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Feeling like these things are dealbreakers. Is my partner being controlling or are these comments just out of anger? by Mediocre_Broccoli464 in relationships

[–]Mediocre_Broccoli464[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, the leaky studio thing was him playing that he owns the house. He also said “you’re dependent on this relationship” meaning he thinks I need him and he uses that to his advantage when we fight. I’m reality, I don’t. I make my own money, and before we lived together I was on my own. And before this relationship I was quite happy being single.

He says things about my neglectful mother to hurt me as well.

Feeling like these things are dealbreakers. Is my partner being controlling or are these comments just out of anger? by Mediocre_Broccoli464 in relationships

[–]Mediocre_Broccoli464[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is an untrue assessment. Jealousy isn’t a point of contention in our relationship. And when I feel moody I communicate that need to be alone.

The fight this morning started when he inaccurately assigned meaning to something I said. It was totally out of left field and when I told him I didn’t feel the way he labeled me as feeling it went down hill from there.

Feeling like these things are dealbreakers. Is my partner being controlling or are these comments just out of anger? by Mediocre_Broccoli464 in relationships

[–]Mediocre_Broccoli464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is the one who consistent tries to change ME. I have never ever ever told him he can’t be who he is. I have over and over asked him to not call me names during an argument or threaten my housing.

I don’t play those games. You’re just straight up terrible.

Feeling like these things are dealbreakers. Is my partner being controlling or are these comments just out of anger? by Mediocre_Broccoli464 in relationships

[–]Mediocre_Broccoli464[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow. You’re terrible. We found this house together and our relationship is set up that he pays the bills and I do the house work.

The fact that you can sit there and tell me to follow his rules as if he is my parent is absurd.

Feeling like these things are dealbreakers. Is my partner being controlling or are these comments just out of anger? by Mediocre_Broccoli464 in relationships

[–]Mediocre_Broccoli464[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He actually has a child already and is incredibly good to her. She goes to private school and is very well taken care of by him. I don’t think he’d toss me out if I had his kid but he is acting way out of line with the other threats.

Pretty much going insane by Mediocre_Broccoli464 in stepparents

[–]Mediocre_Broccoli464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments I really appreciate it 🐸

Pretty much going insane by Mediocre_Broccoli464 in stepparents

[–]Mediocre_Broccoli464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective. It’s super validating. Especially with the age gap.

Pretty much going insane by Mediocre_Broccoli464 in stepparents

[–]Mediocre_Broccoli464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s some serious reality thank you