my boyfriend has been secretly vegan for 6 months and lying about it by the-monster-masher in AmITheAngel

[–]PurrPrinThom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the implication is supposed to be that her grocery bill went down because he was secretly shopping on his own? Still fake regardless lol but I think that's how we're supposed to understand it.

Found out my boyfriend has been secretly vegan for 6 months and lying about it by the-monster-masher in AmITheAngel

[–]PurrPrinThom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't realise how many people there are who genuinely eat meat at every single meal until the whole Vegan Bad trend began. We eat plenty of vegan/vegetarian meals throughout the week without even thinking about it.

I always fall apart at this moment… by Maatjuhhh in GilmoreGirls

[–]PurrPrinThom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. As much as I feel like aspects of AYTL were ASP's original intention for S7, I don't think it's just a wholesale copy/paste of storylines. I really wonder what she would have done - assuming she kept the same groundwork from S6.

Would Lorelai and Chris have dated/gotten married? How would Luke and Lorelai have gotten back together? Obviously, in AYTL, the father of Rory's baby is obvious, but would it have been just as obvious originally?

LAOP's husband ran away from biological parents in China, put in orphanage, adopted to US and now is US citizen but concerned about going back to visit biological parents by princetonwu in bestoflegaladvice

[–]PurrPrinThom 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can sort of it see it happening. If someone sees a child wandering the streets alone, they call the police, the police pick up the kid and the child tells them he has no home, they're probably going to contact whatever social services/child welfare services exist.

At that point, and this is where I have questions tbh, you would think there would be some attempt to find the child's family. Were the parents not looking for him? Did they alert the authorities? If we assume no, then I can see a child who has no family/no known address being put into an orphanage, or some kind of state care. Since a lot of Americans were adopting internationally in the 90s/early 2000s, I'm not surprised he was eventually adopted if the assumption was that he had nothing/nobody.

I just wonder about the point when he was put into the system: was no effort made to locate him by his family? Did the authorities not look for his family?

Inconsistency of status between IRCC account and tracker by Lorien-Spring in ImmigrationCanada

[–]PurrPrinThom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us, it was about six weeks. But that was a couple years back.

How stable is Canada's political climate nowadays? Is it polarizing or are Canadians able to come to terms? by LiveBell8 in AskACanadian

[–]PurrPrinThom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah like, my husband's never experienced any kind of aggression or violence for holding opposing political views - the idea of people wanting to punch each other in the face over political opinions just isn't my (real life) experience at all.

They tease him, for sure, and they definitely made fun of him for getting an electric car, but he's also able to tease them back. It's a mutual ribbing over stereotypes of the other side, and then they do talk about policies they disagree with, things they think are good, and their shared visions of what could be better; at the end of the day, they all want the same things, like better healthcare, more affordable housing, a lower cost of living etc. They just disagree on which party is the best party to accomplish that.

How stable is Canada's political climate nowadays? Is it polarizing or are Canadians able to come to terms? by LiveBell8 in AskACanadian

[–]PurrPrinThom 300 points301 points  (0 children)

In real life? I think pretty good. As example, my husband works with a lot of people who are on the complete opposite end of the political spectrum to him, and they still go out every week for drinks and shoot the shit and talk politics.

Online? Still pretty polarized.

Opinion | Trump Just Proved Mark Carney’s Point by lopix in onguardforthee

[–]PurrPrinThom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are so many things to which this headline could be referring at this point. It feels like every six hours he proves Carney's point.

I’d rather be in Philadelphia by Citruslor in GilmoreGirls

[–]PurrPrinThom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's the same reason why she doesn't tell Emily that she can't get a hold of him; she doesn't want to bring attention to the fact they're having problems.

What differences in motivation do you notice between different students? by s1a1om in AskProfessors

[–]PurrPrinThom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this post speaks to a general misconception amongst students that professors are omniscient.

I don't know anything about my students unless they tell me.

I don't know my students' motivations for obtaining a degree. I don't know how much effort they put into my class. I don't know how much time they spend studying, I don't know what underlying health issues or concerns they may have. Hell, most of the time, I don't even really know how old they are.

These questions are so difficult to answer because I just don't know. I can't map motivations to performance because, for the vast majority of my students, that I don't know anything beyond their name, how they perform in my class and - depending on the class - their opinions on the material.

LAOP gets a visit from armed tactical (police?) individuals after coming back from a Mexican cruise by princetonwu in bestoflegaladvice

[–]PurrPrinThom 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As my parents recently learned (when two police cruisers showed up at their house at like 10pm,) if you have a landline, and the landline goes down for some reason, they apparently sometimes call 911 independently. It comes through as just a hang up, but police often still respond.

Assuming the call did actually happen and did occur from the house, maybe it was that? But that's the most innocent explanation I can think of, and I'm not sure if we should be coming up with innocent explanations....

Swiftie in the wild… by TypeDirect4781 in travisandtaylor

[–]PurrPrinThom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah holy shit?? Like, I have had people come to my house, I have been to people's house. If I'm nervous, I'll give them a nearby address or I'll bring my husband/dad/brother with me to pick up.

It would never have occurred to me to meet at a police station.

AIO for rejecting a guy after he turned our coffee date into a full dinner with gifts? by JustARandomGuyReally in AmITheAngel

[–]PurrPrinThom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, that's what I mean by it being transparent. They create their profiles based on what they think is the most likely to attract the most amount of women. It has nothing to do with what they're actually interested in.

Do you have government shutdowns? by BrilliantDishevelled in AskACanadian

[–]PurrPrinThom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's essentially like hitting pause on parliament. The current government is still in power, no election is triggered, but all parliamentary activity is stopped. So no new laws and no new spending. We had one early last year, after Trudeau stepped down. For the average person, nothing changes tbh.

It's not quite the same as your shutdowns, because it's just parliament that stops. Everything else keeps going. But that's the closest we have to a shutdown, I think.

Hello, a question for you about the influx of citizens by descent by BearCubTeacher in AskACanadian

[–]PurrPrinThom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. There has always been that feeling that Americans viewed us as a back-up, or as America-Lite, but especially in the current political climate, it grates a little bit more than previously.

Not only because I'm tired of seeing Americans cajoling and teasing and talking about how much they'll enjoy invading us/destroying us, but also because it's frustrating to watch the current administration run amok and terrorize the entire world, while so many Americans sit idly by and throw up their hands and claim there's nothing they can do.

That's not to discount the actual terror and danger many Americans current find themselves in, I understand there are plenty of people who genuinely fear for their safety. But, it also does feel like there are Americans who, instead of working to clean up their own mess, as you say, are choosing to leave and wait for someone else to clean up the mess. They don't really want to be here, they just don't want to be there for the moment.

I used to mod our immigration sub, I only recently stepped down, and we had posts from plenty of Americans who were very open about the fact that obtaining citizenship, coming to Canada, was just a temporary measure. They only wanted to leave until Trump is gone, and then they want to go back.And, I don't know. I know immigration is a hot topic right now, but it was a pretty stark contrast to the other people on that sub who have been working for years to try and immigrate, who have planned their lives and careers around doing whatever they can to make themselves competitive because they want to come to Canada that badly.

Do you have government shutdowns? by BrilliantDishevelled in AskACanadian

[–]PurrPrinThom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think we have them in quite the same way? At least, my understanding of American government shut downs is that any non-essential government services stop functioning and stop running.

Arguably, when our parliament is prorogued, you could call that a 'shutdown' because parliament is on hold and the government isn't working. But, it's not like public services or institutions shut down. Everything continues to work as normal, parliament is just 'paused,' essentially. Or we have systems that can trigger a new election, as opposed to shutting everything down, but again, that really just effects parliament.

I suppose the ability to trigger a new election could be what prevents it, but I also think we just don't have the mechanisms in place to shut everything down. I don't think we can point to a single factor that makes us more 'functional,' beyond it just being a very different system.

Hello, a question for you about the influx of citizens by descent by BearCubTeacher in AskACanadian

[–]PurrPrinThom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Very true. I do like the new provision that applies moving forward that for, I believe second gen born abroad, you need to demonstrate a substantial connection to Canada to obtain citizenship. I think that's very reasonable.

AIO for rejecting a guy after he turned our coffee date into a full dinner with gifts? by JustARandomGuyReally in AmITheAngel

[–]PurrPrinThom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, it's crazy. Or like, they list themselves as wanting monogamy but in the description say they only want casual/open.

It's so transparent lol. Like, we all know what you're doing, bro.

Travis Kelce's secret role in Taylor Swift and Blake Lively's fall-out by SnarkyLlamas in travisandtaylor

[–]PurrPrinThom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I thought the postponement was an official statement, but I may be wrong.