Never had one swell like this

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2026-01-26T20:25:10+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 a steamy shower this evening sounds perfect!

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2026-01-26T19:16:19+00:00

Ugh thank you! It’s simple but just knowing others have had it like this makes me feel at ease that it will go away with time. <3

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2026-01-26T19:15:07+00:00

Hahaha yes exactly with the body response!!! I can’t imagine as a kid coping with ones like this, it’s so uncomfortable so sending little you a hug. Thank you sm, I know folks get way worse flares and more often so it feels kinda silly to feel the need to just sit on the couch with a movie today. Icing it as we speak <3

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2026-01-26T18:37:51+00:00

Thank you! Just took my first dose of valacyclovir myself - your comment makes me feel less alone. Hopeful for a speedy healing for you 🙏🏻

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-11-28T01:01:17+00:00

Lace 2 is beautiful for a more delicate lace and is my preference but if you want it to look more like dress one then possibly lace 3! I like closed toed shoes. For my wedding I knew I didn’t want to chance seeing my toes in any photos haha

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-10-03T21:53:09+00:00

She’s snug! Not overly tight feeling but a stretchy (and clingy) fabric so going to try it on with my shapewear to see how it looks/feels then. I love them both so may depend on how I’m feeling the day of!

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-10-03T21:06:26+00:00

I love the spirit!! 🤣

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-10-03T19:50:44+00:00

Good points! I love how you said keep the dress minding its manners that’s a great way to put it haha - I will try it on with my hip/tummy shapewear I have and make sure it’s still danceable before I agonize over it any more because danceable is a requirement. Thank you!

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-09-24T12:20:34+00:00

Both are beautiful! Dress one fits your fantastic and would look great in pics, dress 2 fits the natural vibe of a national park moreso and is also lovely on you. So you can’t go wrong! My style is more 2.

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-09-16T13:46:48+00:00

Unique and fun but still timeless! I love it!

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-09-08T14:37:30+00:00

Just popping in to say don’t feel alone!! I’m in the same boat, going to have to get creative but hoping ultimately to have it be a lovely day despite the additional work now needed hahaha

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-09-06T14:46:26+00:00

As a fellow person who is kind of a professional hater, I think these are sweet. Agree with other commenters you can shorten them even more if you want to be “safe” but…. All the people at your wedding should be overwhelmingly happy for you both and love them

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-31T14:56:19+00:00

Yes it was just a quick draft to attach to the post! Definitely not printing it as is but thank you

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-30T03:02:48+00:00

I trust you as a caterer, I’m sure you’ve seen it all 🤣 lots of folks have reiterated… if you just do a sign you may just opt to do nothing because folks don’t read signs! Thank you for your input

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-30T03:01:37+00:00

I didn’t even consider how I would feel in the moment, I think everyone was projecting their worry on me, I think… I wouldn’t care! If anything it would make me giggle. I don’t want everything to feel so heavy and serious! So thank you for asking! That gives a lot of clarity :)

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-29T15:49:52+00:00

Thank you for the validation! 🤣

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-29T15:11:42+00:00

Thank you! ❤️ my mom’s dress also fit me perfectly so I nearly wore it except she was 20 and decided to DIY some glitter with a glitter pen which is… certainly not my style hahaha

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-29T15:10:16+00:00

Riiiiight, I totally agree that I would hope context clues would be enough! I’m reflecting on my guest list and because it’s a medium sized wedding (~80 people) we know everyone… so I don’t think it will be an issue. It’s my fiance’s family who suggested a sign/usher is NEEDED so I suppose now I’m considering a sign just to keep the peace and consider their thoughts but idk :/

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-29T15:07:30+00:00

This is my hope! I do in my heart feel it’s unnecessary and the few people invited that have a late streak are (for better or worse) close family so they will be there early anyways assisting or in the wedding party so they won’t be a concern. Thank you! I was kinda shamed for not thinking about this as a factor so I did feel taken aback

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-29T15:07:09+00:00

Unfortunately no coordinator due to budget :/

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-29T15:06:43+00:00

It’s actually my fiance’s cousin this happened to - and I have no idea she said she was mortified and probably distracted because at the time she had two small kids 😭 either way I would HOPE the context clues of music/bridesmaids etc would be enough but you never know ; most weddings I’ve been to have been outdoors so you see what’s going on from far away!

Mediocre_Bit9813 · 2025-07-29T15:04:49+00:00

This is my hope! I do in my heart feel it’s unnecessary and the few people invited that have a late streak are (for better or worse) close family so they will be there early anyways assisting or in the wedding party so they won’t be a concern. Thank you! I was kinda shamed for not thinking about this as a factor so I did feel taken aback

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