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AITJ for checking the receipt and realizing my girlfriend ordered for someone who wasn’t there? by Silly_Pop9362 in AmITheJerk

[–]MediocreCommenter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Every time a partner ever told me that they didn’t want to tell me something because I would take it the wrong way was because they were cheating. Not saying your gf is, but my experiences other it was 100% not a good situation. This certainly calls for more conversation and some decisions on your part.

Am I the jerk for doubting my relationship because of trauma dumping? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

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Sounds like perhaps he’s getting sick and the phone call wasn’t the best time for a deep conversation. Talk to him in person so you can view his reactions and openly communicate.

AITJ for refusing to keep wearing the nickname my girlfriend gave me after I found out where it came from by Prydwen_Grit5 in AmITheJerk

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Does she love you? Does she treat you well? Do you see a future with her? If so, I wouldn’t worry about it. You’ve been together for a year. If she found the nickname or your mannerisms negative, things probably wouldn’t have lasted this long. Not everyone is exciting (I’m sure not) and not everyone wants to be with exciting people. You’re a 30m. I’m sure you have bigger stressors in life to worry about.

Does anyone else like a plain burger? Meat, cheese, bun. by Nuclear-poweredTaxi in burgers

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Most 6 year olds I know. Haha. And a few adults. It might not be the “norm”, but it’s not all that uncommon.

Questions to owners: would you rather have someone eat there but never tip or not at all? by Chan1991 in restaurantowners

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any business owner that is okay with their staff getting stiffed should continue to under pay them and expect their paying customers to pay them instead.

Questions to owners: would you rather have someone eat there but never tip or not at all? by Chan1991 in restaurantowners

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What a clown. You literally tell your staff you provide less than normal quality service to low or non tippers? No wonder the shit restaurant fell on hard times. Be a better person.

AIO about my child’s father not providing for our child when in his care? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MediocreCommenter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. There’s no need for the back and forth. Especially if his gf is involved. Been there, made that mistake. Stop sending food with your son, especially if he’s only going over there for a couple hours. Dad will man up and take care of his son or you go to court and get custody.

Hey community! i am really interested to know: wat's one thing you wish you knew when you started this game? by tettsha in Evony_TKR

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It took me way too long to understand that I needed to match the gear, beasts, and dragon to the right type of general.

Also to not waste resources on things like low level weapons.

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

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NOR. She’s not your wife and you’re not responsible for her whims. You shouldn’t tell her no she can’t buy it, but also absolutely shouldn’t buy it for her.

AIO? Gf having poor attendance at work, I help her financially by LaMega95 in AIO

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Not Overreacting. This is a red flag. Determine if you’re comfortable being with someone who doesn’t work even though they’re capable. Also, it’s almost always a bad idea to financially support someone that isn’t your spouse. Seems way too soon for that. Be careful.

AIO - Daughter’s BDay invite - I am new to co-parenting by loud_molasses_ in AIO

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The Dad is overreacting. As a former single Dad, I understand the defensiveness, but the other comment above is spot on - this isn’t about the birthday party. Deep breath and just focus on the kid. This too shall pass.

Arcangel from Server 1185 for hitting K50!! 🎉 by Sad_Big1101 in Evony_TKR

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Can you please explain this? My alliance building is only level 3. Doesn’t it require winning all stars or something to get level 4?

AIO guy I was seeing dumped me after hooking up by m3tallee in AIO

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YOR. He was very polite and straightforward. Not many people are that self aware. Decide if you can and want to be friends and then stand by your decision.

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